Reality Steve

The Bachelor 13 - Jason

The Truth

What I’m about to show you in these videos, and what I’m about to tell you in written word, is what you will see come Monday night, March 2nd, when the “Bachelor” airs their finale, plus “After the Final Rose” show. If you do not want to know anything ahead of time, I suggest you stop reading now. If not, then enjoy.

If you couldn’t look at the videos, then here is basically what’s in them.

My YouTube username is “RealitySteve24”. They are labeled “Part 1”, “Part 2”, “Part 3”, and they are all about 9 1/2 minutes long. Here are the links to the videos in case you need them:

The Bachelor Finale – Part 1

The Bachelor Finale – Part 2

The Bachelor Finale – Part 3

PART 1

PART 2

PART 3

So here’s what I can tell you what went down in the finale:

Jason chose Melissa in New Zealand. No reshoots, no editing, no nothing. All you sleuthers figured it out from Day 1. Which you were supposed to. That’s why I said ABC knew exactly what they were doing when they released the hand with the freckles and the pinky ring and all that stuff. Do you really think they’d make it that easy for you to know he proposes to Melissa in the finale? Just because it was Melissa in New Zealand, didn’t mean you knew the final one now. There’s your love story that they want you to believe. From day one, they’re gonna make it seem like it was Jason and Melissa. She visits him in Seattle. They’re working on a relationship, she’s the lucky girl. But from the beginning, they’ve been planning a shocking ending. And that shocking ending happens to come at the expense of Melissa.

Right now, Jason and Melissa are not together.

The first “After the Final Rose” was filmed in late January. In the videos, I reference that it was filmed either Fri, Jan 23rd, or Sat, Jan. 24th. I’ve since been corrected. Pretty much the only thing I’ve been wrong about. It was actually done the Sunday before on the 18th. I found out a week later on the 25th, made some calls, sent some emails, and ran with this “exclusive” news on the night of Jan. 27th, as you can clearly see in the blog.

What happens at the “ATFR”? Jason ends his engagement with Melissa, and begins a relationship with Molly. I wasn’t there, I don’t know what was said, or who it was said to, but at the taping, Jason dumped Melissa (which will be shown on national television to us) and begins dating Molly. Was there a proposal to Molly? As far as I know, on that date back in January, there was not a proposal. But currently, as we speak, Jason and Molly are together and have been for a while (which I will get to in a minute).

The reason the 2nd “ATFR” was added? I’m guessing to tell us about Jason and Mollys relationship, probably let us know how great she is with Ty, get a reaction from Melissa, and, this is just a guess, but I think Jason will propose to Molly on the “ATFR 2”, if he hasn’t already. That’s complete speculation on my part. But the reason there’s an “ATFR 2” is because they need to update people on how Jason and Molly are doing.

ABC will present this whole scenario as Jason just changed his mind after thinking this over long and hard. I’m here to tell you I have every reason to believe he didn’t. This was all set in motion from the very beginning that there would be a storyline of: If you want to be with Molly, then you have to pick Melissa. We will have a breakup on the “ATFR”, where you’ll dump Melissa, and say you want to start dating Molly. That’s what you’ll get the night of the finale.

Here’s where I believe this whole story was fabricated.

This is a struggling franchise, we know that. They’re 0-for-12 in producing marriages. So they know people are already skeptical about watching this show to see a love story and an engagement. Well, what’s one thing they’ve never done in the series history? Have the “Bachelor” break up with the one he’s engaged to during the “ATFR”, AND, end up taking the final two girl back. In this case, Molly. So when I said ABC “Grew a brain and pulled a fast one”, I was referencing the fact they decided to show you Melissa getting the ring in early season previews thinking that they had given away the season. That was purposely done, so when he then breaks up with her, and gets back with Molly, that gives you the “jaw dropper” or “shocker”, since its never happened before. And don’t say you knew that all along, because no one did, other than a selected few. All you need to do is go back over past comments in my blogs to see how off everyone was with their guesses. Because when the Final Rose Ceremony ends, a lot of you would’ve said, “That’s it. We’ve known it was her all along. Where’s the drama?”

I’D SAY THAT’S PRETTY SHOCKING. Picking Melissa in New Zealand, dating her for two months, then taping the “ATFR” in January to break up with her only to get back with Molly. NO ONE had that scenario played out from the beginning. NO ONE. And how could you unless you knew the “ATFR” was taped in January? I did, which is why I ran with the information that I had.

