After the Final Rose Recap & Some Videos For Your Viewing Pleasure
-I don’t know what I liked more last night: the horribly planted audience members with the stupid questions, or the amounts of awkward silence on stage when Kiptyn and Reid were up there. It seemed like the first half hour was nothing but a bunch of facial expressions and people forgetting their lines. How awkward was that to watch? I can’t tell you how many times I could hear the humming of the lights in my room while Kiptyn and Reid were on stage. Here’s the problem I’ve always had with bringing the rejected bachelor or bachelorettes back. This season had the quickest turnaround from the time filming ended to the time the finale aired (2 months). In that time, the one(s) rejected at the end might labor some feelings, but lets face it, they’ve moved on. Hell half of them are usually banging somebody else by that point. Just ask Jenni from Brad’s season who was already back together with her ex, yet came to film that show and whipped up some tears for the audience. It’s usually 3 to 4 months removed from actual filming before that ATFR tapes, so do you really need answers from someone that far out after a break up? I usually only bug them for a couple weeks afterwards. Ha ha.
-So what are my thoughts after seeing Jillian and Ed together last night? The same as they were the night before. “But Steve, look how happy they were, and she’s even moving in with him.” Yeah, even better. The fact she’s moving in with the guy in a month, in my mind, is waaaaaaay too early. That’s just gonna speed up their break up. Happy couples holding hands and kissing on the “ATFR” means nothing in the history of this show. So did Andrew and Jen. So did Bob and Estella. So did Meredith and Ian. So did Travis and Sarah. So did Lorenzo and Jen. So did Matt and Shayne. So did DeAnna and Jesse. Hell, DeAnna and Jesse were giving us video and photo updates on essentially what they had for breakfast for 6 months telling us how much they were in love with each other, spending time with each others families, etc. How’d that work out for them? Look, I know every couple is different, but, I’ll play the odds on this one. Your experience on the show is completely removed from reality and what relationships are really about. Hence the reason this show is 1-for-17 in producing a marriage. I’ll stick with those odds. So when these two eventually break up for whatever reason, just remember what your reaction was after last night’s lovefest and I’ll remind you what you saw last night doesn’t mean anything. The final couple is ALWAYS happy at the “ATFR” show.
-So many of you were disappointed that they didn’t announce who the next Bachelor was going to be last night. I don’t know why since they’ve done many “ATFR” shows without announcing who the next one was. Here’s some statistical data to remember regarding this show. Only two of the thirteen Bachelors have been recycled (Bob and Jason), but all five Bachelorettes were (Trista, Meredith, Jen, DeAnna, and Jillian). Interesting dynamic. I wonder if there’s any rhyme or reason to that? However, they are on a mini streak right now as the last three seasons they’ve shown have been with recycled people (DeAnna, Jason, and Jillian). If you’re gonna go by Monday night’s finale, then you’d think they’re setting it up to be Reid. The Kiptyn rumor has been floating around for the last month or so, and the fact it hasn’t been confirmed I think pretty much kills that. Plus, the audience reaction to him isn’t anywhere near what it’s been for Reid. So if they do choose someone from this season, my guess is it would be Reid. But I have no idea where their head is at and Chris Harrison reiterated in his blog today once again that the next Bachelor hasn’t been chosen.
-And even though “US Weekly” hinted towards it last week, and Jillian even gave her endorsement for it in an interview, you can officially cross Michael Stagliano and his twin brother off the list for possibly being the next “Bachelor”. Why? Because Michael is now dating Holly Durst. I knew about this last week but I was told to wait until after this past weekend before saying anything since Holly went to visit him in NY. Apparently things went well since Monday morning, both of them had changed their facebook status to “In a Relationship” (with the other persons name) on each of their pages, so obviously they don’t care that people know. Wow. That didn’t take long. I knew they really hit it off when he was in L.A. for the “Men Tell All”, and I to see she made a quick turnaround to go see him in NY was a telling sign. Not to mention all of her tweets recently about how in love she is. Hey, maybe she is. Or maybe she isn’t. I don’t know. I haven’t watched their relationship on TV nor do I know of any ex-girlfriends floating around ready to speak. I guess we’ll see how it goes. Holly is an acquaintance of mine as most of you probably heard the interview so I wish her the best. I just thought that immediately going to “In a Relationship” status within a span of two weeks was awfully bold of them. I guarantee Facebook has caused A LOT of arguments between couples based on that “In a Relationship” status. That thing can get very tricky.
-Jillian wrote her final blog on People.com that you can see right here. What I find interesting is that last night on the show, they said they haven’t been apart more than five days total since the show ended. Then in the blog she says they spent “all summer together (every two weeks for five days at a time)”. Ummmm, so which one is it? Last time I checked, those are completely different statement. Saying you’ve spent all but five days together since filming ended two months ago means we’re looking at spending 55 of a possible 60 days together. Seeing each other “every two weeks for five days at a time” equates to 10 days a month, for a total of 20 days in two months. Wow. Two months into their relationship and they’re already lying to us. Nice. What’s next? Ed is a tiger in the bedroom? Oh yeah, they already disgustingly addressed that last night. Did Jillian really allude to how much they have sex last night? Classy. It’s bad enough we have to think of that guy in his awful European trunks, now we have to picture him doing it with someone other than his ex? Great. I think I’ll pass. But really, thanks for offering that bit of info last night. We were dying to hear how frequently you guys have sex. No, seriously.
-I wanted to share something with everyone that I don’t think I’ve ever posted before. Just with all the shenanigans that happened this season, and all the manipulation and editing I’ve been telling you about. This is an email that Brad Womack wrote to his cousin shortly after his finale aired and he’d dumped Jenni and DeAnna. No, this isn’t a private email that I got a hold of. If you google Brad Womack, you can find this thing on the internet. I’ve always had it in my possession because I think it’s one of the more telling things ever written about the behind the scenes stuff that goes on. And lets remember, Brad just wasn’t any contestant. He was the “Bachelor”. So for him to say this I think speaks volumes. For those that question the validity of it, I can assure you it’s authentic because, well, I’ve spoken to Brad about it and he confirmed he wrote it. I also recently brought it up with DeAnna and she confirmed that’s basically what Brad told her. So before we put a close on this season, just wanted to bring this to your attention. Here’s the email he wrote to his cousin:
(Name),
I don’t really know where to begin my email because I don’t know if you’re
part of the half of America that is disgusted with my choice or part of the
half that respects it. I am hoping that you are of the latter; if not, I
hope this email will at least answer some of the questions that have been
thrown my way in the last few days.
First, let me say this. I did not ask to do the show; a friend of mine
submitted my information because she thought I would make a good candidate.
In fact, my initial reaction to the producers was “absolutely not”.
Hollywood can be very convincing when it wants to be and after some time I
agreed to give it a shot. I truly went on The Bachelor to try to find a
good woman that I may develop strong feelings for. That is the only reason.
I did not go on it for publicity of the bars. I did not go on it to use as
some sort of “stepping stone” into entertainment. I simply went on the show
to use it as it was meant to be used…to try to find a romantic interest.
Yes, it’s unconventional but also adventurous at the same time.
I had no idea what I was getting myself into (but that is another story that
would take too long to write in an email). I want to clear up some
misconceptions of the general public that I can only hope you and the rest
of the family are not inclined to believe.
First: Due to my contract, I was NOT ALLOWED to tell the women that I wasn’t
interested in them until the respective rose ceremonies. In other words, if
I realized a relationship was not going to come out of the show, no matter
how early on this revelation may have happened, I simply could not walk off
the show. I was constantly reminded there was a show to make and that I
would be sued for breach of contract. I never one time misled the
ladies…NOT ONCE. I was not allowed to tell anyone that my feelings
weren’t strong enough to try to build a relationship on. I never once
uttered the word love. The only time I mentioned “soulmate”, and I promise
you with everything that I have that this is true, the producers edited that
sentence to make it sound as if I labled Deanna as my soulmate, which I
assure you I didn’t. I admit that I did say that she was everything I was
looking for. I said she’d make a great wife. I said I could see spending
my life with someone like Deanna. What America wasn’t shown is that in
every interview that I said things like that about the women I immediately
followed up those statements with a “but”. “Deanna would make a great
wife….BUT, I don’t understand why I don’t see her as my wife”. Things
like that were said the entire show but were never aired.
Second: The only reason I went ring shopping is because it was part of the
show’s itinerary. I wasn’t asked if I wanted to buy a ring…I was TOLD I
was going to be filmed buying a ring. That particular day took place almost
five days prior to the final rose ceremony and even then I knew a proposal
wasn’t going to take place. I informed the producers of this and that is
when things started to turn interestingly different. I was no longer their
“golden boy” and I began to get the impression that I was going to be thrown
under the editorial bus. People think I kept the ring. I had the ring in
my possession for all of 2 hours MAXIMUM. In fact, (name), I told the
producers that there is NO WAY I would ever allow anyone to buy a ring that
I was going to give to a woman I love. I was very clear about the fact that
if I was going to propose to someone I would buy my own ring.
Third (and this is a biggie): I NEVER ASKED THE PRODUCERS TO FLY DEANNA’S
FATHER OUT TO THE FINAL ROSE CEREMONY. What actually happened is I was
adamant about the fact that if I ever propose to a woman I would have to ask
her father, face to face, for her hand in marriage. I said a phone call
would not be sufficient because I would want to look him in the eye and ask
for her hand. A day later I was told that Deanna’s father was in route to
Malibu. I was shocked. When I realized there was no turning back, I asked
for a mere hour to talk to her father and explain that 1) I didn’t request
his presence, 2) I wanted to apologize for the show wasting his time, and 3)
I wanted to tell him that as much as I cared for Deanna I was not in love
with her and did not intend on proposing to her. I think the world of
Deanna’s family and I always will.
