With respect to these women, I do believe their allegations. However, ladies, honestly, what are you doing sleeping with a man out of wedlock — and then sleeping with him, after Jillian oiled him up on national TV. Where is YOUR self-respect? Yes, Ed is a dog. Yes, he used you. He is also using Jillian. He has no respect for women, but you allowed yourself to be used and gave yourself too freely to him.

I hate to say this, but if you are a loose woman and you offer yourself to a loose, immoral man, this is what you get. While exposing Ed for what he is (as if we didn’t already know), you have also exposed yourselves for being cheap women essentially.

I am sorry to say, but I believe what happened is that Ed enjoyed the sex with you — as sex is sex for men. It’s just an act, a release, unless with a woman he loves. He had likely gone on the show for entertainment purposes, returned to you to make his final decision, and then decided on Jillian.

I can see why he chose Jillian over the two other women. I must say that I don’t consider Jillian a catch by any stretch of the imagination. She is not attractive and her grammar is atrocious. Plus, she is a rather silly, vapid, narcissistic person. She has little depth or substance.

However, in the interviews, they come across as just silly, dumb party girls. Yes, they are much better looking that Jillian (especially the blonde), but they are also not intelligent or engaging. Being cute and sexy makes you sexually attractive, but Ed was looking for a life long partner. You can’t make a man fall in love with you based upon your appearance. With all due respect, good looking women (and men) are a dime a dozen, and you were cheap and easy with yourselves.

I think going to the tabloids was an incredibly trashy thing to do. I think the two spurned women think this is a great revenge for being used and discarded, but ladies, you put yourselves out there. You are just as much blame as Ed is. Why are you sleeping with a man who had just been on the Bachelor sleeping with the star?

At the end of the day, Jillian, Ed, and these two “spurned women” are just trashy. Ed and Jillian will probably experience extra-martial affairs as neither one seems to be able to exert much self-control and both love straddling adn being straddled quite indiscriminately. Neither seems very moral or spiritually evolved.

However, Ed said when he came back to Jillian that she is a “genius.” I harly see Jillian as particularly bright. However,next to the bimbos he left behind, Jillian is a genius — and ultimately Ed preferred more than just a pretty little air head. In Jillian, he found loose, cheap woman and someone with drive, personality, and intelligence.

The other two women are just pretty, dumb, empty vessels and boring to boot. Yes, any man who uses a woman is scum, but then good women and men find each other just as scum attracts scum.

I have never been cheated on. I have never dated a man who was loose. I have kept my morals and values. Men treat with me with respect and consideration.

For the two spurned ladies, do you really think Jillian cares she was cheated on? This is a woman who admitted on national TV to kissing 10 men — four with tongue. This is a woman who probably slept with at least four bachelors (including Jason). This woman is indisciminate and has disgusted the nation with her vulgar behavior, language and her straddling of various men she didn’t even know. This woman has no shame. Why would she care to find out that her man is as loose and immoral as she is? If anything, it would enhance their bond and comfort level as neither can judge the other. They understand each other as they fundamenetally act in the same way.

She was telling Kiptyn and Reid how much she cared, taking bubble baths, sleeping with them,hot tubbing while dating and sleeping with Ed.

How is what Ed did to you and different than what Jillian did to other men?

Move on and find some self-respect. This whole franchise cheapens relationships and marriage. I am embarrassed for all of you. The women in question have shamed and disgraced their own gender through their stupidity and manipulations.

“they say love it don’t come easy and if you fall too quick it must be wrong” while it can be argued that I lifted only a portion of the song, I wonder if this now appliies to “Our Little Jilly.” If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck…….it’s a duck. Jilly run for your life.

I guess if you have no more to say on this subject I wish you would at least come back and post accordingly.

Aug 4th, A posting by Wes on his myspace page by a real close friend, gloating she and Wes’s sister knew about Wes’s Stunt before the world figured it out.

http://www.myspace.com/weshaydenband
Posting Date: Aug. 4th, 2009 (11:42 am)
Close Friend: Lacy Jean Grayless
QUOTE: “I have a mutual friend of your sister’s so I knew all about your stunt long before the world did. LOL”

P.S. This is UNEDITED and approved and posted by Wes!