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> <channel><title>Comments on: Interview #2 with Wes Hayden &#8211; Why Wasn&#8217;t He at the &#8220;Men Tell All&#8221;?</title> <atom:link href="http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/</link> <description>My sarcastic, slanted, sophomoric, and skewed view on the world of reality television</description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 23:47:14 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1</generator> <item><title>By: shanamc</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27360</link> <dc:creator>shanamc</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 00:51:08 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27360</guid> <description>I was actually buying Wes&#039; sob story until I went to his web site. If any of you really think he&#039;s not benefiting from his stint on the Bachelorette, check it out. Right there on his home page appears the heading &quot;The Bachelorette&quot; in big capital letters, and right below that he invites folks to &quot;download the song Wes sang to Jillian on TV&quot;. You can&#039;t have it both ways buckaroo.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was actually buying Wes&#8217; sob story until I went to his web site. If any of you really think he&#8217;s not benefiting from his stint on the Bachelorette, check it out. Right there on his home page appears the heading &#8220;The Bachelorette&#8221; in big capital letters, and right below that he invites folks to &#8220;download the song Wes sang to Jillian on TV&#8221;. You can&#8217;t have it both ways buckaroo.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: dancingqueen</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27177</link> <dc:creator>dancingqueen</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 00:38:45 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27177</guid> <description>for the record, i believe what wes is saying and feel bad for him. but you are seriously so gay for him it&#039;s ridiculous.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>for the record, i believe what wes is saying and feel bad for him. but you are seriously so gay for him it&#8217;s ridiculous.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Vivi</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27074</link> <dc:creator>Vivi</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 06:07:46 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27074</guid> <description>INTERVIEW #2 WITH WES HAYDEN - WHY WASNâ€™T HE AT THE â€œMEN TELL ALLâ€?&quot;Who cares!I thought Wes did a much better during his 1st radio interview.Personally, RS ... I think you did Wes no favor with you style of interview, memorializing all the negative moments and not once talking up the positive, and there were positive moments during his time on The Bachelorette.Moreover, talk about disingenuous. Whose idea was it for Wes to deny going on the show to sell CDs ... of course he did! And why bother to insinuate he never spoke negatively about the other men, when he did on film and, again, during the very same 1st RS interview?Wes should have shell out a grand and talk to a media consultant specializing in damage control to map out a winning strategy instead of listing to a bunch of yahoos about how fix what he, himself, broke.Moreover, Wes should have been screaming, &quot;How dare ABC slice and dice footage to insinuate Jillian wasn&#039;t exciting and desirable enough for me, or any man on the show. Yes, I went on the show to promote my music, but I was also curious, and eventually surprised how taken I became with Jillian. She is one amazing woman!&quot;That is the story that sells, as opposed to boohooing about losing five gigs to the tune of $30 grand ... that implied it is all about money and has always been about money.Even so, Wes did sink his own ship with his big mouth. Although I never thought he had a girlfriend, I don&#039;t believe for a minute he sliced and diced that much; liquored up, yes, but no one force feed him, did they?Complete waste of bandwidth, RS. Complete waste of opportunity, Wes. Complete waste of MY time.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>INTERVIEW #2 WITH WES HAYDEN &#8211; WHY WASNâ€™T HE AT THE â€œMEN TELL ALLâ€?&#8221;</p><p>Who cares!</p><p>I thought Wes did a much better during his 1st radio interview.</p><p>Personally, RS &#8230; I think you did Wes no favor with you style of interview, memorializing all the negative moments and not once talking up the positive, and there were positive moments during his time on The Bachelorette.</p><p>Moreover, talk about disingenuous. Whose idea was it for Wes to deny going on the show to sell CDs &#8230; of course he did! And why bother to insinuate he never spoke negatively about the other men, when he did on film and, again, during the very same 1st RS interview?</p><p>Wes should have shell out a grand and talk to a media consultant specializing in damage control to map out a winning strategy instead of listing to a bunch of yahoos about how fix what he, himself, broke.</p><p>Moreover, Wes should have been screaming, &#8220;How dare ABC slice and dice footage to insinuate Jillian wasn&#8217;t exciting and desirable enough for me, or any man on the show. Yes, I went on the show to promote my music, but I was also curious, and eventually surprised how taken I became with Jillian. She is one amazing woman!&#8221;</p><p>That is the story that sells, as opposed to boohooing about losing five gigs to the tune of $30 grand &#8230; that implied it is all about money and has always been about money.</p><p>Even so, Wes did sink his own ship with his big mouth. Although I never thought he had a girlfriend, I don&#8217;t believe for a minute he sliced and diced that much; liquored up, yes, but no one force feed him, did they?</p><p>Complete waste of bandwidth, RS. Complete waste of opportunity, Wes. Complete waste of MY time.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Tracy66</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27072</link> <dc:creator>Tracy66</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 20:54:41 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27072</guid> <description>Good interview.  Personally, I liked Wes from the beginning and I thought there was more to it; considering the show&#039;s upstanding track record.