(Reality Steve Update: It was confirmed to me that Brad was never given the
chance to have this meeting with her father even after asking for it).
I don’t have commitment issues. In fact, the majority of my adult life has
been spent in some incredible, long term, committed relationships. What I
do fear is wasting time. As good of a person as Deanna is I didn’t feel a
single bit of falling in love. So why lead her on? Why try to start a
relationship based on “Bachelor protocal”?? My goodbye to both women may
have seemed harsh because of the brutal honesty. If I need to work on being
more sympathetic than I will accept that. All I can say is I’ve had women
at one point or other say to me “I don’t love you anymore”. As much as it
hurt me at the time, I later greatly appreciated the honesty. I would much
rather have someone tell me that than string me along or toy with my heart.
No one in this world is perfect. All I know is I can walk away from this
experience with my head held very high. I know in my heart that I was
honest with all parties involved. I never one time lied or said and/or did
anything that I didn’t mean or want to do.
I hope you all had a very happy Thanksgiving and that you are doing well.
Brad
Good stuff. And you think Wes is the only one who got a bad edit? This guy was specifically stating he couldn’t see DeAnna as his wife on camera during his ITM’s, yet all America is shown is the first half of the sentence. From the minute Brad’s finale ended I’ve always thought that outside of Charlie’s season, his was my favorite ending. Never really understood the backlash against a guy just because he didn’t propose or choose one woman in the end. Why? The guy admitted he didn’t see a future with either of them so by choosing one of them, wouldn’t that be leading them on? Anyway, I know it’s old news and no need to bring up a season that happened two years ago, but I’ve always thought this email was a good indicator of how this show really works. Can’t believe I’d never printed it before. I guess I just figured a lot of people had seen it already since you can find it by googling his name.
-And what better way to close out this “Bachelorette” season than with a plug for our boy Wes. Ha ha. You know you love it. Call it kissing ass, call it whatever you want, I consider the guy a friend now so I will take this time to plug his appearance tomorrow night at the Glass Cactus in Grapevine, Texas. A few of us are headed out there tomorrow night and it should be a great time. I know a lot of you are either love it or hate it when it comes not only to Wes, but also country music. As I’ve said, I’ve never been a fan. Don’t despise it in the least bit, I just don’t buy much of it unless Carrie Underwood’s hot ass is on the cover. Ha ha. Anyway, Wes appeared on “Good Morning Texas” yesterday morning to do an interview and perform. No, he didn’t sing the song you all know and love. He actually does an acoustic version of “Gettin’ Around”, and I gotta tell you, I think it was a pretty damn good performance. The guy is a talented artist. Here are the links to the post show (internet only) interview he did, plus, his musical performance. Come on and check out the show if you’re in the DFW area. And if not, give the performance a listen and let me know what you think, regardless of if you’re a country fan or not.
Post show interview:
Musical Performance:
That’s it for this season for the time being. It’s had its ups and had its downs, but all in all, it was a good time. Trust me when I tell you I am still trying to work on letting some more information out about this season in general. I just need to see how I’m gonna go about doing this. Keep checking back periodically to RealitySteve.com for updates. No “Reality Roundup” Friday as I’m sure I’ll be three sheets to the wind on Thursday night, plus, my niece and nephew are in town tomorrow so that should keep me occupied. I will update when I can. Join on Facebook and Twitter, and don’t forget to purchase the last remaining RealitySteve.com merchandise before we’re all out. As always, any questions, comments, feedback, praises, criticisms, and anything else you’d like to ask, email me at steve@realitysteve.com. Talk to you soon.
July 29th, 2009 at 10:35 AM
Steve, I enjoyed reading your blog this season. I’ll miss it much more than I miss the Bachelorette!
Yes, last night was very uncomfortable. The closeups of Reid’s face most of the time were distasteful to look at… except when he (occasionally) smiled. He had a really sour look on his face, probably wondering why he had to be there. And I do think he was probably forced to be there.
I actually thought Kiptyn was more likeable and understandable last night than he had ever been through the entire series. To me he seemed very relaxed. Just not an extremely talkative guy… I mean, what was there to say?
I was not a particular fan of either Reid or Kiptyn (or any of the guys this year).
I do wish the best to Jillian and Ed. I didn’t get a “longevity” vibe from them last night, but have been wrong before.
Will check back to this blog periodically for the occasional updates!
Oh, and thanks for printing Brad Womack’s email. He is a good, clear writer.
July 29th, 2009 at 10:51 AM
I’m also glad this season is done, too. It’s been a strange show with many inconsistencies and ‘throwing under the bus’ syndrome that it makes me wonder how some of the participants don’t get seriously pissed off at each other. I am sure they do .. adds to the drama.
The show last night was uncomfortable. Although Reid and Kiptyn were never favourites of mine, it was touching that they both still had feelings for Jillian – at least, it appeared they did. (Btw, Reid – get a haircut. This guy looks chronically ‘rumpled’ to me *lol*.)
The part with Melissa was probably the worst, IMO. Did you see the look on her face when Chris was about to ‘re-cap’ her ending with Jason? I was never a huge Melissa fan either but she has moved on and seems happy, too.
Lastly, I’m from Vancouver and while I don’t personally know Jillian, I know people who have worked with her. Yes, she is as ’squealy’ and energetic in person but apparently genuinely nice. I wish her and Ed well.
Thanks for the recaps Steve!
July 29th, 2009 at 10:52 AM
Awww how cute that Brad’s cousin leaked the email. Something tells me that he wanted it leaked but couldn’t speak for him self due to contract obligations. Very clever of him.
) See you next season ya’ll.
July 29th, 2009 at 11:50 AM
I usually like Reid but last night he seemed rather stalker-ish.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:01 PM
Thanks Steve. Have fun in Grapevine.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:14 PM
I thought the scenes w/ Kiptyn & Reid were incredibly awkward, too. And to me Jillian seemed almost disappointed that they didn’t have more questions for her. Personally, I could really care less whether it works out w/ Jillian & Ed. Makes no difference in my life whatsoever. But I do have to say I think it’s strange that it was sooo hard to turn Reid down after he came back. Being married myself, I would have to say that if an ex came back right before I was about to get engaged it would be a pretty easy “no” for me. I wouldn’t even have to think about it & I definitely wouldn’t be crying.
I think you can fall in love quickly and things can happen very fast but I just never really bought that Jillian was in love with any of these guys. I think she REALLY wants to get married & have kids. Seems to me she chose Ed because he was the surest thing out of all of them. Who knows, maybe it’ll work but I’m not really counting on it!
July 29th, 2009 at 12:15 PM
Kiptin may not have been too talkative in the AFR, but he WAS during the regular season (rapid and non-”understandable” talk at that), and much of what came out of his mouth was just general BS. Guess Jillian finally figured out that he was really just what he finally stated – a fun-loving, Pretty Boy Mega-Pack Abs, “Work for Play” (California Surfer) kind of guy.
So she went for Ed. Bad move. Should have taken Reid’s proposal – then sent Ed to the Showers. — And Chris had no business offering his “Advice”.
Had some respect for Jillian when she verbalized logical reasons / denied all 4 the pleasure of her company in the FS Batchelor Home Visits (had to – of course – turn down Wes “the Sleaze” ["we should do it"]).
But then in the next show she slutted out and “accepted” all 3 – and poor Ed couldn’t get it up? — Hey – HE HAD ***ALL NIGHT***! — Give me a break! Lost some respect for her there (NONE lost for Ed – he never had any).
Then next show she slutted out some more and the last 2 men got it on – and ED produced (I assume, or she wouldn’t have chosen him to be Numero Uno?).
Next Batchelor? — Not “Built but mush brains” Kiptin. (— And what is a “Business Developer, anyway”
I vote Reid – or maybe Jake – but Jake has a real job, and would likely have to resign from same to do it. Being in Real Estate, Reid could just take 3 to 4 months off and forgo some of those 6% commissions…
July 29th, 2009 at 12:29 PM
A P.S. – Anyone notice (thruout the season, but especially near the end): whenever Ed spoke w/ Jillian, 90-95% of the time he looked away – not at her / into her eyes? Avoidance? / Insincerity? / Guilt over the possible Chicago Girlfriend?
And maybe Ed is really BI? — Hula-dancing w/ Jillian’s father he said to him: “Forget Jillian – You’re the one for me” (or close to it). Just a Little Joke, or a Freudian Slip?
Just something about him (mannerisms, droopy eyes, etc) that suggested that to me…
July 29th, 2009 at 12:44 PM
ABC would be out of their minds to have Jake be the next Bachelor. He’s so fake. I’m totally baffled as to what his appeal is? The dude is a bag of crazy.
And Reid, well…Reid seemed so genuine last night. I don’t know who they’ll pick. But Reid has the guy next door, goofball charm. I wish him luck with NORMAL girls in Philly.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:45 PM
Great recap as usual. I thought it was funny how Jillian said something about how it’s not ’scripted’.
Also, I thought that there was not an ATFR for Travis and Sarah because they were already broken up??
July 29th, 2009 at 12:49 PM
Question anyone….what did Ed say last night about him being the only one in Spain to be with Jillian? (paraphrased) It was during the whole conversation about their sex life and I missed what he said. Did anyone catch that?
I told my sister last night that it looked like Reid could not remember his lines. If it weren’t for an audience, they could have used cue cards I guess.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:51 PM
Go Stags…..Only one date and you are hooked.
