Reality Steve

Bachelorette Spoilers (Part 2)

The Justin “Rated R” Rego Scandal (Part 2)

I remember when I got this email, I was in the middle of all the Rozlyn craziness and I emailed this girl back saying something like “I got your email, I want to talk to you about this, but gimmie some time.” Well, I never got back to her. Had too much stuff going on last season. So when I heard about a month ago about this scandal and a guy going on the show to promote his wrestling career even though he had a girlfriend back home, I put two and two together and realized this email had to be from Jessica. So I tried emailing her back at this address but haven’t heard from her. Obviously, she’s under ABC’s lock and key now so there’s no way she’ll respond to me. All you need to do is ask yourself this question: If Jessica is some paid actress or someone they hired to go along with this storyline, do you honestly think out of ALL the people in the world, they would want her contacting Reality Steve to tell her story to? Didn’t think so. Now, Justin seems like he had an agenda from the beginning, but Jessica was out of the loop. Well, she was dumb for agreeing let her boyfriend go on the show in the first place, but she was not part of the storyline originally and had planned on keeping her mouth shut. That is, until she found out about Kimberly.

If the story couldn’t get any weirder, apparently when Jessica contacted Jessie to tell her to put her in touch with someone at ABC, she found out that Jessie and Kimberly knew each other from events they had worked together in Toronto. So once I found all this out about a third girl, I contacted Kimberly to find out what she could tell me about the scandal. And she pretty much laid it out for me. When I asked her role in all this, our email exchange went like this. First her response to what happened:

“well, basically, i was dating justin up until he went on the show. about a week after he had left, i got a msg from a girl claiming to be justin’s girlfriend of a year and a half. she said she had found me after looking at his fb and reading our messages and etc. i didn’t believe her at first, but we exchanged stories, messages, photos etc. and we found out it was true that he was dating us at the same time. needless to say he’s a really good liar and a master manipulator.”

I then asked Kimberly if ABC tried to contact her. Her response:

“they contacted jessica. his long term gf. the producers thought having 2 girls be part of the show would be too much drama and sound far fetched. even tho it was the truth.”

I followed up with, “So what do you think made Jessica come forward and out Justin to the show?” Her answer:

“the only reason why jessica confronted Ali was because she found out about me. and she was going to wait for justin to come back home and continue their relationship (i was also planning on doing the same, until i found out about Jessica). but once she knew he was already cheating on her she felt the need to confront Ali so he didnt get away with his games anymore. we wanted to confront Ali together, but the producers didnt want that.”

Finally I told her she’s gotta realize that people will criticize her (as well as Jessica) for knowingly letting your “boyfriend” go on a show like this saying you’ll wait til he gets back. I asked her how in the world she had no clue Justin was seeing someone else while he was with her. Her response:

“and i was so sure he didnt have a gf cuz he said it was in his contract that he was not allowed to have a gf. so why would i even think he did have another gf. he said he was single b4 he met me cuz of the show. and i let him go on the show cuz he said it was a career move and we would get back together once he was done filming.”

There you have it. That’s the crazy, convoluted Justin “Rated R” Rego scandal. I’m sure there’s probably even more, but those are the basics of what you need to know. Ummmmm, I told you women were gonna hate his ass. The guy basically got caught with his pants down and has no one to blame but himself. I don’t necessarily condone what the women did either, but hey, it’s not like it’s the first time a girl back home let her boyfriend do the show. It’s just that this one happened to find out he was boning someone else on the side and decided to do something about it. So for that, I actually applaud her. Judging by that email she sent me back in January, you could tell that Jessica definitely thought this guy was the cat’s pajamas. Uhhhhh, not anymore I’m guessing. But hey, if you wanna join Justin’s Facebook Fan Page, go right ahead!