Wes should be thanking his lucky stars he didn&#039;t make it to the end.  He can recover from being booted off when he was.   It would have been harder if he made it to the end, he &amp; Jillian eventually broke up and his face was all over People Magazine being called a &quot;user&quot;.
I like his music and hope his career flourishes.
Good luck Wes!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good interview.  Personally, I liked Wes from the beginning and I thought there was more to it; considering the show&#8217;s upstanding track record.<br
/> Wes should be thanking his lucky stars he didn&#8217;t make it to the end.  He can recover from being booted off when he was.   It would have been harder if he made it to the end, he &amp; Jillian eventually broke up and his face was all over People Magazine being called a &#8220;user&#8221;.<br
/> I like his music and hope his career flourishes.<br
/> Good luck Wes!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: beachbum</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27069</link> <dc:creator>beachbum</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 14:36:46 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27069</guid> <description>Couldn&#039;t write about Wes without writing about Ed.  Obviously we don&#039;t know for sure about his two supposed girlfriends who didn&#039;t know about each other and if he really did lie to one about being away on business when he was actually back on the show.  We also don&#039;t know for a fact that he lied to Jillian about having to leave for business.I do know, though, that he certainly did not seem that upset when he left.  I also don&#039;t think he looked that happy to be back (although Jillian certainly was).  It bothers me that he often doesn&#039;t look Jillian in the eye when he says the things she wants to hear.  And did Jillian (or us viewers) actually believe that HE flew his parents to Hawaii to meet her?If the rumors about him are true then he certainly is the kind of guy who could easily say things to a girl he didn&#039;t mean.  He would also be someone the producers could easily manipulate (much like someone we all know from last season).  I hope she doesn&#039;t pick him, but I&#039;m afraid she might.  If she&#039;s as good a judge of character as she says she is, she&#039;ll hopefully find out the truth about him (whatever it is).Perhaps the show needed a hero and a villian.  Wes got the short end of the stick and Ed lucked out.  I hope Jillian finds what she wants.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Couldn&#8217;t write about Wes without writing about Ed.  Obviously we don&#8217;t know for sure about his two supposed girlfriends who didn&#8217;t know about each other and if he really did lie to one about being away on business when he was actually back on the show.  We also don&#8217;t know for a fact that he lied to Jillian about having to leave for business.</p><p>I do know, though, that he certainly did not seem that upset when he left.  I also don&#8217;t think he looked that happy to be back (although Jillian certainly was).  It bothers me that he often doesn&#8217;t look Jillian in the eye when he says the things she wants to hear.  And did Jillian (or us viewers) actually believe that HE flew his parents to Hawaii to meet her?</p><p>If the rumors about him are true then he certainly is the kind of guy who could easily say things to a girl he didn&#8217;t mean.  He would also be someone the producers could easily manipulate (much like someone we all know from last season).  I hope she doesn&#8217;t pick him, but I&#8217;m afraid she might.  If she&#8217;s as good a judge of character as she says she is, she&#8217;ll hopefully find out the truth about him (whatever it is).</p><p>Perhaps the show needed a hero and a villian.  Wes got the short end of the stick and Ed lucked out.  I hope Jillian finds what she wants.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: beachbum</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27068</link> <dc:creator>beachbum</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 14:24:26 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27068</guid> <description>Reasons I think Wes went on the show -
1.  His manager said it would be good exposure for him.
2.  His mother and sister would love for him to meet a nice girl and settle down.
3.  He figured &#039;Why not?  It will be fun hanging around with the guys and maybe the girl will be someone I want to see more of.&#039;Do I think these were the wrong reasons?
Probably, but how many of us have gone to to a bar, party, or social event and made a quick glance around to see if there was anyone we were super attracted to and if not just enjoyed the event anyway?Do I think Wes had a girlfriend?
No.  I think he had an ex-girlfriend whom he still &#039;sees&#039; (for lunch)once in a while.  I can also imagine how a group of guys, especially with a little alcohol, would interpret &#039;sees for lunch&#039;.Do I think he made some inappropriate comments?