J/E: I agree with Steve about it not lasting. He real life is different when someone else does not edit it.
For all the single ladies in our great country. I am single. Missed my chance to get on the Bachelorette. Maybe the next Bachelor. Definitely a lot cuter and more depth and interests than Reid, Kiptyn and Ed put together.
If you want to see my pics or find out more just ask
Michael
July 29th, 2009 at 12:53 PM
What’s the real reason they didn’t let Jillian say she was engaged or had picked someone? The real winners in these situations are the people who aren’t under contract when the show tapes but need to be kept under wraps ($$) later.
July 29th, 2009 at 12:57 PM
Steve,
I forgot to ask you. Did it look like Melissa ad Cosmetic Surgery done on her face? She looks totally different? Strange like they sucked out some fat on her face. lips. What do you think?
July 29th, 2009 at 1:07 PM
Oh, Steve, Steve, Steve. I stopped by to see if you would actually step up and admit that you may just have been wrong…but what do I read?
1) Brad got a bad edit. (I practically had to google him to remember who he was. BTW are you still wearing Uggs these days, too? Because it’s 2009. Just sayin’.
2) Wes is now your “friend.” Ok, here’s a guy who has basically admitted to leveraging any opportunity to gain publicity around his music career – including stringing Jillian along — and it doesn’t occur to you that he just MIGHT be using you and your blog to try to rehab his public image? I mean, did it at least cross your mind that perhaps he’s not really your “friend”? I have to give it to Wes, in person he must really have something going on (whatever it is, I didn’t see it on TV.) I didn’t appreciate him on The Bachelorette, but I would LOVE to watch Wes on Big Brother. Seriously. He would be all kinds of awesome on that show with his wiley ways. Now, let me make one of my own predictions. My money’s on you and Wes breaking up before Ed and Jillian. Let’s see if he’s still returning your text messages a month from now.
3) You received a “bad edit” on Extra (BTW, I am convinced that this was clearly a premeditated plan on the part of the Extra producers to make you look bad on national TV and destroy your life and reputation for ratings. If you don’t believe me, I have an email from a friend of a friend of one of the producer’s stepmother’s neighbors saying just that. Plus my BFF Jeremy confirmed it.)
You know, I would think that with all your in-depth knowledge of evil editing techniques you would have chosen your words more carefully so that they couldn’t edit you in a way to completely change your (WRONG) prediction. Even my grandma predicted Jillian would pick Ed and she doesn’t read spoilers. (PS Maybe you should sign up at the FORT.)
Anyway, just thought I’d share my impressions of your latest entries (and for those who are planning to ask me why I’m commenting on Steve’s blog if I don’t agree with what he posts, I’d suggest you first ask Steve why HE blogs about the Bachelor/Bachelorette when he clearly hates the show!)
Finally, the only comment I’ll make about your continuing quest to talk to Ed’s ex, exes, brother’s exes, etc. is this – when you finally reach her, you might want to tell her that regardless of whatever relationship she had with Ed in the past, it is now over.
I heard he got engaged on TV.
July 29th, 2009 at 1:10 PM
Steve,
I was true to my word after Jason’s fishy season and did not watch Jillian’s season and I will not watch any of this ever again. I’ve always admired Brad Womack for not playing the game and for his honesty. But don’t you think this show has run it’s course? I mean really, does anyone still care? As I’ve always told you, I’ve enjoyed your column and I will see you on Facebook.
P.S. Tell Wes that I think he’s smokin’…..Catch ya later!
July 29th, 2009 at 1:34 PM
gianabella I enjoy reading your commentary more than Steve’s now. U should start your own blog!
July 29th, 2009 at 1:58 PM
starbuxlvr:
Why do u say Jake is “so fake”? Maybe he seems so to u because he is so extremely STRAIGHT/SINCERE – e.g. “PERFECT” – as Jillian and some of the other “Batchelors” so often said?
Not really a bad thing for human interrelations nowadays – what with all the Deception / Bar Pickups / Internet Crap / BS / Pretending that is around?
Jake – a “bag of crazy”? Past crazy last year was Jessie – this season “Psycho / Kill Him” David & Foot-Man Tanner (whatever #).
Yes, Reid seems to be “genuine” – sincere – softspoken – shy – just like Jake. Sometimes rather hard for such a man to find the right words – maybe find ANY words – in an artificial/NUTSO situation like reality TV…
July 29th, 2009 at 2:11 PM
Thank you to “The Single Bachelor” – I had to go back and watch the part with Melissa again. My first thought was eye lift. It could be that she looked different because she’s thinner, but really, her eyes looked different. I really hope she didn’t do something, because she’s too young to feel the need to make changes like that. But anyway, it’s her choice. I just agree that she really looked like she’d had some work done – I just couldn’t say exactly what.
I felt bad for Reid last night. He really seemed like he didn’t want to be there, had really nothing to say (except he was right when he said there’s was really nothing TO say), and Chris made the situation more awkward by keeping silent when neither of them were saying anything.
I did notice that there were no audience questions for Kiptyn, which is unusual for F2, right?
Who knows? Jillian and Ed seemed happy and did not look as fake as Deanna and Jesse and the English guy and Shayne Lamas (puke). We all watch this in the hopes that the 1 for 17 record will go to 2 for ? someday. I would really love to see it work.
I have to say though one thought I had since the beginning had to do with the 5 “extra” bachelors added to the mix. Steve repeatedly has stated that they could not cast 25 bachelors specifically with Jillian in mind in the short amount of time they had. However, could they recruit 5? Quite possibly. And on the first night, she kept 4 of those 5. It could be that TPB actually ATTEMPTED to find guys that fit the profile of what Jillian was looking for and they ended up with those 5. Lo and behold, she chooses Ed in the end. Just a thought and a hope for us romantics.
Thanks Steve for a great season. You really took a beating, and I agree that some of the comments were negative and harsh, but you do this on your time and can write what you want. I appreciate what you put in to it, because it’s definitely entertaining.
FINAL comment – your blog about the F3 date in Hawaii had me peeing my pants. I was laughing so hard reading it. “Nuthuggers!!!” That was the best blog of the season IMO.
Take care.
July 29th, 2009 at 2:18 PM
TheSingleBa -
I agree that Melissa looked a lot different! I think it was the long extensions and weight loss that has made her face look different. Around her eyes and nose looked very different from how she looked even on DWTS. Maybe the weight loss and the drastic extensions made her face just look longer and thinner? I don’t think she’s had work done, just lost too much weight and bought too much hair.
July 29th, 2009 at 2:22 PM
HAHAHA!
RS, I think that you my friend got played the most this season. You got cocky after the great discovery of the switcheroo last season. ABC employs some pretty savvy spin doctors(evidenced by your non stop annoying prattling about bad editing) and they took advantage of the fact that you would try to “do another scoop”.
I think at the end of the day this was a pretty boring season. Jillian knew pretty early on that Ed (mankinis or not)was who she was going to pick. But knowing that you were just chomping at the bit for another bust, they gave you a lot of tangents to follow and blow up into big deals. The Ed and Reid returns I think were contrived, not because Ed had a girlfriend or because Reid was stricken with regret…but because ABC knew you couldn’t help yourself RS, and would follow down whatever absurd path to “prove” its all fake!!! They have gotten higher and higher ratings/viewership because of your Ahabesque obsession!!
As far as feeling sorry for Wes or Brad or these poor innocent souls who got bad edits…give me a break!! Boo hoo…this freakin show has been on FOREVER and I’ve seen how relationships fall apart, people are made into caricatures, bad edits are happening…but I was SO SURPRISED when the SAME DAMN THING happened to me…seriously? Who are these morons?
ABC is toasting you right now RS!! You think that you are their nemesis…in reality…you are just another pawn…
July 29th, 2009 at 2:27 PM
@TheSingleBachelor007
I thought the same thing but in looking at Melissa then and now, she is wearing heavier eye liner earlier on. Last night, she didn’t appear to have that same heavy eyeliner.
Also, both Jillian and Melissa had much longer hair, too.
July 29th, 2009 at 2:30 PM
I thought the same thing but in looking at Melissa then and now, she is wearing heavier eye liner earlier on. Last night, she didn’t appear to have that same heavy eyeliner.
Also, both Jillian and Melissa had much longer hair, too.
July 29th, 2009 at 2:40 PM
Steve thanks for all the “updates and recaps” I’d have to say your blogs are more entertaining than the show. I stopped watching the Bachelor and Bachelorette for a while because their success rate has been extrememly dismal, yes we’re in love, yes we are moving in together and then three months later, oh no they broke up. It’s a joke and instead of getting all weepy at the end I’m like “Oh yea you like each other now, but what happens when your “adventurous mountain climbing dates” turn into dinner and a movie?” when all the luxury is no longer available and reality sets in then see how long you last.
I did tune back into the Bachelor when Brad Womack was on and yes, I did think the ending sucked so I’m glad you printed his letter, just show’s how true he is to himself and there’s nothing wrong with that. Can people really say they are in love with someone when they’ve only been on a few dates and see each other what??? a couple of times in 2 months? I think with all the luxury that goes with it it’s easy to “fall in love with the idea” and not so much with the person themselves.
The ATFR was painful to say the least, the uncomfortable silences and even Chris didn’t bail them out he just sat there, oh and some of his questions I just want to cringe when he asks them. I’m sorry but Jillian getting all upset at letting Kypton go seemed so fake, like she couldn’t even cry on cue or make it believable, same with Reid, she kept looking away and couldn’t look the poor guy in the face. Within 2 minutes she was composed and smiling again. If you really care for someone then you’re pulling a Mesnick over the balcony.