BUT THAT’S NOT ALL. Some of you might ask, “Why would Molly take him back?” Here’s where I can tell you where the season became a soap opera and is the best answer I can give you. From everything I’ve heard, I have been led to believe that this season was NEVER, EVER about Melissa. It’s always been about Molly. Jason and Molly’s connection was stronger than anyone elses in the house, everyone knew it, but they couldn’t just play that the whole season because it wouldn’t have been interesting. So they concocted a storyline of, “Let him pick Melissa, and let us have a break up on the ‘ATFR’, something we’ve never done before, AND have him start his relationship with Molly.” I’d say that’s shocking. Why? Because it’s never happened before, and this whole idea of Jason being “wonderful single dad looking for love” would never be disputed because, well, my God, Jason Mesnick would never agree to such a thing. Ummmmm, he did.

Some point during the season, it was established Jason and Molly were THE couple. I’ve been led to believe it was perfectly obvious to them that it was him and her, and Melissa was a distant 2nd. So what does the show do? Something they’ve never done before. They have the Bachelor dump his final one at the “ATFR”, and start dating the woman he dumped in the finale, which is Molly. But as you’ll see, I’m going to be right about everything else. So I find it incredibly believable, that Jason was approached with this scenario to generate, buzz, ratings, etc and he agreed to it. You ask what I couldn’t wrap my head around? Well, that Jason agreed to this. But hey, he was doing what he was told which would make for a bombshell of an ending to the season. Fleiss saying, “Just when you think it’s over, it’s not.” Well, here’s your proof. You’ll think it’s over when Jason proposes to Melissa in New Zealand, but its not since he dumps her two months later at the “ATFR” so he can start seeing Molly.

I feel horrible for Melissa. I really do. She was completely blindsided in this whole mess. She flys out to LA for an “emergency ATFR taping” (remember, the ATFR’s usually aren’t taped until a week before the finale airs. Why would they have to tape it in late January if the finale wasn’t airing til March 3rd? Because it was all part of the plan), at that taping, she’s thinking her fiancé is going to tell her he’s over Molly 100%, but not only does she not hear that, and this is big, Jason has been SEEING Molly ever since the show stopped taping in November. That’s right. While he’s engaged to Melissa, he’s getting weekends with Molly on the weekends Melissa isn’t visiting Seattle. You can choose to believe that Jason just changed his mind after two months of dating Melissa and believe the ABC story. I’m here to tell you the reason he changed his mind, is because he was seeing Molly behind Melissa’s back.

Read the contracts these contestants sign, and talk to anybody who has ever been involved with the show, once taping ends, these people, especially the “Bachelor” and the final two girls, are under lock and key. Everything they do is monitored. They don’t want what happens at the final rose ceremony getting out. So you’re telling me that Molly was able to visit Jason in Seattle just because “he was having second thoughts”, or, “that he missed her.” Please. Like I said, believe it if you want, but I don’t buy it. Jason was seeing Molly from the time the taping of the show ended, til the time the “ATFR” filmed in January. I think he tells this to Melissa during the taping, and if he does, more proof this was all set up from the get go.

Now on to some questions I’m sure you have.

Did Melissa know this was happening? At first, no, she didn’t. Talk about unlucky. How about showing up for the “ATFR” taping thinking your fiancé is going to tell you that he’s completely over his dumpee, only to have him turn the tables on you, dump you on the spot, tell you he’s been seeing this dumpee on the weekends that he wasn’t with you, and now all the sudden you’re completely blindsided, embarrassed on national television, and now become the dumpee yourself? Melissa did not see this coming. Unfortunately, she was a pawn in this game and I feel awful for her.

What’s Molly’s role in this? I think this is the million dollar question right now and I don’t know the answer to it. I don’t know if he told her at the Final Rose Ceremony everything that was going on. If I had to guess, I’d say no. I think they’d want an honest reaction from her. But honestly, I don’t not know the definitive answer to this question. I’ve been led to believe she wasn’t in on it. Everything points to Jason being approached by the producers with this storyline, and agreeing to go along with it for ratings purposes, since they knew this would be big.

So did Jason intentionally do that to Melissa knowing he was getting rid of her that whole time? Remember, I told you there was something I couldn’t wrap my head around? That was it. I had a hard time believing Jason would go along with this scenario, BUT EVERYTHING I’VE BEEN LED TO BELIEVE, says he has. Do I know for a fact? No. But I think its pretty clear what’s going on here. The guy just didn’t change his mind after dating Melissa for a couple months. This was a scenario put in place from the beginning of the season.

What about this great chemistry between Jason and Melissa? All manufactured. Did they like each other? Sure. You can see their chemistry because that’s what they want you to see. But just because you saw it, doesn’t mean it was there. Yes, they liked each other, but from all accounts, I’ve been led to believe that they people knew it was Molly very early on in the process. This season has never been about Melissa, it’s been about Molly.

