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Jef & Emily Break Up, Where the “Bachelor” is Filming Now, & More News on Sean’s Season

Looooong weekend in New York, but it was a good time. The NY family reunion is pretty much what you’d expect it to be. Lets just say Shaun T would not be happy with me after what I devoured this weekend. You know those competitive food eating leagues? I think I might’ve challenged for most pasta consumed in a 3 day span. Holy crap. I keep forgetting that Italian families don’t have one course meals. They’re at least six. And basically you have to eat from every course or else they feel personally insulted. Did wonders for my stomach. It was daaaaaaaamn good though.

I’m sure you all have seen by now that Courtney and Ben released a statement on Friday that they have broken up after 11 months. Not much else to add here other than to say that this is how break ups on this show work. No final couple from this show will just quietly break up and you don’t hear about it. Every single one of them will have to release a statement to tell the masses about it. Neither said much in the statement, but I’m sure you’ll hear stuff come out little by little as to why it ended. I don’t know what happened to be honest. But it just goes to show, that thinking you know about these peoples relationship because you read what they post on Twitter or Instagram or Sulia is just ignorant. A week before their breakup announcement, Ben is tweeting about the dinner he made for Courtney and how happy he was. Obviously things didn’t go to hell in a handbasket in a matter of 7 days, so there were problems before that. All I’m telling everyone is stop taking what these people tweet about at face value. That’s the relationship they want the public to see, not necessarily the relationship that is really happening. I’m amazed by how many people think because they see a picture on Twitter or Instagram, or see some quote someone retweeted, that they know what’s going on. Take a step back and realize that what you see on Twitter, Instagram, and other social media sites is only part of the real picture. You have no idea, and Ben and Courtney pretty much just proved it.

Which brings us to Jef and Emily. I’m going to get right to the point. I don’t care if you don’t believe me. I don’t care if you say I’m crazy. And I don’t care if you have 1,000 questions for me. Until Jef and Emily officially go on the record and release a statement, I guess that’s when you’ll believe it, but I can tell you right now that Jef and Emily broke up this weekend. Done. Over. No longer engaged. This isn’t being reported anywhere else. No magazine or gossip site has it yet. It’s just what I feel comfortable in reporting based on what was told to me. Yes, I know, I know. I can hear your questions already coming, “If they broke up, why did they go to the Panthers game together?” “If they broke up, why is each still following each other on Twitter?” “If they broke up, why is each default Twitter picture a picture of them together?” All legitimate questions. And here’s what I can tell you: It just happened a couple days ago. This isn’t a rumor, I didn’t hear this 5th hand, and I’m not making something up for attention. All I’m here to tell you is that Jef and Emily are no longer an engaged couple and have broken up.

Right now, they are in the process of figuring out how they are going to present the breakup to the media, when they’re gonna release the statement, and who the statement will be released to. Could be tomorrow, could be in a few days, could be next week, could be in two weeks. I have no idea. They have a few things that obviously need to be sorted out and they’re gonna need to figure out what the reasoning is they want to give the media. So of course if one or both of them changed their Twitter default picture and took the other one out, that’d pretty much give it away. You won’t see that stuff done until they release their statement to the media, whenever that is. Not to mention the lovey dovey tweets between the two of them have come few and far between in recent weeks, no? That’s the biggest problem these couples have with Twitter. Hell, ANY couple has with Twitter. The second you start tweeting all these pictures of yourselves, the minute you stop doing it as consistent as before, immediately red flags get raised. I can tell you that all the stuff you’ve heard over the last two months, coupled with other things, is why they are done. If you honestly think that none of the reported stories in the tabloids was true, and all of it was made up, you have your head buried in the sand. Where there was smoke, there was fire, and these two tried their best to bury every story written about them. Unfortunately, you can only take so much.