I very much enjoy your blogs Steve and will be tuning in to the Bachelor ONLY to read your recaps and nothing more. Only Jake and Kypton were my favorite bachelors this season, Ed? well the shorts ruined it for me.
Have fun at Wes’s concert.
July 29th, 2009 at 2:48 PM
I’m sorry this was just histerical…I had to comment.
July 29th, 2009 at 2:49 PM
I meant so fake as in his whole persona. He is running with the pilot career track rather than what he actually does…which is essentially drive limos/run a limo company. Having a pilot’s license and walking around with a pair of wings does not mean that’s his career. And I think it’s ludicrious that he, who is supposed to be such a religious guy, can keep up with that shame…if not spearhead it himself. Seriously?? At the MTA when he was asked about being the next bachelor his response was “oh gee golly gorsh” HE HAS A PETITION TO BE THE NEXT BACHELOR FOR GODS SAKE.He may as well just own up to it.
Reid may or may not be a good guy, but he has the most “real” personality I’ve seen. Meaning, he’s relatable and has a ton of flaws for people to see. @HOBP
July 29th, 2009 at 2:52 PM
Love the recaps Steve. I keep wondering why you haven’t mentioned that Wes’ Laurel was also Brad Womack’s Laurel, tho? Not “newsworthy”?
July 29th, 2009 at 2:57 PM
@teegoogles – Steve did mention that in prior posts.
July 29th, 2009 at 3:01 PM
Where?? I never saw it …
July 29th, 2009 at 3:04 PM
Oh, nevermind … ran a search and found it. Altho I don’t think that one little line quite covers it. No wonder I missed it!
July 29th, 2009 at 3:05 PM
I don’t think Melissa had anything done. We got used to seeing her over made up on DWTS, and now she has a simple fresher look. I thought she looked great.
July 29th, 2009 at 3:14 PM
@gianabella
gianabella, nothing personal, but you seem to practice “selective reading”.
I refused to watch the show this season after what transpired with Jason/Molly/Melissa. What the producers pulled was over the line of tasteful. However, I have periodically read summaries on ew.com and read Steve’s updates because they were fun to read. This is what I noticed:
If you believe Wes, then Steve was totally justified in his positions outlined in his blogs. (His blog; he can write what he wants. queenb actually had a good idea–you might enjoy starting your own blog.) At no point did Wes state that he made the decision to go on this show to promote his music careeer. (Go back and listen to the first interview–to the part where he talks about how he ended up on the show. You might be surprised.)
As for your Brad comment, g, I found it particularly interesting as I don’t go around googling former contestants. Thanks for sharing that, Steve. Glad you did that, and it didn’t take up much space in today’s blog.
Your third point, gianabella, reminds me of a current news story: only those who hate Barack Obama and his political views are “Birthers”, that is those who believe he wasn’t born in the U.S. That includes Lou Dobbs on CNN. People who are so critical of Reality Steve obviously don’t agree with him. And that’s ok, but to be so vitriolic about it? Did you get up on the wrong side of the bed?
Steve, enjoy your blog. Simple suggestion for next season: separate out your more fun summaries from some of your more serious commenting (like about Wes). Sometimes when you start writing about some of the more serious stuff, you lose your humor for the rest of that piece. I think that’s where some of your more loyal, long time readers missed your humor. We were missing our weekly fix! Your fault you know. A victim of your own success.
July 29th, 2009 at 3:19 PM
Hope to see you at the Glass Cactus! Your interviews with him turned my opinion of him around. Can’t wait to see him perform!
July 29th, 2009 at 3:35 PM
What is the Shakespeare line? “Me thinks thou dost protest too much.” Has anyone noticed that Jillian is all over Ed, and he only responds after she licks his face a few times? Hey being in an infatuated love is such a cool thing but they just don’t seem to be in the same space. For Jillian’s sake I hope they both get on the same page sometime soon. The “After” show was pathetic. They had 10 days to assemble and edit the show and this is what we got??? The production mgr should be shot! Not only were there HUGE pregnant pauses, the edits to audience applause didn’t always match the audience ambient noise from the comment. There was such promotion of Melissa returning to the show and all we got was a quick recap of what happened and one real comment?!?!? Where was Tye? She drags her bible quoting boyfriend out everywhere else. Even Melissa was edited in a weird way. Look at the end when Melissa gives her emphatic “Yes” with her hands folded on her lap and the very next scene with all of the audience applause has her arms in the air like some kind of cheerleader move. A substandard job even by Bachelorette standards. And has anyone else thought that Melissa could have been last season’s Wes (with a boyfriend DURING the show)? Tye recently said he called her on January 3rd. Previously both Jason AND Melissa said they spent the holidays happily together. So how does Tye call on January 3rd and say he is going to marry her? Unless the whole thing was more fake than even you think, Steve, and Melissa was part of the charade. Why didn’t her parents want to meet Jason? Maybe because they knew Tye was her boyfriend. I know it’s sacrilegious to say anything bad about poor, sweet Melissa. But she doesn’t seem so poor or sweet now. LOTS of ego and arrogance floating around in that little body now that Tony isn’t around to keep the “brat” in line. I’m just sayin’…
July 29th, 2009 at 3:37 PM
Um, assuming Brad’s email is legit, doesn’t it just reinforce how absurd Wes’s claims that he didn’t have any idea what he was getting into are???
I mean Brad and Wes both dated Laurel for multiple years and she was still friends with Brad after his season aired and “friends” with Wes before his season, so which hard-to-believe claim are we supposed to be believing? Is it that Brad never told Laurel anything about his experience with the show or that Laurel knew all about it but somehow never mentioned it to Wes???
But thanks for finally admitting Wes is your “friend” and you can’t be considered remotely objective about him anymore.
July 29th, 2009 at 3:52 PM
I liked reading this post.
good job
July 29th, 2009 at 4:45 PM
Good Recap Steve. I noticed that Ed seems to look anywhere but at Jillian during interviews ( I happen to also catch the ‘happy’ couple on Live with Regis and Kelly and Good Morning America). I am a little surprised that Jillian and Ed moved in together, that is too soon.
Melissa looked great, I think the thinner face is because of all of the dancing and weight loss. She looked so sure and mature. It would have been great watching a season of Melissa as the Bachelerette
July 29th, 2009 at 4:45 PM
@gianabella you are awesome.
I thought the awkwardness with Reid was due to the fact that he felt like a chump and was not very happy about being there. I know Jillian and Chris acted like that was the only time for Reid and her to talk about things, but that’s total b.s. I’m sure they had a more honest and frank chat after the show (or I hope).
Interesting letter from Brad. Nothing in there surprises me, but I was always in Brad’s camp. In my mind, his season was the best, for the ending alone.
As for which former bachelor/ette/contestant/whatever has banged the most people from the show, maybe that honor should go to Holly now.
I don’t think I can stomach this show anymore. We’ll see.
July 29th, 2009 at 4:46 PM
Hey did anyone notice how much Ed blinked at the Atfr? Blinking is a sign of lying i think. XD When they were talking about getting married soon he was blinking like a strobe light.
July 29th, 2009 at 5:08 PM
@lea If blinking is a sign of lying, then DeAnna is the queen bee. I think it’s just a nervous tic, annoying as it is.
In response to those who say people should stop reading and not comment if they don’t agree with what RS is saying, I tend to think that those who disagree with RS often have more interesting things to say than those who would rather the comment section just be an echo chamber. Except of course those who are attacking him personally and calling him names. Just sayin’.
July 29th, 2009 at 5:12 PM
HAHAHAHAH!! That’s hilarious!
July 29th, 2009 at 5:14 PM
@starbuxlvr
Just because he has a petition doesnt mean HE knows anything about it. It was probably started by some of the viewers.
July 29th, 2009 at 5:23 PM
“I thought the awkwardness with Reid was due to the fact that he felt like a chump and was not very happy about being there”.—————— I think he did not want to be there at all. It felt awkward and weird. Too many lapses and silences. I wish he had just acted like he had never cared much one way or the other and said things like, “I’m so happy they are together, they make a great couple”. You know, kind of like Wes probably would have, but without the bad edit.
July 29th, 2009 at 5:51 PM
@julia If he got on The Bachelorette because he initially applied to be The Bachelor, something tells me he has something to do with the petition.
July 29th, 2009 at 5:58 PM
Hey RS,
I know you must sit here and crack up at all the bashing that folks do to you. Well like folks say, whether they hate you or love you atleast their talking about you.
I have an observation, not sure if it’s been discussed before, but this really made me start thinking. I feel that Jillian had to know about the Ed script of him leaving for “work” b/c she was a contestant herself. I know it has to state in their contract and they must be told that while they are on the show they cannot have contact w/ anyone outside of the house. For most reality shows, the contestants are only notified if there is a death in the family or a real emergency. So wouldn’t Jillian have wondered how Ed’s boss was able to get in contact w/ him?
July 29th, 2009 at 6:11 PM
Seems like Holly is going for one contestant off every season now. Hope Michael doesn’t get hurt.
July 29th, 2009 at 6:56 PM
Steve: hillarious! this is your best work yet – even better than the Wes interviews. thanks for exposing what a crock of s**t this show is, but, none-the-less, entertaining and even more entertaining to rip on. keep up the good work and keep trying to get an interview with ed’s scorned girlfriend – that would be the cherry on top of your blog for this season.