Jason said in interviews he was engaged and happy? How do you explain that? Yes, he was. All those interviews were done the first week the show aired. Try and find me a Jason interview that was done AFTER the 1st “ATFR” was shot. So after Jan. 18th. You can’t because he hasn’t done one. And probably won’t do one. Why do you think Fleiss is saying things like, “Just when you think it ends, it doesn’t?” That’s because he already has the 1st “ATFR” in the can. It was shot in late January and Melissa got completely screwed. Although Fleiss will have you believe “this is human emotions, and Jason struggled with his decision and ultimately changed his mind.” Uh huh. Sure he did. How about Host Chris recently saying “It took a lot of guts for Jason to do what he did.” Some of you were confused as to why he said that. You shouldn’t be now. Took a lot of guts to dump Melissa on national television and start dating Molly. A lot of guts.

Ok, onto answering all the clues:

K Moon/Rebecca: It’s not so much the who, but the how. Him being with Molly isn’t that shocking. I mean, she was the final two girl after all. It’s the way it happened. I’ve already explained this clue and I think you know what I mean now.

Montreal: Some of you got it. Montreal is part of the famous WWF “Montreal Screwjob” (wikipedia it), but you had the wrong people playing the wrong roles. You all had the 25 bachelorettes as the actors, with Fleiss telling them what to do. Not the case. Fleiss and Jason were the ones doing the screwing and Melissa was on the receiving end. WHY DO YOU THINK I TOLD YOU TO READ MEGAN AND SHANNONS EXIT INTERVIEW? They admitted the guy was hard to read, acted like he didn’t pay attention, and asked everyone the same thing. That’s because apparently he wasn’t interested in getting to know someone else. The “Montreal Screwjob”, in short, was about a title match back in 1997 where the owner of the WWF and the challenger of the match, conspired together behind closed doors, to screw the champion out of his title. Essentially, in this case, ABC/Fleiss are playing the role of the owner of the company, Jason plays the role of the challenger, and Melissa is the champion. Melissa gets blindsided by everything and gets screwed. If you choose to believe that producers and Jason weren’t in on it together, then this clue meant nothing to you. However, I think its clear now what was going on.

2/3: Two meanings. First off, I told you I thought there might be leaks about what happens. Well, the two things I thought would get leaked were Jason and Melissa were broken up, and that he was with Molly. Wasn’t the full story. But the 3rd was most important was that that’s how it was supposed to happen. So the “2/3” clue meant, “Hey, even if you know 2 major things (Jason/Melissa breakup, Jason and Molly now together), you still didn’t know everything. There was a 3rd and VERY IMPORTANT factor, that being it was all planned in advance. This wasn’t “human emotion” taking over. If I hear that one more time, I’ll vomit.

The second meaning of “2/3” was probably the most important part that if you figured out, you might’ve been on to something. In every blog I’ve written since I broke the “exclusive” news, I NEVER SAID THE PHRASE “FINAL ROSE CEREMONY.” Go back and check. I always said “FINALE.” Why? Because the information I had had NOTHING TO DO WITH THE 2 HR FINALE. I just knew it was Molly and Melissa, he chooses Melissa, proposes, puts a ring on her, and they spin around. It had everything to do with the “ATFR” that was taped already in January. 100% confirmed. Was I there? No, but I know it happened. And I know the basics of what happened there: He dumps Melissa and gets with Molly. Don’t know the order they were brought out, who he addressed first, did he cry, whatever. I just knew that it was a complete blindside to Melissa. And if that wasn’t shocking enough, that this was all planned at some point during filming. So the other meaning to “2/3” was that the “finale” is 3 hours long. You were all focused on the first two hours in regards to what I knew. You thought people left on their own. You thought Stephanie or Jillian was coming back. You thought all this stuff. My exclusive news had nothing to do with the finale itself, it had to do with the last hour of the finale, which was the “ATFR.” 2/3 meant you were concentrating on the first two hours of the finale when I was talking about the third hour.

Bird Flower: Rhymes with 3rd hour. Everything I knew from when I found out was about the 3rd hour of the show. I thought of this one Monday night. Pretty self explanatory.

One last thing to get to here. There was someone on my comment board who claimed they had gotten access to an email conversation between Melissa and Jason, which occurred after the “ATFR 1” took place. They came to me with this, forwarded me the email, and told me to look into it. I did. It has been confirmed that yes, it was legitimate. It was Jason and Melissas email addresses on there, and Melissa is basically confronting Jason for what he did, and Jason admits he was just doing what he was told to do. I am in possession of this email conversation now. I was going to repost it on the blog, because it basically verifies everything I’ve just told you (even Melissa admits she had an idea Jason was seeing Molly behind her back), but out of respect to the both of them, I will not print them. I already feel horrible enough for what happened to Melissa. The last thing she needs is to wake up this morning and see a private email conversation between her and Jason spread out all over the internet. Trust me, I’d love to get it out there to prove that Jason knew exactly what was going on from the beginning, but I think the videos and this column speak for itself. It’s up to you decide. You can choose to believe Jason was not complicit in this whole charade and that he truly loved Melissa, proposed to her in New Zealand, and after dating her for two months, decided he made a mistake. I’m just telling you, I don’t believe that’s what happened here. And when this finale airs in two weeks, you will see for yourselves.

