Reality Steve

Bachelor Sean Spoilers

Jef & Emily Break Up, Where the “Bachelor” is Filming Now, & More News on Sean’s Season

Thanks to Bounce Sporting Club and the dream Hotel for their help this weekend with accommodations, not to mention all of you who were able to make it out to Bounce on Friday night. Luckily for those people in attendance, they were the first to hear of the breaking news that I tweeted out that night, which was that after this past Sunday’s rose ceremony in LA, filming was headed to Whitefish, Montana. Kinda crazy how that all went down, but here’s the short version: A month ago, a morning DJ in Montanta reported he’d heard the “Bachelor” was filming there at some point this season. I was notified of this, I followed up, but nobody could confirm anything. Then this past Friday night as I’m hanging out at Bounce, I got the confirmation that they were heading to Whitefish, including a concert this Wednesday night being put on by country singer Sarah Darling. So expect tweets, pictures, and FB posts to be coming from this date:

A couple other notes to get to, some that were tweeted out when I was out of town:

-Kristy Kaminski is home. She lasted three episodes . Guess that gives her more time to get back to selling her ViSalus shakes in her pyramid scheme. Wonderful. Sign me up. Hey, it’s not like Kristy even cares she got eliminated. She thinks the show is stupid and hates it. “Hate Hate Hate Hates” it. Remember this gem?

-Katie Levans is also home. Thanks to her employer in Charlotte, Y2 Yoga, we were informed in a tweet by them on Thursday that she was gonna be back that night teaching class. Thanks for the heads up Y2 Yoga. Hope you all had fun downward dogging that night.

-Kacie Boguskie is off the show and lasted only three episodes as well, like I predicted. Look, I know plenty of you out there were hoping Kacie and Sean would be married for 50 years with tons of kids, but as I said when I found out about her on the show, I never understood why she’d agree to it. I knew why ABC wanted her, I just didn’t know why she wanted to do it. Two reasons: 1) She had met Sean in NY two weeks prior and nothing happened. Not only that, she made so little of an impression on him, he decided to make out with someone else from her season, Jenna. 2) Kacie has been casually seeing Ty Brown (from Ali’s season) for the last couple of months. They even attended the charity event in Philadelphia together the day after the NY event, and were already seen together back in Nashville since she’s been back from the “Bachelor.” So I ask again, “What was the point of her going on the show?” Knowing she’s been seeing Ty, and knowing that there wasn’t anything happening with Sean, why do it again?

-Neil Lane is featured prominently once again this season. He’s the jewelry provider of this show and he gave an interview last week launching his new Kay Jeweler line, and in it he promoted the fact he was going to be seeing Sean and his date this past Saturday. That date was in Beverly Hills with the fancy car and the woman is given jewelry for the night, etc. The girl Sean took on this date was the other Leslie. Leslie A. Hughes the actress, former “Take Me Out” contestant, and the one with one of the greatest mug shots ever.

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  1. chloesmoma

    October 11, 2012 at 5:37 PM

    Dear god I wish they would announce this already….I look at these FB pages and the things these nut cases are saying is beyond comprehension….Now they say one of Emily’s old boyfriends gave Steve his info and this is revenge!?!?!?!?!? WTH….and begging for answers and when anyone states anything against Jemily they are down right evil……

  2. stupendous

    October 11, 2012 at 5:41 PM

    I believe all the reports, including RS. I am just curious if they are trying to work things out before they announce anything. A lot of couples break up and get back together. Maybe their “breakup” was just a really huge fight and they needed a few days to cool off.

  3. elizabeth82

    October 11, 2012 at 5:44 PM

    Wow, this comments section is kind of a trainwreck! How is it worth ARGUING about whether JEM is still together or if there’s trouble in paradise? Why be SO vehement on either side? In reading all these comments, it seems the answer is at least partly that people are laid up or bored or both and want to get into it with people who are on the other side of the fence. I don’t understand the combative attitude. Why not just state your opinion and then go do something edifying . . . read a book or something, geez. What’s the problem with just talking about the show without jumping down people’s throats? I know some people are interested in that!