July 29th, 2009 at 7:06 PM
@Steed222 I completely agree with you – I believe Melissa very likely was dating Tye when she was on the Bachelorette. I’ve thought for awhile now that Melissa was probably in on the whole thing between her, Molly, and Jason. And that DWTS and even GMA are probably some of her $$ for being willing to go along.
July 29th, 2009 at 7:11 PM
Oops, that would be “The Bachelor” that Melissa was on….too much “Bachelorette” on the brain.
July 29th, 2009 at 7:57 PM
Thanks for a fantastic post! I appreciated reading Brad Womack’s letter…
July 29th, 2009 at 9:44 PM
@sparkly
gianabella and sparkly – I love your comments!! I would read your blogs any day!
July 29th, 2009 at 10:34 PM
gianabella. Great comments. Couldn’t have said it better. You really should have your own blog. All of it was great, but I particularly liked the ending.
“You received a “bad edit” on Extra (BTW, I am convinced that this was clearly a premeditated plan on the part of the Extra producers to make you look bad on national TV and destroy your life and reputation for ratings. If you don’t believe me, I have an email from a friend of a friend of one of the producer’s stepmother’s neighbors saying just that. Plus my BFF Jeremy confirmed it.)
You know, I would think that with all your in-depth knowledge of evil editing techniques you would have chosen your words more carefully so that they couldn’t edit you in a way to completely change your (WRONG) prediction. Even my grandma predicted Jillian would pick Ed and she doesn’t read spoilers. (PS Maybe you should sign up at the FORT.)
Anyway, just thought I’d share my impressions of your latest entries (and for those who are planning to ask me why I’m commenting on Steve’s blog if I don’t agree with what he posts, I’d suggest you first ask Steve why HE blogs about the Bachelor/Bachelorette when he clearly hates the show!)
Finally, the only comment I’ll make about your continuing quest to talk to Ed’s ex, exes, brother’s exes, etc. is this – when you finally reach her, you might want to tell her that regardless of whatever relationship she had with Ed in the past, it is now over.
I heard he got engaged on TV.”
July 29th, 2009 at 10:38 PM
Thanks for posting Brad’s letter. I have never seen that before. He is my fave Bachelor of all time. Not only is he absolutely gorgeous, but his finale was the most real yet.
July 29th, 2009 at 10:45 PM
The reason why Melissa looked different on ATFR is she changed the way she did her eye makeup. She didn’t have heavy eye liner on like she has in the past and she had white colored eye shadow on that makes your eyes look larger and gives you that more awake look. I’m sure since GMA had their makeup artist change her look.
I think Melissa is adorable and very classy. If you read the emails between Jason and Melissa that were leaked I doubt that she and Tye together during the show. And I don’t get why anyone would go on the show with a boyfriend or girlfriend. I would sure be pissy if my boyfriend was on The Bachelor mugging down with another girl.
July 29th, 2009 at 11:16 PM
I want to be a romantic and believe that Reid was really genuine in his feelings for Jillian. i thought he looked really sad last night and I felt bad for him. I know I would have picked him, had I been the Bachelorette!
I love Melissa and think she’s cute and down to earth. Why make her watch that horrid video of Jason again! I know that had to.. but geez I could have done w/o seeing stupid Jason’s face again.
Thank you for sharing a copy of Brad Womack’s letter… very telling of this series. It was very interesting…. I passed it on to several of my co-workers who watch the Bachelor.
July 30th, 2009 at 12:03 AM
Looks like RS touched a nerve with someone over on the comments section of Brady’s blog. Check this comment out…
“You and Reality Steve need to stop picking on Ed with all the rumors about ex girlfriends and being gay. If you guys continue to spread this crap, even if it is true, I will expose what I know about Steve’s own little “secret”. There’s a reason he continues to commute back and forth from Texas to Los Angeles, and its not because of the beaches. Do a google on “West Hollywood”. And yes, there are photos.”
For the full thread, go to http://bachelorettenews.blogspot.com
July 30th, 2009 at 5:12 AM
1. you wrote “the one(s) rejected at the end might LABOR some feelings” … the word you are looking for is HARBOR – not labor.
2. your grammar is also extremely rough – especially your misuse of pronouns .. though you’re in the company of jillian, ed and kiptyn on that.
3. wonder if anyone ever told you how ANNOYING it is that, in your blog and interviews, you ask yourself questions then answer them!!!
4. after all the put-downs from you – to so many – about how stupid they are to fall for things (including put-downs to your audience here about that) .. you actually fell for the thrill (< for you) of being on a national t.v. show, Extra — and so you got to be the buffoon.
5. wonder, after all the terrible things you said early on about wes’ singing, how you suddenly like it so much now…… and wonder if he’s read those put-downs of his singing you wrote so often…. though he is a cool enough guy not to care.
(i have always liked wes’ singing and songwriting.)
6. if you do a blog next year, please work on your language skills AND your compassion-for-others skills before you do.
July 30th, 2009 at 5:54 AM
damn, holly! well i can’t say i’m not jealous…michael is awesome. sucks that this takes him off the list of contenders to be the next bachelor though
p.s. does anyone know if fred and noelle are still together? they were so adorable!
July 30th, 2009 at 7:59 AM
Wow, kc, take it easy here! If you don’t like the way Steve writes, then by all means, leave. Trust me, you won’t be missed. And tell me oh perfect one, what exactly does “to so many” mean? Is that some kind of new english that only YOU use? And “early on” is NOT proper grammar; “earlier on” is what you should have used. So, kc, I suggest YOU be careful what you say and who you say it to. You are obviously not as perfect as you pretend to be.
July 30th, 2009 at 9:11 AM
To kc -
“People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.”
If you’re going to pick apart someone’s language skills, start with your own. Sentences begin with a capital letter and the word “I” when used as a pronoun is always capitalized.
Hava a nice day.
July 30th, 2009 at 9:57 AM
You say, “What I find interesting is that last night on the show, they said they haven’t been apart more than five days total since the show ended. Then in the blog she says they spent “all summer together (every two weeks for five days at a time)”. Ummmm, so which one is it?” So when they say it and it’s not totally 100% accurate and you don’t believe it, or want to scorn it, it’s not edited or “reality tv”, they’re ‘lying’ to us, but when Wes says it, it’s edited and reality tv, the gospel truth. You’re a trip. Just be fair whether you like the show or not.
July 30th, 2009 at 10:08 AM
No offense to anyone who likes Holly, but that saddens me that Michael Stag is dating her. She’s seems to be hooking up with as many guys as possible from past seasons. (I guess she has a really great personality?? :-/ )
Before we know it, next thing we’ll hear is there’s been a mass spreading of some STD between past Bachelor/ette contestants.
July 30th, 2009 at 10:42 AM
RS – there are really a few snotwaffles on this thread of posts….can’t you delete them? Very annoying – jeez. They way they attack you – you would think they actually know you. I don’t know you from Adam and I’ve been reading you for a few years now. Never would I disrepect YOU or MYSELF by writing such dribble as I have read above. Oh well…to each their own or to each his own or her own or whatever. I like you RS. I like your writing, I like your style – it’s good. Keep on doin’ it and doin’ it and you get my drift! BTW – I watched the first episode of MORE TO LOVE and aside from all the tears, it kept my interest. Some flaky girls, sure…but for the most part – all seemed and the key word is “seemed” genuine. Again, you have opened our eyes to the edits of reality TV so we look at these things with fresh, new prospectives. THANKS RS!
July 30th, 2009 at 10:47 AM
There is NO WAY Brad Womack wrote that email – at least not on his own. That would make him a much better writer than Reality Steve and he never went to college and he’s a bartender. Sorry, I’m not buying that the beautifully crafted, well thought out, eloquent email was the sole work of the guy who runs the Dizzy Rooster.
July 30th, 2009 at 11:02 AM
ok Steve! Spill the beans!! What do we have to wait for Monday to hear about that is going to make our jaws drop?!?! Give me something!!!!
July 30th, 2009 at 11:19 AM
Steve, I look for your recaps every week and also enjoy the interviews you have conducted with previous Bach/Bachette participants. The greatest story you could ever bring to this blog is a story exposing Ed for the cad that he is. You would get as much traffic/exposure as you did last year through the Jason/Melissa/Molly story. Ed may have convinced Jillian that she is the one for him; but he WILL NEVER fool those of us that know better. Run with the story if you have the chance Steve – there are so many good reasons to do it!
July 30th, 2009 at 12:09 PM
@tennisany1
Very Interesting you say that. A friend of mine met a guy who could have been pulling this out of his “arse” but he supposedly was connected to Ty somehow. The story goes that the real reason Melissa and Jason broke up was she was cheating on him with Ty. As she was such a fan favorite, ABC was already planning on using her for their future benefit and since this was happening prior to the finale, they had to think fast. So they turned Jason(since they were done with him) into the villian and her into the victim. While as in all things, I’m sure the truth lies somewhere in between, but I do think Ty had more to do with the breakup then let on (especially as last night she said they began speaking in early January when the ATFR was filmed mid to late January). She told me this little story while we were watching the ATFR the other night and it started to actually make sense. Granted this goes against RS whole conspiracy theory but it still involves major manipulation on ABC’s part. If they were able to edit someone like Wes so severly and their was no studio audience at J, M, and M’s ATFR, could they not have severely edited what occured to fit their storyline and keep Melissa in good graces? Considering Jason also had such an “I hate ABC but i’m contractually obligated to be here ” look on his face at the MTA, he definitely could have been screwed over by ABC.