I don’t care if either of them take to Twitter and discredit what I say today, or ignore it altogether. Won’t matter to me. I know what I know, and they’re done. Do I think they’d personally address me? No. But I could see one and/or both making some, “Oh I guess the rumors have started again” comment on Twitter. If they do that, it’s all a cover up. This breakup will be “official” (meaning a public statement just like Ben and Courtney’s) sooner rather than later. The relationship is over, a lot has to do with what you’ve read in the tabloids, and now it’s just a matter of dotting the I’s and crossing the T’s on how they are going to present it publicly.

I know many of you will accuse me of taking happiness in this breakup, when that couldn’t be further from the truth. I don’t care if any of these couples last because I don’t know them. And neither should you. Did I believe they’d ever last? No. But that doesn’t mean I’m glad that they didn’t and I’m happy they are broken up. I like Emily. I always have. I was disappointed she chose to go back on the show, and I just didn’t see it when I found out she was engaged to Jef. Nor did I see it with Arie. Or Sean. I just didn’t think that she was ever going to find her future husband on this show. So to go back on, get engaged AGAIN, and go through this whole post-show media blitz, and deal with paparazzi coverage and tabloid stories, hey, that’s what she signed up for and she knew what she was getting into. I just knew things weren’t going to last. However, I will say what I am happy about. And that’s all the Jemily fans who told me from Day 1 I didn’t know what I was talking about, and that I was wrong, these two are different, and that they were so happy together, and blah blah blah. And not necessarily just because I ended up being right, but because trying to rationalize with the irrational was impossible, and all those people who were saying that stuff were saying it ONLY based off of pictures they saw in magazines, tweets Jef and Emily sent out, and Instagram pictures. That’s totally and utterly ridiculous. You people really need to worry more about what goes on in your own life, then live vicariously through a couple you don’t even know, who was obviously having some major problems behind the scenes that you didn’t have a clue about. Did I know everything going on behind the scenes? Of course not. But I’d say I was made aware of things that 99.999% of the public didn’t know.

Yes, they tweeted pictures of Jef at Ricki’s soccer game. And yes, they tweeted happy pictures of them together in different cities. But just like Ben and Courtney, that’s the public image they want you to see of their relationship. What if I were to tell you I have three pictures in my possession when the cameras and media WEREN’T on them, and the pictures show these two in a completely different light, including one where Emily wasn’t even wearing her engagement ring when she was out with him? So just as much as the Jemily fans want to scream, “Look! They look so happy together!” when they see a picture on Instagram, I could post an exact opposite picture of them together, where they certainly don’t look happy at all, and it’s actually of a “real” life moment, not one where photographers and paparazzi were covering them and they’re supposed to look happy. Not saying the pictures I have prove that they were some miserable couple or something, because that’s not my point. I just find it interesting how because Jef and Emily tweeted a picture of them smiling together, that somehow Jemily fans can deduce that they’re a happy couple and they just know nothing could possibly be wrong. Now, I’m not going to post these pictures because I told the people who sent them to me I wouldn’t, but just know I have them, it adds to what I was hearing and it goes along with the point I’m trying to make. Pictures in magazines and social media sites are the pictures they control and want you to see about their relationship. Jef and Emily are very proud people and they have a public image to uphold to all their fans. So of course you’re going to see the best and happiest pictures of them on their social media sites. Just know that there are others, some of which I have, that paints a completely different picture than what you’re shown. The bottom line is things have not been well for a while, and they broke up this past weekend.

Sling any arrows you want at me. I’m a big boy. I can take them. I’m just the messenger in all this. I can’t PROVE it’s over. I just know it is. My proof will be when it happens. I don’t know when that will be. Just no need to ask questions to me about details, and why this, and why that. I don’t know. I just know they are broken up, they are no longer engaged, and this thing will be “official” sooner rather than later when they figure out how they are going to present it to the media. With the Ben and Courtney story just breaking on Friday, I can see them waiting a little bit longer to make it official just because, well, that looks REALLY bad for the franchise. I really wish Emily never would’ve gone back and done this show like I said back in January when she was first announced, but obviously that’s too late. It’s unfortunate that these two couldn’t make it, I wish they’d just stop with the public faΓ§ade that everything is ok and every report about them is untrue, and just get out of this as soon as possible. They’re not fooling anybody at this point, a child is involved, and it’d be best for all parties to sever ties as soon as possible for everyone’s sake. Including Jemily fans. They probably need to be put out of their misery the most. Yes, their lives will officially be over once Jef and Emily confirm this to the media, but at least they can move on to stalking some other couple.