I think the biggest question to ponder in all of this, is when Ali was actually informed about Justin having a girlfriend. Obviously the producers knew well before they set up that 2-on-1 date with Kasey and Justin in Iceland. That’s obvious. Which then makes me believe Ali was told to keep Justin around on that date because they knew they had this bombshell waiting for them in Turkey. Only Ali and the producers know for sure, but it’s fairly obvious. Maybe they told her right before that date to keep Justin around, but never told her why. Then maybe they told her about what was going to happen with the phone call and Justin on the plane ride over to Turkey. Or maybe they told her once they touched down in Turkey. I don’t know. All I know is, she had to have known sometime before she walked in that room with Chris Harrison and a phone about to ring up Jessie Sulidis from last season, someone I don’t even know if Ali’s was friends with. If I had to guess, I’d say they nudged her to keep Justin around on the 2-on-1, then told her on the way to Turkey, or right when they landed that a phone call was going to be made and she would have to speak to his girlfriend. Since we all know Ali has no problem faking phone calls, as she did last season with Jake. But that’s just my guess. Hey, when you’re getting paid six figures to be the “Bachelorette”, you pretty much do what they tell you to do.

Of course, we’ll probably never get an answer to this because ABC won’t touch this subject with a ten foot pole. If I were able to ask Ali anything, that’d be my first question: At what point were you informed about Justin having a girlfriend and this phone call was being made? Because I’m a fan of Ali, I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt and say the producers had much, much more to do with hiding this from her than she did in knowing. That’s my guess. I mean, Justin and Kasey in a 2-on-1 right before the phone call shakes down? Please. Very, very obvious why those two were put on the same date and why Justin was the one who got the rose. They definitely knew well beforehand about Justin having a girlfriend, it’s just a matter of when they let Ali in on it. ABC/Mike Fleiss/Martin Hilton/Next Entertainment– the master manipulators. At it again this season. Frauds. Sorry guys, but you’ve been exposed once again. Boom goes the dynamite!

So I’m sure you still probably have some questions regarding all these spoilers. I thought I covered everything, but maybe there’s some stuff I left out or wasn’t clear on. Any questions you have email me at my contact information at the top of the page, and I will use those questions in a Q&A sometime later this week. Rather than write what I think I might’ve missed, you just ask me what you want to know and we’ll go from there. Deal? As I said on Twitter last week, this season is going to be a shitstorm. Gonna be nuts watching this all play out. Talk to you soon.

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  1. yangl7

    May 11, 2010 at 1:27 PM

    Sure reminds me of Jillian and Ed.

  2. Ryvetted

    May 11, 2010 at 1:54 PM

    Geez. Old story, so fake.

  3. ashnbren

    May 11, 2010 at 2:36 PM

    Check out this wikipedia page about a Toronto,On based TV show called Keys to the VIP. Look at the episode list specifically #2×04. Check out who’s on this episode!!

  4. Rags

    May 11, 2010 at 5:00 PM

    HA! I love that you got Kimberly. Go Reality Steve…it’s yo birthday…

  5. donkeytron

    May 12, 2010 at 1:02 AM

    Ironic that he’ll get what he wants out of this. I’m assuming it will be good for his wrestling career.

  6. Dianne

    May 12, 2010 at 9:05 AM

    What a joke! I live in Toronto, and this show was absolute trash..made for the Comedy Network. That tells you something right there..ew!

  7. Dianne

    May 12, 2010 at 11:26 AM

    wow..all of these links below are all the same. One copies another and on and on. But we ALL know where it came from first! Thanks’re the best! I now know I definitely will NOT be tuning into the Ali season. I think ABC has stooped about as low as it possibly can.

  8. Opa

    May 14, 2010 at 7:55 AM

    Steve you should go on this show and enjoy yourself firsthand as a bachelor. The bachelors they selected this year are very disappointing. Ali is a cute girl so what gives? Are they running out of guys who want to have a brief minute of fame and then lose their chance at love forever? Also don’t lump the romance filled fans into just “housewives”. There are some single girls who want the footage of the volcano erupting in Iceland after Ali invites her man into the fantasy suite.