I kinda see a smiliarity to Jason’s situation and Brad’s. In Brad’s season they edited and manipulated to increase sympathy for Deannna to attract viewership when she became the bachelorette. So why couldn’t they do the same with Jason in regards to Melissa? ABC is surely always thinking towards the future and attracting viewership. If it got out that Melissa in fact broke Jason’s heart instead of vice versa, her popularity would end up being a waste for them…just some food for thought
July 30th, 2009 at 12:14 PM
Dear negative people, (especially the grammar critic)
Please go to your bookmarks and locate http://www.realitysteve.com/blog.
Left click, right click, delete.
Simple as that.
Good riddance.
July 30th, 2009 at 12:14 PM
Thanks RS for a fun ride this season. I will miss getting my fix on Tuesday morning!
I appreciated Brad’s email, very eye opening. Also after viewing the above videos, I am a bigger fan of Wes.
It will be interesting to find out about Ed. I just don’t trust the guy. I will be checking back.
I agree with Jennifer S. that those of you who have been attacking Steve should get lost. It is possible to be critical without being mean.
Take care everyone.
July 30th, 2009 at 1:09 PM
Michael!!! Are you seriously saying they were considering him for the next bachelor? Well that would cure it for me, then I can for sure quit watching. If it is Reid, I will watch again other than that I am so done with this scripted show. At least with Reid, I know it could potentially have some honesty.
July 30th, 2009 at 1:14 PM
I’m hearing Jill is already in Chitown…
Are we thinking she knows everything and is ok with it?
Maybe I’m crazy – some people seem to think Ed’s “stuff” is all a case of making mountains out of molehills. I wonder why I don’t quite see it that way….
July 30th, 2009 at 1:52 PM
Did you guys get to read this??
http://www.411mania.com/music/news/111882/Ex-%5C%5CAmerican-Idol%5C%5C-Contestant-Says-Show-Is-Rigged.htm
Seems like the truth is finally coming out about Reality Tv. This is the perfect place to shed the light into what really goes on behind the scenes.
Enjoy!
July 30th, 2009 at 2:05 PM
The ‘reality’ of it is that it is on t.v.
July 30th, 2009 at 3:23 PM
Respectfully, in the world of television ratings and profit, I think ABC could’ve easily taken this situation and exploited it for tremendous ratings.If vViewers rallied around Jason as the rejected bachelor on DeAnna’s season, they would have rallied around him eqaully as the victim of another heartbreak. Then there would have been cheers when he chose Molly.
I think one of the reasons he looks pained when on television is because he knows how reviled he was. I also think that any animosity he might have toward ABC is because he had no idea how massive the outcome would be for agreeing to play whatever games the producers told him to. Be careful not to make deals with the devil… He agreed to their terms, and then the producers hung him out to dry.
The show is a sham. To whatever extent prior contestants are conmfortable with the show’s integrity is, I believe, directly related to how involved in game playing they were required to be and how accurately they were portrayed.
Just my opinion.
July 30th, 2009 at 4:28 PM
@gianabella
LOVE IT!
July 30th, 2009 at 5:00 PM
Steve,
I think it’s put up or shut up time with the innuendos about Ed and a mystery girlfriend back in Chicago. It’s been some months now since he left the show and went back home to deal with work issues. I would have thought that if there was a girlfriend, she would have spoken out by now. So far I have seen precisely nothing factual or any proof whatsoever that Ed went back home to break up with a girlfriend. I didn’t watch this season of the Bachelorette to have a favorite, so I am not defending Ed because of any emotional investment like others who have posted here. I am just impatient with all of the rumors flying around.
If I remember correctly, there were a lot of similar rumors about Jesse on Deanna’s season of the Bachelorette. As I recall, many were also calling into question his motives for being on the show. I kept hearing that he went on the show to get publicity for his career as a snowboarder. The bottom line is that the people who go on this show do not live as monks or nuns in their real life. I think it’s entirely natural to expect that they have dated, had relationships, all the normal activities that single young 20 and thirty somethings engage in at that point in their lives. So what’s the big deal?
Steve – you called Ed a player. What’s so bad about that? So he’s a young single guy having fun with women! Big deal! I think that if he had another reason for leaving the show, it would have come out by now. If some woman does come out after the fact, and claims to be a former girlfriend, I don’t think I would even believe it. People say all sorts of things just to have their fifteen minutes in the limelight.
Jillian also said that she doesn’t care if he had a girlfriend, as long as he broke up with her. If she’s okay with it, then why should anyone else care. I have this feeling that you think that if you can prove that Ed was the guy who had a girlfriend, then it will take the heat off Wes. I hope that’s not your motive. I wish Jillian and Ed the best. The odds may be against them, but you never know.
July 30th, 2009 at 5:22 PM
Good luck to you Steve,Maddie,Wes,you should all put this behind you,well I guess,ha ah The Texas Mafia…via twitter,can’t.Jeremy should just get laid,if the tweets or whatever are true,but,not sure,it’s the frigging internet,so who knows,I will wait with baited breath for the breaking news…Well maybe a glimmer in all this,well whether Brad’s e-mail was legit or not,you do have to play out the show,you signed,but…He is one guy who took a lot of heat that I could not understand…I found him admirable and honest.So people out there be carefull who you hate.
July 31st, 2009 at 1:43 AM
Frankly, my interest was waning and my frustration was mounting with this stupid show until…I discovered this blog. Now, I can stand about 7 minutes of the show, flip to something else, then read realitysteve in the morning and get a great laugh. Juicy bits too. So thanks for that! In a weird way, I’m sure this site helps the show much more than Harrison or anyone else at ABC would like to admit. But I did realize one thing that has ALWAYS bugged me. Call me old fashioned, but the fantasy suite, where the bachelor/bachelorette is potentially sleeping with more than one person over the course of several days. In REAL life, if that happens, it’s not something you are necessarily proud of. Yeah, it happens, you might admit it to your close friends and you might tell the story with a little bit of embarassment. But you are also most likely not in the state of mind where you are looking to get married. You are playing the field, so to speak. So how in God’s name do the producers expect anyone to believe that this is any state of mind to make a decision as to who to marry? It makes Brad Womack’s decision the most realistic of them all. If a friend of mine announced their engagement and I knew they had slept with someone completely different a mere sequence of days before, I’d be saying to myself…ewww, shaky ground. But then again, that’s why the 17-1 track record is what it is. I’m sure someone has probably made this observation before–my participation has been pretty sporadic, so I apologize. But I just thought I’d offer my two cents. Thanks again, Steve!
July 31st, 2009 at 7:23 AM
@gianabella
Exactly what everyone I know is thinking, too! Awesome gianabela!
July 31st, 2009 at 7:23 AM
Awesome gianabella!!
July 31st, 2009 at 12:12 PM
@marubi
I’m sure I’m completely naive regarding the entire fantasy suite thing, but going along with how fake and scripted this show is (a complete soap opera) I don’t think any of the “contestants” sleep with the bachelor/bachlorette. I think it’s all for show. The rest of the show is fake, why not this part too?
July 31st, 2009 at 12:43 PM
I felt very embarrassed watching the AFR this week. I may be the only one, but IMO—Jillian’s high-pitched squeals and constant kissing (of everyone—-probably the cameramen even got some)—is just too much on the ears and eyes. I found myself looking away more than watching—- just wanted to see what they would say re: possible wedding day. I agree with Steve that it probably will not occur—but, like a train wreck—had to watch the uncomfortable episode. We’ll see, I guess.
July 31st, 2009 at 1:59 PM
Thanks for keeping it real Steve! I enjoyed the blogs, skipped the last two shows themselves, (why bother) and I will give it 3 months tops!
Now get off it, and call Jennifer! (she is a sweetie!) <3
July 31st, 2009 at 3:09 PM
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/exclusive-bachelorette-winner%E2%80%99s-new-man-still-texting-ex-girlfriend
I hope this isn’t true.
July 31st, 2009 at 3:23 PM
The ABC board is all talking now about that radar article. Come on Steve why not share now what you know. About time people see Ed for what he is.
And why was he allowed to text anyway with the outside world – job? girlfriend? what is with that?
July 31st, 2009 at 3:42 PM
@tennisany1
You are so right, and I have to keep reminding myself not to fall for it. I actually thought Reid was genuinely upset on the AFR show, until Steve pointed out, hey, it’s been 2 months. So in keeping with the non-reality reality, why then, when they do script the intimate stuff, they have to make it so damn creepy? Like when Jillian went on and on about having sex ALOT with Ed since the show. Another creepy moment no one’s mentioned is the 12 year old girl asking Reid for a date. UG.
July 31st, 2009 at 7:37 PM
I hope that ABC will not pick Jake for the new Bachelor. He is married. His wife’s name is Christina. And as of today their gorgeous picture is on Lantanalive.com (for residents only). Everyone here knows this and this just proves that reality shows are sooooo scripted. What a joke.
July 31st, 2009 at 10:57 PM
It’s pretty amusing how an RS hater comes on his site repeatedly, just can’t stay away. Tells me all I need to know.
August 1st, 2009 at 11:31 AM
you guys need to go radar on line for the latest info. about ED. and his Ex girlfriend Bethany. I guess Jillian already know about Ed EX. We all had Ex.
August 1st, 2009 at 12:42 PM
Here’s a country singer that seems to be really genuine. Kevin Skinner will never be on the bachelor, but wow, what potential. I’d much rather listen to this guy than Wes.
http://tv.yahoo.com/blog/americas-got-talent-top-10-of-the-vegas-40–503
August 1st, 2009 at 1:33 PM
Steve – just new to your blog. Thanks for Brad’s email. But a question for you. My deal with Brad was NOT that he turned them both down, but because he didn’t want to date either one for a while to see if more could happen. I think its totally acceptable to not want to propose, and for him to say he’s not in love. But he didn’t like either of them enough to want to date them? I mean really, this show is more about finding someone you want to date, more than marry. So, it seemed to me (and this could be the editing) that he liked them both, so why not date after the show, to see what happens? If I went on the show that’s what it would be for me. So, that’s what I couldn’t understand and didn’t make sense to me.