I am a blogger. I write about reality television, but obviously my main focus is this franchise in particular. When I hear things I feel confident in reporting, I tell you. Some things I can never get into detail about but they are still true. Going into detail would essentially be giving away my sources. So I just tell you stuff like “this happens,” then it does, and I didn’t need to reveal a source as to how I knew it happened. This is one of those times. Obviously I have no contact with Jef or Emily, and until the words “we are no longer engaged” come directly from one of them, there’s a certain group of you that won’t believe me. And that’s fine. I’m just here to tell you it’s over, and that the news is coming shortly. Sorry to ruin your day.

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  1. woogs

    October 10, 2012 at 10:15 AM

    Do you remember the home visit in Utah? When Emily said she had no idea Jef had a huge ranch? Yeah..just sayin’

  2. JovisMom

    October 10, 2012 at 10:25 AM

    I feel so bad for Ricki….
    Think of what she is teaching this little girl. You have to be pretty, wear expensive clothes. You don’t have to work. Men are expendable. Maybe Emily needs to go on Dr Phil or something and find out why she is so messed up about relationships. She doesn’t make smart decisions.
    Everyone here knows I never liked Jef. I’m not shocked at all they broke up.

  3. cindyrelly

    October 10, 2012 at 10:39 AM

    I only just started reading this blog not too long ago. I wouldn’t normally comment on a blog and really don’t think anything I say is going to get through to anyone, but nevertheless…some thoughts of mine…

    It’s an interesting thing to observe how the viewing public feels they are entitled and even owed an update on the status of these relationships after the show has wrapped and the final rose given. I get it. We invest time and maybe even a little bit of emotion (for some people, a lot of emotion!) in how we feel about these people we’re watching on TV and we end up rooting for them. The show cuts us off right as the relationship is beginning and then we’re left wondering “will they last? Are they still together? Was it even real in the first place?” And then the tabloids fuel that curiosity by hounding these people, paying off tipsters and generally scavenging for any little morsel of information (whether true, false, or exaggerated) they can get their hands on. It’s the nature of the format of the show and the human fascination with the intimate relationships of others – even strangers. We all think we know better, we’re all matchmakers, and we all like to judge, judge, judge.

    I’m a little bit guilty of it. We all are if we’re here reading Steve’s blog and commenting on it. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t judge Courtney from Ben’s season, and Ben for picking her. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t follow these people on Twitter. I do find the hypocrisy so amusing – those who make fun of “Jemily fans” and call them crazy, and then turn around and spend any amount of time posting about how Emily is…a gold digger, fame whore, horrible mother, or any other number of derogatory and truly baseless insults.

    I did like Jef and Emily together, I admit I was a little taken into that whole “thing” about them while the show was airing, and yes I’ve followed along since then to see how they’ve been.

    I think it’s worth discussing the nature of this show and also having a little perspective about the reality of new relationships in general. What this show tells you over and over again is that the Bachelor/ette is there to find “THE ONE,” the wife/husband, the soul mate. In reality, the show has picked 25 ‘contestants’ who will be good/interesting for TV (attractive enough with a personality that will help ratings). Bearing in mind of course that ANY TV show is going to attract the type of people who are willing to be on TV in the first place, some of whom are actively seeking fame or employment in the entertainment industry. The show is a huge production, with major film crews following these people around. This is NOT by any means an intimate, private setting in which to spark a relationship and fall in love. What we see as grand, romantic dates can’t really be all that romantic if you actually imagine walking through the streets of Prague with a guy you’ve probably not actually spoken to all that much, and a whole TV crew on you like a hawk, guiding everything you do on said ‘date.’ The idea is to find someone you might date in the real world and give that person the final rose, NOT to fall head over heels in love with someone in a few weeks and get engaged, plan a wedding and live happily ever after. That’s the fairytale the show is selling, but it is certainly in no way shape or form the truth of what’s happening.