  9. bachelorwatcher

    May 24, 2010 at 4:13 PM

    I think you are a little naive Steve. You are doing exactly what ABC wanted you to do… they know you are going to blog about the show anyway, and give out spoilers of the show. So what better than to know about this situation ahead of time with the guy with two girlfriends, and send a mock email from her to you as “anonymous” knowing you would fall into their trap later believing that she actually wrote to you before… that way you will announce on your website how this all must really be true since she wrote to YOU first! ha… she didn’t write to you first. This was all contrived by ABC just like everything else is… these two people Jessica and Justin really are in on this together, and the email to you is just to make even you believe this is all some real drama. It’s not. They needed another twist and got you to believe it’s true so your readers would. I’m noticing because of your spoilers people still want to watch the show. ABC wins! Which is fine. I watch too… I always have and will. Not because I believe in any of it, but it’s still amusing… and because from all of it sometimes true love does blossom, as has been proven with Trista and Ryan, Molly and Jason, Charlie and Sarah, and Jillian and Ed. It doesn’t matter what twisted stories they show us, those people met as a result of this show and did fall in love… anyway… just open your eyes and realize that “anonymous” email was ABC yanking your chain. You are better than believing that.

  10. gmillar

    May 26, 2010 at 9:03 AM

    Jessica Spillas is on Facebook.

    She also left a comment on the Roberto Martinez facebook fan page this week.

    Jessica Spillas: You are my absolute favourite!!! Xoxo
    Monday at 11:08pm

    You can see a picture of her on her facebook profile.

  11. thewipf

    May 26, 2010 at 4:17 PM

    She compared herself to the Hulk! That is hilarious.

  12. reel_nut

    June 1, 2010 at 6:31 PM

    Sorry, but I am not buying your story with respect to this anonymous letter & how it came into your hands. Assuming this letter is even real let alone authentic & that the person who composed it was actually this girl who claims to be g/f #1 of Justin (=a reality show contestant & wanna be ‘pretend wrestler’ _gosh can you say that fast? LOL) … anyway, IF anything, this convoluted plot suggests “monkey business” involving the producers of The Bachelor, this this contestant, his two bimbettes & possibly you.

    Real life is never this tighty nor this convenient, So, I think you using this so called anonymous letter to punctuate your two parter was a over the top, Steve.

    Perhaps you have been doing this gig too long & your ego got the best of you for you seem to have lost touch with reality reality _a place some of your readers live in some of the time. LOL

    Ultimatelly, cliches keep popping in _one being “too good to be true.” Simply put there are too many fortuitous coincidences in your story. And though this would not be the first time that a writer/ reporter/ muser (whatever) has been played for a chump, you seem too competent to be such an easy pray for your regular (diabolic) TV exec.

    And that is why images of grocery bags filled to the brim with the green stuff, being handed off in poorly lit parking lots in LA begin to dance in our heads. Too good to be true usually means it isn’t true, right?

    Of course, you selling out would explain why details about this season seems to be flowing your way lika mana _even you admitted that the quality & quantity of informantion you got regards this season is unprecedented _not to mention came earlier than ever.

    I also explain why ET, Dr. Phil & every major tabloid TV or print in the planet were snubbed by the 2 g/fs while Super Reality Steve was chosen.

    And you must admit, their timing was impecable _both reaching you in time to make the deadline for your highly hyped perenial pre-season expose (I know you prefer “spoiler”).

    Then, there is Jake’s season contestant involvement. This is too much … all too incredible to have played this way without plotting, negotiating & money changing hands.

    Oh, one last thing, could you please consider stopping trying to advance the ridiculous premise that somehow ABC hates you for spoiling their show?

    In a day when the flow of information & news has become so immediate, how do you get off pretending that a huge TV production company would even aim at secrecy & the element of surprise? After all any fith grader would know that scandal & controversy trump surprise by miles.

    One last thing, from a marketing perspective, product recognition is key. So, we know how helpful your blog is to The Bachelor enterprise. After all, every season you help introduce & personalize what otherwise would be slightly above average looking men in tuxedos. Of course, in Ali’s seasons, strike the on their official site said it best, they look more like wax figures. It is pathetic.

    Anyway, I still like reading your stuff. I just wish that you
    attractive characterization.
    were er .. real with us for once.