    I was cautiously optimistic with the ending of “The Bachelorette,” despite struggling to like Emily the whole season and thinking she and Jef didn’t seem to go together. But hey, if there might be a love story on this show, I’ll root for the couple (except if they’re completely unlikeable *cough* Courtney *cough*). There seems to be fire where there’s smoke with these types of stories . . . remember Us Weekly’s coverage of Ed and Jillian?

    If Emily was sexting Leinart or whoever and Jef did ask her for money to keep quiet and then tried to get it on with his last gf, then they’re both sleazy. There’s been so much press about them not getting along and breaking up that I’m not interested in defending them. If they’re for real, then it’ll come out that they’re for real (like, a year down the line if they’re still together like Ashley & JP); and if that’s actually what happens, then good for them. Otherwise, I’m not interested in paying attention to a fraud for the sake of money and fame. Sounds like they may not be able to keep that up and honestly, who could do that for a long time?

  4. reese

    October 11, 2012 at 5:55 PM

    @JovisMom ..Yes it doesn’t prove anything, so does Steve’c claims. My personal opinion is that you shouldn’t take ANYTHING Reality Steve says at face value. If you carefully read what he said, he was pretty broad. All we have is RS’s word…and that simply isn’t enough for me (he’s been wrong a LOT). If Jef and/or Emily ever release a statement saying “We are no longer together”, then (and only then) is when I will believe it.

  5. cindy01

    October 11, 2012 at 6:28 PM

    Im definitely not surprised at all because I really hate to say this AND I know I will get some bad replies for this but I have always thought Emily was extremely fake. I think she went on the show strictly for money and NOT for trying to find love. Also, I believe the US Weekly story 100%…I think the whole “love story” went down when Jef found the sexting on Emily’s phone and then it all went down hill from there. There is a sentence at the very end of the story in that magazine that “to me” is sooo true…it’s Jef Holm is not the person he makes out to be and neither is Maynard for that matter. I may not have quoted that word for word but it’s basically the same. These two are very selfish and that’s the one thing they did have in common.
    I agree with mommyof2 that Jef’s tweet “I will never stop falling in love with this babe” and then posting a pic is absurd. They have known for some time now about faking the relationship and then doing something like that just shows what kind of person Jef is.
    The one I feel sorry for is Ricki…

  6. jawbreaker

    October 11, 2012 at 8:03 PM

  7. beachbound

    October 11, 2012 at 8:12 PM

    Sorry but I am a normal woman with a full life and my getaway was Emily (cause I’m a CLT girl)! I also liked Ben F’s too- winning!! But I have been following RS for a couple years now and I love it, but this may be their (ABC) way to his demise and making him look not credible, that is what I would do if I were them! Not so far fetched! But I don’t have a ton of hope that I am right, just my opinion!

  8. JustJenna

    October 11, 2012 at 8:17 PM

    I have to LMAO about RS crediting himself for spoiling their breakup, and for all the anti-Jemily fans acting smug and superior about it. As if that isn’t something that you have a 99% chance of being correct about when it comes to this franchise. Of COURSE it just depends on WHEN and not IF. How many couples have survived? Two, maybe three tops? This is the kind of thing psychics do to trick you into thinking they are legitimate – make OBVIOUS conclusions and when they come true everyone is SO AMAZED. Steve you get no props from me, even if Jemily announce their breakup tomorrow. Because it’s almost a foregone conclusion anyway. It’s like predicting the sun will rise in the morning. Now accurately predict or pre-announce a marriage and you’ll have something to brag about…

  9. woogs

    October 11, 2012 at 8:20 PM

    I like this one..Jef comparing himself to the Beckhams..
    Jef Holm ?@jefholm
    I feel like Beckham & I should cruise motorcycles while Victoria & Emily go shopping & the kids play in the back yard. #SeptEsquireInterview

  10. JustJenna

    October 11, 2012 at 8:25 PM

    That article is exactly what RS predicted would happen. “A source close to the couple…” is worthless information. If they were really still together, it would come directly from Jef or Emily, not an unnamed source.

    @iheartvino – Couldn’t the opposite be true as well? If they were really broken up, wouldn’t it come from their mouths instead of the tabloids? And since RS isn’t announcing his source either, how is his story any more credible? I know he’s been right, but he’s also been wrong. Same thing with the other media blogs and tabloids.