    The reality is this – the fact that any of these couples continue to have a relationship after the show ends is kind of miraculous. And that’s all we should ever expect of these people. To give it a go in the real world. Even then, you have to take into account that the relationship is immediately under a microscope, ready to be viciously torn apart by the masses. New relationships are hard enough, let alone with cameras following you EVERYWHERE and every acquaintance you’ve ever known, every guy or girl whose ever had a crush on you DYING to talk to a rag mag about the drama you had before the show.

    All this public outrage over sexting and meeting up with ex-girlfriends? Seriously? Do you all hear what you’re getting angry about? Going online and acting genuinely enraged that some young couple could EVER *gasp* behave this way. You can’t be serious. This is typical fodder, silly ish that young couples do in 2012. The self-righteous shock over their very typical new-relationship-drama is just dumb.

    To the “Charlotte insiders” who seem to have all the scoop, I only say this – gossip. Gossip, gossip, gossip. And shame on you. If you’ve never been the victim of gossipy lies being spread about you, looks like you’re due for it.

  4. woogs

    October 10, 2012 at 11:06 AM

    Oh I’ve been the victim of gossip do not let your pretty little head worry about that for one second! My connection to CHL were an actual couple who was called when EM was booted out of the Holm family vacation home. The facts that were told to me, have all come to BE truth. As you say anyone commenting on any board for or against are sucked in. MY bitch was being asked by fans what I knew from my close ties, answering their questions and then being attacked by them on Twitter. Damn right Im pissed and get a few moments of delight knowing I was right, sharing it with them after they begged for it. They called me a liar, a bitch, made fun of me and as a normal human being, I like telling those dumb asses I TOLD YA SO!…So ok now it’s on me I need to repent. I will and then go on decorating my store for the holidays and seeing my buddies from ChL and CHAS talking about other stuff. Seems you too are writing and judging here as well. So let’s all go repent! Damn human stuff!! LoL

  5. cindyrelly

    October 10, 2012 at 11:22 AM

    Oh lordy, you sure are from Charlotte with all that “don’t worry your pretty little head” and “repenting” mess, aren’t you? Why don’t you just throw a little bit of “bless your heart” in there while you’re at it? Unfortunately I was raised in the south and know the malicious condescending tone to those phrases. I’m not sure why you’re getting defensive and and I am certainly not here to be in a comment fight with anyone on a freakin’ blog, lol. My remark about Charlotte insiders was referring to the gossip about Emily’s past, Nascar associations/drama, etc. Unless you’re Emily, you don’t really know anything about her life. You can only speculate. And I feel awkward saying that because it sounds like I’m really trying to defend a stranger, but my point is that it’s wrong to gossip about someone else’s life when we all know how painful/stressful/infuriating it can be to be gossiped about.

  6. nicwar

    October 10, 2012 at 11:27 AM

    No need to repent WOOGs. But Cindy did put everything into perspective.

    Like it or not, gossip gives everyone a HIGH, sadly at the expense of someone. Bachelorette couples are definitely a good fodder for gossip.

    For RS, while he says he is not into gossip but a blogger who likes to spoil things for the franchise, this is definitely gossip territory and assures him greater publicity and more coffers to pay his rent.

    For JEMKI fans it satisfies a need – maybe they do find inspiration from the combined stories of Jef, Emily & Ricki. And perhaps, helping to fund wells to help people in need may not be bad at all.

    For others, looking down at JEM and their followers, satisfies their sense of superiority (i.e. I am not a “cray” and easily convinced; more importantly confirming their preconceived judgement – “I told you soooo”; I am vindicated!)

