The Justin “Rated R” Rego Scandal
Bear with me on this. I’ll try and make it as clear as possible by letting you in on all the layers. His elimination happens in Turkey after he has just gotten the rose in the 2-on-1 date over Kasey (important note). Remember I told you someone from last season makes an appearance this season? Well that person is Jessie Sulidis, the girl who claims to have seen Rozlyn and the producer kissing on the staircase. Man, she’s turned into this show’s rat, hasn’t she? Jessie is actually part of the phone call to Ali. Justin’s girlfriend’s name is Jessica Spillas. I know, I know. More duplicate names. Crazy huh? And both have a last name beginning with “S” to make it even better. So here’s how it all breaks down and how Jessie got involved:
The Phone Call (To keep it clear, Jessie Sulidis I’ll refer to as Jessie, and Jessica Spillas (Justin’s girlfriend), I’ll refer to as Jessica)
-Jessica was well aware Justin was going on the show. Justin told her to wait for him until he got back, that he was doing this for his career, she’s the one he wanted to be with, blah blah blah and Jessica agreed. I don’t know why, but she did.
-After Justin leaves to do the show, Jessica sees a suspicious post on Justin’s facebook page (he hadn’t shut it down) from another girl by the name of Kimberly. I don’t know what the post said, but it was bad enough that it caused Jessica to contact Kimberly. When she did, she found out that Justin had been in a relationship with Kimberly as well. At that point, she was pissed and wanted to come forward. As did Kimberly. He was playing two women, and neither knew about the other one..
-Jessica, because she lives in Toronto and is a fan of the show, realized that Jessie Sulidis was also in Toronto, so she contacted her asking for help about getting in contact with someone at ABC to tell her Justin is a liar and Ali should know about this. Jessie contacts ABC for her, they talk to Jessica, Jessica tells them about her and Kimberly, and they want her to come forward and send out a camera crew to Jessie’s place, but don’t want Kimberly to be part of it. They figure she’s just the mistress in all this, and people would find it too unbelievable if there’s a third girl involved. Probably ABC’s biggest mistake they made. Why? Because Kimberly isn’t under contract with the show, having never been part of the phone call, yet she’s scorned and pissed off she found this out about Justin. Well, guess who she tells all this to? That’s right. Me. I’m sure ABC is kicking themselves for not locking up Kimberly. Woops. More on that in a bit.
-Anyway, the phone call is made. I guess Chris Harrison is actually the one who calls Jessie at her place, and Jessica is there with her. Chris gives the phone to Ali, Jessie tells her there’s someone on the show who isn’t being honest with her, Ali asks who, Jessie says it’s Justin, and she knows this because she’s sitting right next to his girlfriend. So Jessie hands the phone to Jessica, and Jessica tells Ali the story. Basically that she wanted to tell Ali this because she found out that Justin had been cheating on her with another girl (Kimberly) and that Ali had a right to know. I’m sure other things were said, but she got her point across being “Look, the guy is a dog. He cheated on me, and more people don’t need to get hurt in all this.”
-Ali confronts Justin in Turkey sometime after this phone call is made, Justin storms off (don’t know why since he’s guilty), they finally talk and apparently Justin admits to it. Not only does he admit to it, but he basically tells Ali that during his time on the show, he realized that there wasn’t a connection with her, Jessica is a big part of his life back home, and being away from her made him realize that Jessica is the one he wanted to be with. So with that, Ali kicks him off the show. I have no clue where he stands in his life with Jessica and don’t care. Takes some pretty big balls for him to think he’d actually get away with that.
Now, some of you are probably thinking that Justin and Jessica are in on this together, ABC knew about it from the get go, and this was a story they had months in the making. Not true. Why? Because back on Jan. 13th, two days after the Rozlyn episode aired & essentially two months before Ali’s season even started filming, I got an email from someone who had never emailed me before. Didn’t sign their name to it, so I didn’t know who it was. It was a very curious email though that I saved in my inbox. This is the email and how it read:
Subject: my bf is going on the bachelorette. HELP!
Date: Wednesday, January 13, 2010, 6:13 PM
So first off I want you to know that I love your column very much and reading it every day has been helping me cope with my situation, so here it is:
Basically, my boyfriend of over a year and a half now, whom we have plans to get married by the way, has been selected to participate in the Bachelorette of this year. In fact, I believe he is on the plane to LA as we speak to meet with producers and do up his contract or something like that. Now keep in mind, my wonderful bf wants me to ACTUALLY wait for him while he goes on this show and tries to win the heart of another girl.
Someone should speak out about this because I’m sure I’m not the first girl who had to let her bf go because of a stupid reality show that people go on to find love when they already have it!
He claims he’s doing it for the fame and he wants to get some wrestling career or something out of it, but how stupid will I look when I wait for him to go on this show, he comes back to me (if he doesn’t end up falling for her like he claims) and then the whole world watches MY bf hooking up another woman on national television?
I’m pretty sure this entire situation has completely deterred me from ever getting into another relationship ever again because now I just feel like all guys are selfish and will always choose to benefit themselves no matter how much pain is endured towards the other person. I find the producers of the show incredibly STUPID for not seeing that this guy is not genuine.
Anyway, someone should really let the public or SOMEONE know that this show is ruining people’s lives now. And I’m forced to be this great catch who’s doomed to walk to earth alone forever like the Incredible Hulk. Why cant ABC see when someone is genuine or not? I can’t even watch what used to be my favorite show anymore because it’s such bullshit.
Now the thing is, I don’t want to be responsible for getting him kicked off the show, which is refraining me from contacting ABC myself. Because no matter how much bullshit I’ve gone through with this situation, I know how much this opportunity means to him, and I want to see him happy even THOUGH his happiness on this show will pretty much be my ultimate demise.
I am very much in love with this person and cannot imagine living a life without him. I feel as if I need to sacrifice my happiness while he participates on the show in order to ultimately spend a life of happiness with him, which is what I am made to believe is something we BOTH want. He pledges to return to me with open arms in the end and because I am completely devoted to him, I want to believe him. Like I said, I love him more than the entire universe and I don’t want to be without him but I feel almost as if this whole debacle has misconstrued my judgement and I no longer know if I’m doing the right thing. So I’m getting a second opinion from someone who (hopefully) has seen situations such as this before.
So to wrap up my rant in one quick question:
DO YOU OR DO YOU NOT THINK I SHOULD WAIT FOR THIS GUY AND MAYBE THIS WILL GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO BLOG ABOUT?
Let me know ?