    P.S. I am not a Jemily fan (I liked Arie better myself) or a crazy person out to attack anyone, I’m just interested in some candid conversation. No hate intended or wanted, please. 🙂

  11. lcs85

    October 11, 2012 at 10:54 PM

    I like how RS words this so he’ll be able to gloat no matter when they do release a statement about their breakup. Even if they’re not even broken up now and they end up breaking up next month, RS will still be able to say “SEE TOLD YA SO!!! Just didn’t know when they would release the statement. But trust me, I was right (duh!) and they were broken up months ago and just now released a statement. How do I know? CAN’T TELL YA! HAHA! But I know I was right b*tches! Cause I’m Reality Steve, and I always get it right sooner or later! They’ll say they just broke up, but I have super secret insiders who tell me othewise. And I’m right! Word.”

  12. JustJenna

    October 12, 2012 at 12:34 AM

    lcs85 that’s exactly what I said. XD.

  13. tamiigee

    October 12, 2012 at 2:43 AM

    Omg…just did a little catch up reading on the whole Jef/Emily saga (sorry “Jemily” just…I can’t do it!) I was really one that was trying to ignore all the stories because the cute family photos were so convincing. And lets be honest…we’re talking about a little girl here!

    The one thing I couldn’t understand all along was why would Jef’s brother tell that story if it weren’t true? I mean he was a close enough member of the family to be invited on vacay to begin with. I mean I’m sure there was a part of him that thought he could talk about it, or at least wanted to. Gotta have your brothers back!

    Plus, Jef’s sweet tweets have been few and far between as of late and he’s spending a lot of time with his bros. Isn’t that who we run to in time like this? Bros before hoes…

    Also, he really didn’t seem into her for a very long time in the season…he was riding that tv fame wave.

    This makes way more sense than the denial I was in.

    It’s gonna suck ass to turn that ring back in! I like Emily, I hope she finds happiness but I must say I’m a little disappointed in how she’s let this play out, considering her daughter. We weren’t there maybe she realized Jef wasn’t the guy for her and became really unhappy with her choice really fast, hence the sexting….. Not my place to judge, but at least things make more sense now… thanks Reality Steve!

  14. Dianne

    October 12, 2012 at 5:56 AM

    @dollywood99 – Canadian Bachelor rocks! Brad is a doll, but some of those girls?? Ummm..a pastor from AB..I dunno! And thank the lord he sent the “playboy model” from BC home..she was horrid! Steve can’t cover Canadian Bach because it’s not shown in the US, only CityTV is covering it, and City isn’t available in the US..bummer!

  15. frannie0701

    October 12, 2012 at 12:39 PM

    Steve, regarding your comment, “You people really need to worry more about what goes on in your own life, then live vicariously through a couple you don’t even know, who was obviously having some major problems behind the scenes that you didn’t have a clue about.” If we didn’t live vicariously through the couples, you wouldn’t have a following, or a blog (job)

  16. playtone22

    October 13, 2012 at 1:08 AM

    I find it funny how convinced people get just based on online posts. Considering one of my best friends will be telling me how she had a huge fight with her husband and threatened divorce and then the next day will post on Facebook how he’s “most amazing husband in the world” – I know full well that people just post things to make themselves seem better/happier than other people. Why would these people be any different.

    Personally, I find it sad in the Jef/Emily situation because of her daughter and how people have talked about all of the pictures she’s been pimped out in – not to mention the fact that he’s been in her life for several months now, but it happens and now hopefully they’ll all go away and live happy, quiet lives.

  17. Darlene

    October 13, 2012 at 11:24 PM

    Dont know why you’d think you’d ruin my day,lol, I was surprised b/c they did look crazy about each other, but these breakups are so common it is always just a matter of time. Steve, you have the best ‘source’ b/c of your track record, u are right almost always, so it makes me wonder why this source of yours doesnt start his own blog instead of giving you all the juice. Lol, thanks for the spoilers, love them!

  18. carol

    October 24, 2012 at 8:40 AM

    “Special Olympics to Ann Coulter: Stop Saying the R-Word
    … Jackass”

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