    Bottom line, this is a free pass to give our opinion and judgment. The reality is maybe all of it, some of it or far from it. But our perception will vary – that is just the nature of the human psyche.

    So let us just keep a healthy attitude…..JEM will fade in our collective memories once we find something more “gossipy”.

    From a confirmed gossip.

  7. woogs

    October 10, 2012 at 11:45 AM

    Bless your little pea pickin heart @nicwar. It’s all good. I got my I TOLD YA SO, out there for JEM. My ego is filled back to normal, not too big, not deflated over the JEM thing and the attack on me, on Twitter. So EM/Jef do what ever. I had two surgeries last summer and all I was able to do was watch TV and read, got a little too into it. So Im going back out in my little Charleston world and do my crazy job at my store and let them gossip bout me. Just so I get what’s coming to me.. πŸ™‚

  8. krb31

    October 10, 2012 at 1:01 PM

    everyone says Emily is fake, however the entire season I was pointing out to my boyfriend that Jef was extremely insinsere. His lame letters to her were so fake.

    Yes I watch with my boyfriend. Yes he got me into the show.

  9. krb31

    October 10, 2012 at 1:01 PM


  10. nicwar

    October 10, 2012 at 2:00 PM

    Woogs – LOL re your reference to my little pea heart. It is all a matter of perception – it is just a wicked sense of humour at work (as opposed to condescending).

    You were actually banged on – just like you I am recovering from a life threatening illness and surgery. And yes both have something to do with my heart.

    My therapist recommended something light fare to be curious about (after dealing with end-of-life issues at work). And I chose Jemki.

    As long as I put everything into perspective, I appreciate the “insights” of the die-hard Jemki fans and those opposed to them. At the end of the day, I always get a good laugh – and that’s therapeautic.

    πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ I like to visit your store when I am in the area…I am sure my little pea heart will find something to appreciate, even buy there :):):)

  11. woogs

    October 10, 2012 at 2:48 PM

    @niowar I would love for you to stop in my store! I got to vent about my sources being right on and tell those crazies! Im done now with being pissed and self righteous! My back is healing and I get to go back to life now. I hope you too are healing, my little pea picker! Im sure there are lots of stories like ours about all of the obsessed on how we all got obsessed. The end is near and life will go on and I hope for all of us healing. We are a strange society. In the end I think we all have hearts and want whats best, we just disagree on what is best. I think when you choose reality TV to date with a child, you are getting too close to the fan, if you know what I mean?

  12. bigfatwoman

    October 10, 2012 at 2:51 PM

    I fell for this couple hook, line and sinker.

    I was really rooting for them.

    I don’t know who I can blame — Emily or Jef. I’ll never know since I don’t know them. They both seem potentially phony, but I guess I’d pin it on Jef. Seemed a little bit much with some of his lines on the show.

    I love love, that’s why I bought into it. I believe in true love. I’ve seen true love. I’ve been in love. It does exist, but first you have to be the right person in order to find the right person.

    I also think it’s important to be comfortable being alone. So many people seem so anxious to constantly be in a relationship. I just don’t get that at all. One relationship ends and a month or two later, a new one begins.

    Anyway, boo hoo. I really liked this couple. At least we have JP and Ashley. They are adorable and obviously didn’t get as sucked into being so public. I think that was Emily and Jef’s biggest downfall — they were each seduced by the limelight.

  13. bigfatwoman

    October 10, 2012 at 3:04 PM

    Someone on here in earlier comments used the word “retarded” to describe Jemily fans.

    Seriously? What hole have you been in that you don’t know use of that word went away in the 90’s and is considered incredibly politically incorrect.

    Please use another word. It doesn’t make you sound very bright.

  14. tarasky

    October 10, 2012 at 3:28 PM

    So, WOOGS, what is the name of the store that you own?