Yes, but I see Wes as a laid-back country singer used to saying whatever pops into his head.  He is used to performing and talking to his audience.  When I think back to country concerts I&#039;ve been to I know inappropriate comments have been made but the audience just laughs and realizes it&#039;s part of the entertainment.  I think Wes was being himself and never expected his comments and sarcasm to be used against him.Final thoughts on Wes -
He admitted to jillian that he&#039;d love to hang out with her but wasn&#039;t going to marry her.  He was honest.  I think the producers went way too far in destroying his character.  Even the x-girlfriend has stood up for him.  Sadly most people will believe whatever they see on the show.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reasons I think Wes went on the show -<br
/> 1.  His manager said it would be good exposure for him.<br
/> 2.  His mother and sister would love for him to meet a nice girl and settle down.<br
/> 3.  He figured &#8216;Why not?  It will be fun hanging around with the guys and maybe the girl will be someone I want to see more of.&#8217;</p><p>Do I think these were the wrong reasons?<br
/> Probably, but how many of us have gone to to a bar, party, or social event and made a quick glance around to see if there was anyone we were super attracted to and if not just enjoyed the event anyway?</p><p>Do I think Wes had a girlfriend?<br
/> No.  I think he had an ex-girlfriend whom he still &#8216;sees&#8217; (for lunch)once in a while.  I can also imagine how a group of guys, especially with a little alcohol, would interpret &#8216;sees for lunch&#8217;.</p><p>Do I think he made some inappropriate comments?<br
/> Yes, but I see Wes as a laid-back country singer used to saying whatever pops into his head.  He is used to performing and talking to his audience.  When I think back to country concerts I&#8217;ve been to I know inappropriate comments have been made but the audience just laughs and realizes it&#8217;s part of the entertainment.  I think Wes was being himself and never expected his comments and sarcasm to be used against him.</p><p>Final thoughts on Wes -<br
/> He admitted to jillian that he&#8217;d love to hang out with her but wasn&#8217;t going to marry her.  He was honest.  I think the producers went way too far in destroying his character.  Even the x-girlfriend has stood up for him.  Sadly most people will believe whatever they see on the show.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: meeshmeesh</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27067</link> <dc:creator>meeshmeesh</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 01:42:08 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27067</guid> <description>http://www.buddytv.com/articles/the-bachelorette/the-bachelorette-wess-accused-29725.aspxThis is a pic of Laurel plus her reaction to hearing Jake say her name on tv.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a
href="http://www.buddytv.com/articles/the-bachelorette/the-bachelorette-wess-accused-29725.aspx" rel="nofollow">http://www.buddytv.com/articles/the-bachelorette/the-bachelorette-wess-accused-29725.aspx</a></p><p>This is a pic of Laurel plus her reaction to hearing Jake say her name on tv.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: babyfat101</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27066</link> <dc:creator>babyfat101</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 01:29:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27066</guid> <description>i too prefer to read the comments section over the blog itself.anyone have a link to a photo of the infamous laurel?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i too prefer to read the comments section over the blog itself.</p><p>anyone have a link to a photo of the infamous laurel?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: cynstriss</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27065</link> <dc:creator>cynstriss</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:16:57 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27065</guid> <description>It cracks me up how so much time and effort has been spent accusing Wes of having a girlfriend, when it is Ed who left a couple of them on hold to come on this show.  Why no mention?  One ABC determined Ed was the front runner, they put maximum effort into keeping that from getting out.  Now who&#039;s the scum?  Wes, whom ABC has yet to give any audio or video proof of what he supposedly said, or Ed, who&#039;s own friends have twittered about his weaselly ways?  Poor Wes, he&#039;s the good guy here.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It cracks me up how so much time and effort has been spent accusing Wes of having a girlfriend, when it is Ed who left a couple of them on hold to come on this show.  Why no mention?  One ABC determined Ed was the front runner, they put maximum effort into keeping that from getting out.  Now who&#8217;s the scum?  Wes, whom ABC has yet to give any audio or video proof of what he supposedly said, or Ed, who&#8217;s own friends have twittered about his weaselly ways?  Poor Wes, he&#8217;s the good guy here.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: pinkstockdiva</title><link>http://realitysteve.com/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/comment-page-3/#comment-27064</link> <dc:creator>pinkstockdiva</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 22:49:40 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://realitysteve.com/blog/2009/07/23/interview-2-with-wes-hayden-why-wasnt-he-at-the-men-tell-all/#comment-27064</guid> <description>I listened to the interview, and not much was gleamed from it. I agree with ABC&#039;s decision to not let him appear on the MTA.  I would like to hear what Tanner has to say. He had a pretty bad &quot;edit&quot; too. I mean I wonder if it is hard for him to find dates since that freakish foot fetish was revealed. Isn&#039;t he right in Texas too Steve? Can you not spend a little time with Tanner?Great pic of Wes. He looks so lost and confused.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I listened to the interview, and not much was gleamed from it. I agree with ABC&#8217;s decision to not let him appear on the MTA.  I would like to hear what Tanner has to say. He had a pretty bad &#8220;edit&#8221; too. I mean I wonder if it is hard for him to find dates since that freakish foot fetish was revealed. Isn&#8217;t he right in Texas too Steve? Can you not spend a little time with Tanner?</p><p>Great pic of Wes. He looks so lost and confused.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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