    Take care
    Btw, have you seen the pictures on the bios. One person commenting

  13. Kaylor

    June 4, 2010 at 10:24 AM

    Hi Steve,
    When are YOU going to be on “The Bachelor?” You’re cuter than anyone that’s been on there in a long time! What’s the matter, don’t want to get tied down and put a crimp in the great things you have going?? đŸ˜‰
    I’m new to your site! Great job! I found your site last year when I was looking for Spoilers to find out who Jake was going to pick after Ali left! It made the show more fun to watch, knowing who was going to win! Don’t tell ABC that or they will horn in on your Spoilers action!
    I love the Spoilers! The show kind of drags out to long, and it’s GREAT to know what’s going to happen, before it happens! It’s FUN to see HOW it happens!
    If Ali can’t remember the names of the guys for the Rose Ceremony, why can’t they feed her the names through a “bug” in her ear?” While she’s standing there so long, building up the suspense, it looks like she’s trying to REMEMBER their names!
    Then she picks a total CREEP to stay, and you wonder if she DID make a mistake with the names! She’s really picked some DOGS to stay!!
    My pick was Justin, until I read on YOUR SITE about the whole girlfriend thing! Thanks for that!!! I hope you DO dog him out all season! đŸ™‚


  14. saram50

    June 7, 2010 at 12:33 PM

    Steve, the fact of the matter is that there will always bbe lying on the Bachelor and Bathelorette.

    And how can anyone give or take away permission to their BF or GF to go on the show. it is the responsibility of the individual to follow the rules of the show, and it is the responsibility of ABC to maintain the integrity (yeah I know it is an oxymoron) of the show by properly vetting each contestant. We know that ABC probably knew he had a girlfriend or two, but decided to let things lie for the sake of ratings.

    Instead of a reality show it has finally become what it was meant to be…a fairy tale.

  15. mmayse

    June 9, 2010 at 10:39 PM

    Note the e-mail & the comment on Roberto’s fan page are both signed Uppercase Xoxo. The proof is in the pudding! I’m not doubting ya Steve!

  16. susan

    June 14, 2010 at 8:26 AM

    I just rewatched last week’s episode as several people have brought up the issue with Justin’s cast. Wow! I saw it for myself. I had to watch it a few times because I couldn’t believe my eyes. NOW, I believe this show is all full of lies. I wonder if Ali was in on the lie about Justin. Wow!

  17. swharriet

    June 14, 2010 at 11:40 AM

    i’m thinking that justin orchestrated someone coming forward in the middle of the season. i think being a dude with THREE girlfriends does much more for his “rated-r” persona than being a dude who wins the heart of ONE bachelorette. my two cents.

  18. bren58

    June 23, 2010 at 3:50 PM

    It is a shame this show is in it for ratings and will not let the show really produce real love. These jerks they picked out for Ali is a real joke. The past 3-4 seasons have been unreal and fake. Wake up and do not play with someones feelings. Try once to let things happen for real. Jake was a disaster and now they are split. That is what he gets for choosing someone like Vennia. He lost a true love in Ali,as she was sincere in falling for him, but after the way he is I think Ali was much too good for him. I truely feel sorry for her trying to find a husband with this bunch. She is so smart and cute and I really hope she doesn’t waste her time with any of these guys. Maybe being on the show will give her an edge in meeting the man of her dreams that will treat her like she needs to be treated. Chris Harrison, will do anything for ratings! I do not care for him at all. This show is a JOKE for real true love!

  19. mom2girls

    June 29, 2010 at 7:55 AM

    not sure if anyone actually SAW the episode or the phone call that was aired between Jessica and Ali – but there is NO WAY that Justin’s girlfriend WROTE that email – not only would she not be able to pronounce half the words in that email but she probably doesn’t know what half of those words MEAN.. . that email was not written by her as she is too air-headed to even come up with an email like that – it was obviously a set up from the beginning and Steve you should just put everybody out of their misery and just APPEAR on the Bachelorette NEXT SEASON LOL……please ?!?

  20. steph27

    June 30, 2010 at 12:54 AM

    I didn’t want to post this in the recap of episode 6 for those who don’t want spoilers…but did anyone notice how uncomfortable Frank looked when Ali confronted Justin? It makes me wonder how soon Frank started thinking he wanted to go back to his old girlfriend, and what the producers were making him say. If Frank was already wanting to leave the show, it isn’t fair that Justin could leave but Frank had to stay and keep acting. But, producers want the drama, so life isn’t fair!

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