  15. normainmiami1952

    October 10, 2012 at 3:29 PM

    I am a romantic at heart and an optimist and I hope that you are wrong about this whole thing Steve. I thought that they were going to be happy forever when I saw the wonderful chemistry between these two, I was in awe and inspired and sucked in into this “thing”… I had high hopes for Emily and Jef, and I am so disappointed! Oh Steve why? why? why? and what about poor little Ricki? I have a feeling that there is a lot of sadness in that little girl’s heart. I mean Jef is energetic, creative, funny, and knows exactly what to say and how to act, and he acted like a dad to her, for a little while anyways. Kids that are missing a dad or mom in their lives always wished that they had a complete and normal family. I know I did, but I know now (at 59, it took a while to realize) that it’s how you live your life and the people who love you that matters. I lost my mom when I was 13 so I know the feeling of wanting that. But she is only 6! Now she has to face all her little friends’ question: “where is our coach?” I I feel so bad for Ricki, Emily and Jef. They must be heartbroken and disappointed. I was really caught up in their love and feel so silly. I wonder what happened? I could not believe it when I read that Emily was sexting that guy… and in the circumstances Jef entered the show. Unbelievable!!!

  16. maxi

    October 10, 2012 at 4:45 PM

    @bigfatwoman I thought the same when I read the “retarded” comment. Made me cringe, personally.

  17. woogs

    October 10, 2012 at 5:17 PM

    So sorry to be politically incorrect. Don’t cringe. Try this one out mentally challenged. Better?

  18. carol

    October 10, 2012 at 5:43 PM

    @anythingwewant, your repeated derogatory use of the word “retarded” to mean stupid or ignorant, is truly offensive.

  19. nicwar

    October 10, 2012 at 6:07 PM


    I did not realize I will be commenting on this in a JEM discussion.

    I am “blessed” with an only child whose official diagnosis is developmentally delayed (as opposed to mentally challenged) and autistic.

    For me it is simply a diagnosis. He is now 30 yrs. old and he is truly a wonderful, gentle person.

    Because I see him for what he is – a person who is special and who has needs, I have always described him as special needs.

    I have learned to not take offense on the other labels. And to use every opportunity I have to educate others on these special people.

  20. lauradee7757

    October 10, 2012 at 6:12 PM

    Whitefish, MT is my hometown. Will be cool to see it on camera, but I’m sure all my friends and locals are pissed they completely shut down the main street in town for filming!

  21. anythingwewant

    October 10, 2012 at 6:26 PM

    Grow the fuck up. No one was calling your son names, and you know it! Thanks @woogs but no need to apologize for me, this is exactly the mentality I am speaking of. RETARDED!

  22. memo2345

    October 10, 2012 at 8:23 PM

    Having lived in Charlotte for many years, it is abbreviated CLT like the airport code…CHL or however everyone keeps spelling it is driving me crazy. Anyhow, thanks for the update Steve…and I’m with ya, onward to Sean’s season!!!!

  23. woogs

    October 10, 2012 at 9:11 PM

    Hey @memo I wasn’t doing an airport thing just commenting. It was easier than spelling it. Screw me.

  24. unbeliever

    October 11, 2012 at 5:32 AM

    @cindyrelly, I understand what you are saying BUT you said tabloids fuel the curiosity by hounding these people. JEM put themselves out there in a way that not many of these “couples” from this show have. They basicly sold themselves. They wanted the fame and the notoriety. I don’t feel sorry for them now that their skeletons are falling out of the closet. Jef threw his own brother under the bus when he came out and told what happened on their family vacation. Kaylee got threatened by text message to shut her mouth. That is some sick stuff. You said that the reality is that the fact that any of these couples continue a relationship after the show is miraculous. I don’t consider Jef and Emily having ever been in a real relationship. Come on, anybody that watched that season knows the ending was highly edited and I don’t think the truth about what really happened was revealed. For all we know a deal could have been in place right from the beginning for Jef to get his free advertising for PW and Emily wanted fame, which they both got. They’ve only been in this for a couple months and this stuff is going on. It points to the speculation that this was never really anything other than self promotion.