August 1st, 2009 at 7:46 PM
Hey Steve, keep up the good work! Its really interesting behind the scenes stuff. But it seems if you get in too deep, and you care too much about the reality of the contestants, the show gets boring and kinda lame. Its actually kinda cool that they spice things up with Jason-Melissa, and Ed-Jillian. Sure, people’s feelings get hurt and that’s unfortunate, but just like Wes you always have to be watching out for numero uno. The producers did Wes a favor by making him the Bad Boy, now he is one of the memorable castmembers and can sell CD’s and become a big star. Did you really think Wes wanted to fall in love with Jillian and get married? No one on the show gets married, so Wes should be thankful he got some free publicity instead of a fake engagement. As for Brad, I don’t really feel too bad for him, yeah he should take sensitivity training because the show is about TRYING to fall in love, Not actually falling love. They give you 15 beautiful, marriage-ready women, and you reject them all. That is COLD. Give it a try, even if its fake. Everyone breaks up, but its a pity to break up when Brad never gave it a chance in real life. At least Andrew and Jen moved in together and I think they were the best couple in that they tried to make it work, even if it was for a short time.
I like how the producers have let real life issues into the story-line. Jason flip-flopping between Melissa and Molly was an exact copycat of the real-life switch with Lorenzo and Sadie, except taped. Real life is more dramatic than tv. Ed leaving for business reasons is exactly what other men are faced with who can’t take off a month of vacation days. One guy quit his job to marry Meredith and he got the boot. Don’t lose your job trying to find love on the Bachelor.
But the show is a great way to launch a career and get exposure and every contestant should be happy and milk for as much as possible. I think Jillian will get married, because she wants to get married more than she wants a tv career.
August 1st, 2009 at 11:56 PM
Wow there is a post now on the ABC board that has reposted something from FORT that pretty much backs up everything you have been saying Steve and more. This is really quite unbelievable. And as you have been saying ole Eddie really is not what some people thought he was. I know I never liked him from day one, but seems he was not a fave of anyone from ABC. I just wonder how ABC is going to play this one out. How long does Jillian have to pretend they are happy? This is just beyond unbelievable. Wow!!
August 2nd, 2009 at 12:22 AM
I’ve read your column for the past 2 seasons and usually enjoy reading your sophmoric take on the show. This last article, however, didn’t sit right with me. Jillian said that they never spent more than 5 days apart from each other. Not total, Steve….just at the most 5 days between visits. 2nd…the comment about Ed’s last name. Come on, are you kidding me that you are going to go there. HIS LAST NAME, really!!! That is beyond sophmoric. Then to top it all off, you make fun of Ed’s bowl haircut. Have you looked in a mirror lately? Your forward is so large they could show a movie on it.
Stick to the show and stop making fun of people’s last name. You are offending many ethnic people with good, solid, hard working ethnic names.
Now, you are “friends” with Wes. Congratulations! He has lured you into his agenda now. Don’t you think that it is not wise to mix business with pleasure. You know why guys where boots in Texas, Steve.
Snakes, that’s why. Be careful who you are defending. He probably just using you, too!
August 2nd, 2009 at 2:48 AM
Bye the way hope you had a good time really with Wes,party hardy,and by his interview,well Wes was a gentelman about Jilly,hope that rubs off on you…Have you had a chance to post on other boards lately?Are you as wiped out as some people?Anyway love to Maddie,she’s a doll,and have a good and thoughtful day.Thanks Bud.
August 2nd, 2009 at 3:03 AM
Sorry,my Post didn’t show up,so will try again.I was just saying to the effect I am glad you made friends with Wes,and partied hardy…And I was saying, in Wes’s interview he was a perfect gentleman when talking about Jillian,he saw the person with the personality,go have a beer with, date.I am sure he still thinks that, and I hoped that rubbed off on you.I also asked if you have posted on other boards lately,but you must be wiped,I guess.I also sent my love to Maddie,looks like a sweetie,and I wished you a good and thoughtful day…
August 2nd, 2009 at 9:48 AM
I cannot wait until “next week,” is here and you spill!!! After reading all that FORT info I want to hear what you have to say even more.
August 2nd, 2009 at 10:44 AM
Hope you’ve had a chance to read the NYTimes Online story about Reality TV:
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/02/business/media/02reality.html
This helps confirm much of what you said about the Bachelor/ette shows and specifically about Wes. I appreciate your interviews and support of Wes because I listened, watched, and came to realize that while he wasn’t someone I’d seek for a friend due to my lack of interest in country music, I still found him compelling as a person trying to set the record straight.
August 3rd, 2009 at 12:50 AM
@JLBWorld,
Have you read that piece on the ABC boards? That person used bad grammar, spelling, run-on sentences. It was a mess. It sounded more like a teenager wrote it. It was patently absurd on its face. It astounds me that all someone has to do is go on any forum and claim to be the friend of Ed’s ex-girlfriend and then make up some dumb story and, looky looky, everyone takes it as the gospel truth! I am extremely skeptical of someone who can’t even write decent English.
I just hope if Bethany hersel decides to speak up, that she is more literate than the person who wrote that ridiculous post on the ABC boards!
August 3rd, 2009 at 10:28 AM
mindy – I am referring to what was on Fort – written by an attorney and a very credible person.
Misspelled words? You mean like hersel???
August 3rd, 2009 at 11:53 AM
NYT piece is right but I still have absolutely no sympathy for these reality star wannabes that are begging for their 5 minutes of fame. If they don’t realize what they’re getting themselves into by now then they deserve it.
August 3rd, 2009 at 1:45 PM
So Mr. Steve it is “next week,” already are we going to get some news?
August 3rd, 2009 at 2:17 PM
Steve,
Thank you so much for this blog. I wanted to express an immense appreciation and gratitude for what you do – it is very important. I didn’t know anything about the reality tv world until I started reading your blog last season and am now so thoroughly disgusted with it, I don’t plan to watch or support this series anymore. The manipulation and distortion that is carried out with human hearts and emotions is beyond disturbing. This past weekend the ABC bachelorette board had an immense fallout – people were being deleted off the board and being censored with such rapidity it was crazy. There was no support for anyone who had any ideas similar to yours, thank goodness for your blog! I just had to write this so you know how important and appreciated your blog is, I hope you continue being a voice for those who don’t have any, especially the contestants like Wes that get screwed over in such a major way that it affects their professional and emotional well being. This show isn’t for people wanting to support good and healthy television, thanks for opening our eyes up to that!
August 3rd, 2009 at 2:26 PM
Forgot to add one thing: I saw that someone posted the link to the NY Times article, I thought it was great about the conditions that reality tv contestants have to suffer through – its like slave labor/sweat shop type of stuff…I hope you’ll give the link to it (if it is possible) so your readers can see it. Thanks for the Brad Womack letter also, was very interesting and had never seen it. The Bachelor video of contestants trying to sign up for the show was interesting and funny along with being worrisome at the same time – about the unrealistic and naive motives people carry for going on this show. Thanks for sharing!
August 3rd, 2009 at 4:00 PM
I think there is supposed to be an article about Ed in US Weekly tomorrow…
August 3rd, 2009 at 4:41 PM
@JLBWORLD –
Why am I not surprised that you would call me out for a typo. Sorry, that is NOT, I repeat NOT, misspelling. Maybe you should get the difference straight in your own mind before you go trashing people. If we all called each other out on our little typos, then that’s all we would be doing.
I merely made reference to a comment that was not only posted on the ABC forum, but actually copied and pasted onto the FORT site. Someone did it before it was deleted on the ABC site. A lot of nuts have been crawling out of the woodwork pretending to be a friend of Bethany, or a friend of a friend.
Obviously, what you made reference to was something entirely different. I have been on FORT, but you did not indicate where it was posted. It’s a big site. But come to think of it, I now think I know to whom you are referring. Since I have been there for a while now, there is a person who fits your description. I will have to check it out.
Your snotty reply was completely uncalled for. I was referencing the information I had read and wondered if it was the same thing. You could have answered politely and refrained from pointing out what was obviously a typo.
August 3rd, 2009 at 5:27 PM
Buddy Tv’s article today…mentions Reality Steve!
http://www.buddytv.com/articles/the-bachelorette/the-bachelorette-ed-swiderski-30464.aspx
August 3rd, 2009 at 6:19 PM
Reading these posts, I am reminded of what my mother used to tell me.
“Some people can dish it out, but they can’t take it”.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:28 AM
All of you RS haters make us laugh! You come here REPEATEDLY, yet have nothing nice to say. What great manners you have. Why dont you go visit a website you actually enjoy?
August 4th, 2009 at 8:40 AM
I’ve always liked you RSteve and have found your information interesting and credible … but it seems you have been playing with us this time regarding Ed? So where is the big news? I mean if you have nothing to report at least post again that you were wrong.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:46 PM
what is the FORT website that a few people keep referencing? Can someone provide a link?
August 4th, 2009 at 4:27 PM
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/08/bachelorette-winner-scandal-ex-drop-bomb-swiderski
“The ex-girlfriend of Bachelorette winner Ed Swiderski, who RadarOnline.com told you last week was still in intimate contact with Ed during the shows airing and finale, is planning to tell all this week.”