    @nicwar, I know for me personally it’s not that I’m looking down at JEM fans but when people such as I that never bought into this have been called every name in the book, was subject to character assassination, and referred to as haters and jealous losers on a continual basis you can’t help but feel vindicated and feeing like I told you so is in order. JEM fans should have thought of that before they started their vindictiveness. Now they have to eat their words. I don’t feel bad for them.

  25. Dianne

    October 11, 2012 at 6:15 AM

    @anythingwewant. Your immaturity is shinning brightly with your urse of the word “retarded”. That term is not used in the 2000’s anymore. Perhaps it was used back in the 50’s, but we’ve come a long, long way since then. Tell me, what do you call someone who is, say, deaf? Do you call them a dumb deaf person; a loser because they cannot hear, a dumb idiot because they don’t understand?

  26. Dianne

    October 11, 2012 at 6:16 AM

    “use” even..geesh! My bad.

  27. anythingwewant

    October 11, 2012 at 7:03 AM

    Good Morning Dianne… to answer your thoughtful questions…
    Why would you ask me such retarded questions about deaf people here at Reality Steve’s site? Because I’m not a Jem freakazoid? Because I have a different opinion than you. How do you feel about “freakazoid”? Have an amazing day.

  28. Dianne

    October 11, 2012 at 7:23 AM

    @anythingwewant. Well, there you go again with the “retarded” reference. Knock it off with using that word, would ya please? It’s VERY offensive. Oh, and “freakazoid” seems to fit you perfectly..thanks for asking! You have an amazing day, too!

  29. anythingwewant

    October 11, 2012 at 7:43 AM

    1. A person with a mental deficiency

    2. Term used to refer to someone acting in an irritating or generally stupid way.

    SOME JEM fans in my opinion are number 2. Just to clarify. Now I’ve had my tea, see you tonight. I hope Jef and Emily will give a statement today so everyone obsessed with this will be less well, retarded!

  30. karynr

    October 11, 2012 at 7:46 AM

    BFW….I got pulled in too. I was also hoping I was wrong about my take on Emily (cold, shallow and insecure), but I’m not so sure. I don’t want to judge harshly, but if this is all still a facade, what they are doing to that little girl is just awful. I’m a little heartsick as I just read a post on another blog where some awful person went after Ricki. What a terrible human being. I really feel for that little girl.

    I now watch with a healthy dose of cynicism and amusement, but the romantic deep inside still gets sucked in by some of these couples. Or, maybe my cougar crush on 1F blinded me to the fact that he may be just as bad as she is, using and famewhoring to stay in the spotlight.

    Oh well….on to Sean….BIG YAWN.

    Did someone take down the comments posted here from the Jokers board? I noticed they were missing and am wondering if RS’s webmaster deleted those comments.

  31. reese

    October 11, 2012 at 7:53 AM

    Hahaha! the jokes on you Steve!! Sorry to burst your bubble but they are still together!

  32. Dianne

    October 11, 2012 at 8:01 AM

    @reese, really? Can you prove that?

  33. Dianne

    October 11, 2012 at 8:24 AM

    @reese..thanks! Very interesting to say the least!

  34. brady6

    October 11, 2012 at 9:12 AM

    UMMMMM. @Reese… that article proves….what exactly? Are you one of those crazies?

  35. iheartvino

    October 11, 2012 at 9:16 AM

    That article is exactly what RS predicted would happen. “A source close to the couple…” is worthless information. If they were really still together, it would come directly from Jef or Emily, not an unnamed source.

  36. karynr

    October 11, 2012 at 9:21 AM

    It is what it is. We’ll all find out soon enough, and as far as I’m concerned, I’m sick of the whole circus. I’m on overload and just don’t care either way. Just get that little girl out of that mess, and hopefully her mom will make wiser decisions in the future, so she won’t be damaged from the various situations.

    I wonder if Fleiss just sits back and laughs at all the craziness he created? I imagine he must get somewhat gleeful about all the controversy.

  37. karynr

    October 11, 2012 at 9:23 AM

    Clarification…controversy as far as all the social media buzz and tabloids. And the Jemily craziness from some people that take it waaay too seriously.

  38. woogs

    October 11, 2012 at 9:30 AM

    Yes she is one of em. Invading us with their gang mentality and worthless information. Im fascinated and maybe obsessed (because I keep coming back) by them. I actually have experimented, with them. You can not win with them. You either suck up to Emily and Jef completely, no middle of the road or you are vulnerable to their gang. If it makes any sense Jef and Emily’s fan base for the most part would not be something I would be proud of. If they are still together, I would think twice about ever going back to social media for a very long time. Or maybe use who say or some program like that. These people seem to have a common screw loose.

  39. woogs

    October 11, 2012 at 9:33 AM

    @karynr I know! Does Emily actually think Ricki is never going to see any of this?

  40. reese

    October 11, 2012 at 9:36 AM

    @brady6….well for sure it doesn’t prove anything for you.. somehow we believe what we believe as we have different take or opinion on gossips its just a matter of which side you are. And you’re asking me if I’m one of the crazies? maybe I am because I’m here on this site reading about Steve’s blogs about jef and emily. I guess that doesn’t make you and me any different πŸ™‚

  41. brady6

    October 11, 2012 at 9:45 AM

    @Reese … COO COO….. Um yes crazypants we are different, I don’t obsess over a fake reality tv couple. You went found the article (which was NOTHING) and had to post to Steve how he was wrong. You should go back over to the Jokers board, there you will find more of your own kind. See you later fruitcake!

  42. reese

    October 11, 2012 at 9:53 AM

    @woogs… how did you came up with the conclusion that I’m one of the crazies, it was actually the first time I posted a comment on this site ..are you part of the reality Steve team? It’s apparent that you are very offended by my mere comment. It seems to me that you are the crazy one becoz I’ve been reading the thread with a lot of your comments and girl you don’t let up!! I think you’re more just cant stand Jef and Emily being together..I guess your lonely.. I hope you get the help you need. xoxo

  43. reese

    October 11, 2012 at 10:01 AM

    @brady6 haha don’t go! I’m still up for started it right? by the way where is that Joker’s board? haven t been there, maybe you could show me? I think you’re a closet fan of Jemily , What could be the reason you’re here anyways.

  44. JovisMom

    October 11, 2012 at 10:32 AM

    @ anythingwewant – The word “retard” is not a nice word but when you use it people know what kind of person you are talking about. To para pharse Ralphie May that is. If you say “mentally challenged Americans” that is a phrase that most retards can’t even pronounce!! I guess some people are just overly sensitive.
    @ reese – I agree w\ everyone else. That article proves nothing. And Steve did predict it coming out. IF what it says is true Jef and Emily will never get married. They may say together through the holidays and maybe Valentine’s Day but by summer 2013 latest I am certain they won’t be together anymore!

  45. dollywood99

    October 11, 2012 at 12:38 PM

    Hey RS!
    I’m not sure if you are interested in the first canadian bachelor (brad smith) or if it even airs in the states, but it’s pretty good. I do miss reading your 2 cents on this version.

  46. Sunnyside422

    October 11, 2012 at 1:17 PM

    So watching Sean dance on his one on one (video from RS’s tweet) confirms that he not only is a lousy kisser but just as horrible a dancer! I know people adore Sean, but he never did anything for me. Not exciting, interesting or good looking. Yawn.

  47. woogs

    October 11, 2012 at 3:57 PM

    ohhh @reese I like that word fruitcake! maybe I did jump to conclusions about you! Yeah Im on in the morning and the evening, I hate just watching TV, I got to get me some super obsession fixes. Cuz Im lonely and I like it!

  48. woogs

    October 11, 2012 at 4:29 PM

    Jef spotting Charlotte..I spelled the whole word ok?..

  49. slygirl

    October 11, 2012 at 5:09 PM

    I wish you would cover the Canadian bachelor! It’ is the ultimate joke! Think Bachelor meets Housewives of Atlanta. Where do they find these people????

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