August 4th, 2009 at 5:22 PM
Fansofrealitytv I don’t have the exact address but google that and you will find it.
supposedly on Inside Edition today this is all breaking news.
August 4th, 2009 at 5:54 PM
Well, Steve was right…. check out EXTRA, People, Inside Edition…..
Sheesh- Jilly needs an intervention STAT!
August 4th, 2009 at 6:20 PM
Not sure if my previous post went through…..
But the poop is hitting the fan now…. EXTRA, Inside edition, People- US weekly supposedly tomorrow….
August 4th, 2009 at 7:09 PM
Yes Steve you can just sit back and say … well I told you all so and some did not want to believe you. I for one did because Mr.Ed just came off as a real jerk to me from day one.
August 4th, 2009 at 8:12 PM
You know, you guys who are waiting for a bombshell to rock the news are just vultures. Reminds me of Don Henley’s song Dirty Laundry. Whether the rumors are true or not, or the show is scripted or not, why can’t you root for the couple to find true love? Who are you to judge, especially with all the bits and pieces of information Steve and others are digging up. And those of you who say, if you don’t like his blog, go away, you need to figure out your priorities and what’s important. People blog to get responses. I’m sure no one wants a bunch of people who only agree with them to respond or read it. Steve lives for this crap. He’s eating it up. I didn’t mean to get so worked up, but what really ticks me off is that if these two people – who have feelings by the way – are really in love, no matter what their background, how can you expect them to make it when they have all this crap to deal with in public? Don’t you think if it is true, that they – and I’m including the girlfriend here – will deal with it and why can’t they deal with it in private? Why make it 100 times worse? Now, don’t just tell me to go away because you don’t like what I wrote. Tell me something logical that could possibly excuse all of this trash. And I really don’t think we need someone to tell us “Hey Virginia, it’s not real”. I don’t think I’m so stupid that I don’t know when television or reality TV or the media in general, is being manipulative. If people are so stupid to believe everything they see, hear and read, then shoving this in their face is not going to suddenly make them intelligent. They’ve got more problems than watching Reality TV.
August 5th, 2009 at 3:18 AM
@catherine a
Basically FORT (fans of reality tv) is a website that has some really great sleuthers…they are meticulous and intelligent and diligent about various angles of the show and are generally interesting/fun to read. They are the ones who figured out it was Melissa weeks before the ending etc. etc. There are a couple of good sleuthers (i.e SDL – who was listed on the recent post) who people really respect on the site. If you sign up on the website and then search out posts, you’ll see the discussion is generally pretty good! Hope that helps.
August 5th, 2009 at 3:19 AM
@dfwgirl
yes dfwgirl, you are so much better than everyone else, we get it. It’s not like posting snotty holier-than-thou messages on reality tv blogs drags you down to our level. bwaha. C’mon, relax! If Ed and Jilly break up over these stories then Ed has only himself to blame. I know it’s easier for the JED fans to blame the media, but if Ed didn’t play around then he wouldn’t be in this position. It’s on his shoulders.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:38 AM
Well, judging from the cover of US magazine, you were right again, RS. I can’t wait to hear what you have to say about this.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:58 AM
Just saw a brief live interview with Jillian and Ed on GMA….Ed in Las Vegas, Jillian in Chicago. It was pretty sad. Denials all around. Jillian says she knows all about Ed’s exes. They showed pictures of Ed with one girl at a wedding, dates, emails. Jillian said if the exes really wanted to “help warn her,” going to the tabloids wouldn’t be the way to do it – good point. They both said the wedding is “absolutely” still on, and Ed said maybe he’d take Jillian to the Chapel of Love in Las Vegas when she gets there later today.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:19 AM
Steve: The morning show in Los Angeles said that all of the emails would be on your website. You’re getting credit for everything now!
August 5th, 2009 at 11:22 AM
I think Jillian needs a session with Kiptyn’s mother, stat! Let’s hope she’s staying with him for some contract money, and not because she really wants to marry that dumbo.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:27 AM
Everyone go to http://www.astrochicks.com they have the US weekly article and pics of the girls Ed cheated on Jillian with.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:08 PM
That’s funny, I was posting somewhere the other day they will probably get married in Vegas this week. Wow, not I am reading Ed’s mind. He does remind me of my first husband. They’re so captivating to women because they really don’t give a shit, which makes them seem cool and confident.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:22 PM
oops, that was supposed to be “now”, not “not”.
Whatever happens, I am sure that ABC is just over the top about the publicity for their show.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:56 PM
Close Friend Admits It Was A Premeditated Stunt
Aug 4th, A posting by Wes on his myspace page by a real close friend, gloating she and Wes’s sister knew about Wes’s Stunt before the world figured it out.
http://www.myspace.com/weshaydenband
Posting Date: Aug. 4th, 2009 (11:42 am)
Close Friend: Lacy Jean Grayless
QUOTE: “I have a mutual friend of your sister’s so I knew all about your stunt long before the world did. LOL”
P.S. This is UNEDITED and approved and posted by Wes!
August 5th, 2009 at 1:49 PM
http://tv.yahoo.com/the-bachelorette/show/34988/videos/14914566
August 5th, 2009 at 5:49 PM
I have been trying to wait patiently for Steve to return and respond to all of this.
I guess if you have no more to say on this subject I wish you would at least come back and post accordingly.
August 5th, 2009 at 7:13 PM
RS is going to have a column up tomorrow! Good can’t wait to hear what his take on all of this is!
August 5th, 2009 at 7:21 PM
Just connected to the Wes Hayden link above and got a chuckle out of the following lyrics.
“they say love it don’t come easy and if you fall too quick it must be wrong” while it can be argued that I lifted only a portion of the song, I wonder if this now appliies to “Our Little Jilly.” If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck…….it’s a duck. Jilly run for your life.
August 5th, 2009 at 9:25 PM
To be honest, Jillian and Ed are both incredibly sleazy, immoral people. They deserve each other, and I do think this relationship will last. They have similar value systems and seem compatible, even complementary. I have a very low opinion of both.
With respect to these women, I do believe their allegations. However, ladies, honestly, what are you doing sleeping with a man out of wedlock — and then sleeping with him, after Jillian oiled him up on national TV. Where is YOUR self-respect? Yes, Ed is a dog. Yes, he used you. He is also using Jillian. He has no respect for women, but you allowed yourself to be used and gave yourself too freely to him.
I hate to say this, but if you are a loose woman and you offer yourself to a loose, immoral man, this is what you get. While exposing Ed for what he is (as if we didn’t already know), you have also exposed yourselves for being cheap women essentially.
I am sorry to say, but I believe what happened is that Ed enjoyed the sex with you — as sex is sex for men. It’s just an act, a release, unless with a woman he loves. He had likely gone on the show for entertainment purposes, returned to you to make his final decision, and then decided on Jillian.
I can see why he chose Jillian over the two other women. I must say that I don’t consider Jillian a catch by any stretch of the imagination. She is not attractive and her grammar is atrocious. Plus, she is a rather silly, vapid, narcissistic person. She has little depth or substance.
However, in the interviews, they come across as just silly, dumb party girls. Yes, they are much better looking that Jillian (especially the blonde), but they are also not intelligent or engaging. Being cute and sexy makes you sexually attractive, but Ed was looking for a life long partner. You can’t make a man fall in love with you based upon your appearance. With all due respect, good looking women (and men) are a dime a dozen, and you were cheap and easy with yourselves.
I think going to the tabloids was an incredibly trashy thing to do. I think the two spurned women think this is a great revenge for being used and discarded, but ladies, you put yourselves out there. You are just as much blame as Ed is. Why are you sleeping with a man who had just been on the Bachelor sleeping with the star?
At the end of the day, Jillian, Ed, and these two “spurned women” are just trashy. Ed and Jillian will probably experience extra-martial affairs as neither one seems to be able to exert much self-control and both love straddling adn being straddled quite indiscriminately. Neither seems very moral or spiritually evolved.
However, Ed said when he came back to Jillian that she is a “genius.” I harly see Jillian as particularly bright. However,next to the bimbos he left behind, Jillian is a genius — and ultimately Ed preferred more than just a pretty little air head. In Jillian, he found loose, cheap woman and someone with drive, personality, and intelligence.
The other two women are just pretty, dumb, empty vessels and boring to boot. Yes, any man who uses a woman is scum, but then good women and men find each other just as scum attracts scum.
I have never been cheated on. I have never dated a man who was loose. I have kept my morals and values. Men treat with me with respect and consideration.
For the two spurned ladies, do you really think Jillian cares she was cheated on? This is a woman who admitted on national TV to kissing 10 men — four with tongue. This is a woman who probably slept with at least four bachelors (including Jason). This woman is indisciminate and has disgusted the nation with her vulgar behavior, language and her straddling of various men she didn’t even know. This woman has no shame. Why would she care to find out that her man is as loose and immoral as she is? If anything, it would enhance their bond and comfort level as neither can judge the other. They understand each other as they fundamenetally act in the same way.
She was telling Kiptyn and Reid how much she cared, taking bubble baths, sleeping with them,hot tubbing while dating and sleeping with Ed.
How is what Ed did to you and different than what Jillian did to other men?
Move on and find some self-respect. This whole franchise cheapens relationships and marriage. I am embarrassed for all of you. The women in question have shamed and disgraced their own gender through their stupidity and manipulations.
August 5th, 2009 at 10:22 PM
Testing
August 13th, 2009 at 12:57 AM
How come my post did not take,I was a bit ticked but,hope it is a glich,and not a …Do not resusitate order.