Wow. Even when I think this is over, something tells me this is just the beginning. It’s been a wild ride, no doubt. Thanks for hangin’ with me and seeing this through. Unless Fleiss decides to re-shoot the “ATFR 1”, then this is what you will see come Monday night, March 2nd. Any questions, comments, emails, praises, criticisms, email me at steve@realitysteve.com. I’m sure I will gather any questions that you have and post a column later this week. I apologize to emailers that I haven’t gotten back to recently, but this has gotten completely out of control. I’ve gotten way more emails than I could handle. I will try to do better in the future.

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1,869 Comments

1,869 Comments

  1. J

    February 20, 2009 at 7:57 PM

    Jason’s MySpace is still up and the comments are overwhelmingly supportive of him. Just shows how gullible people are. Romance-novel reading bored housewives. “Jason would NEVER do this, he’s too much of a gentleman”, etc. Yeech.

  2. rita

    February 20, 2009 at 8:47 PM

    I before E, except after C….

  3. Amy

    February 20, 2009 at 10:42 PM

    You’re too cute. Thanks for your info. Looking forward to seeing it play out.

  4. Kathleen

    February 20, 2009 at 10:42 PM

    Sounds like Sharon works for ABC….twisting it to make Melissa look like a *itch. Nice try but we’re not buying into that, we’ve seen her on DCC and The Bachelor. She has a loyal following and was much loved by the other girls in the house, making many true friendships. They have stated that Melissa is exactly as you see her on TV. Now Molly on the other hand………………

  5. tam

    February 20, 2009 at 11:46 PM

    Found this interview with Megan Parris. There clearly is so much we don’t see. Also, it explains why she was confused when Jason had her leave because he just basically had assured her that they had plenty of time to get to know each other. Anyway, it is a good read.

    http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/interview-megan-parris-talks-about-her-time-on-the-bachelor-8349.php

  6. Gina

    February 21, 2009 at 12:55 AM

    I’m just not buying that Jason would be such a dirtbag and treat another human being the way he hated being treated last season…no way would he hurt someone. If things changed, it was probably Melissa who broke up with HIM, which would give him the opportunity to date Molly. They will have him save face. But what I don’t like or condone, is that they pick a bachelor who has a child, and you cannot and should not play with a little boy’s life. If Jason did that, then he deserves to give full custody to his ex-wife. Does ABC really want viewers to despise Jason? Doubtful.

    Also, I don’t think there is good chemistry between Molly and Jason at all! She is a cold fish and even admitted it takes her time to let out her feelings and warm up. And then what? they’ll wind up like her parents and sister and brother in law? Give me a break. It was a distand family.

    I think it had something to do with melissa’s family – she’s hiding something. Her friends never met her parents??? I think she went on the show to get her old boyfriend back perhaps…and that would explain her rejecting Jason and him having to save face.

    In a year, it will just be another bachelor casualty….Molly has vampire fangs….jason should think about that in case he’s planning to have more children…

  7. Gina

    February 21, 2009 at 1:00 AM

    Christina, I agree with you….I’ve been saying that all along….Ty probably got scared of both knucklehead girls, and Jason’s ex decided she wanted him back (because that’s who he truly loves anyway – watch she looks like Melissa who looks like Deanna who looks like the ex-wife)…you always want what everyone else does and then she’ll dump him but he did confirm on Ellen he is definitely engaged….so there won’t be any proposing on the 2nd ATFR.

    posted by Christian Thomas:
    Oh, and I have a theory for everyone. I think Ty’s mother is going to come back into the picture (since he has been on TV) and stack her claim in all this.

  8. Gina

    February 21, 2009 at 1:01 AM

    One last point: someone mentioned Steve had a relative working at ABC…well, if that is true, adn the relative violated teh confidentiality agreement they are all suppose to sign when a reality show is ongoing, then that person could get fired so I seriously doubt there’s a family connection.

  9. Bella

    February 21, 2009 at 3:58 AM

    Well, well…hmmmmmmmmmm…interesting read. I just learned of this site. My opinion? Maybe, just maybe…Jason was paid with his awesome digs on the water. What does he actually do for a living? I have been to Seattle and priced some of the real estate there and also looked into some of the houseboats. He is on open water and not a cove. That place was pricey. I think he might have thought, from the beginning, “HEY…Nice digs for my son since that is ALL that he thinks about”…let’s face it people, you want someone to be good to your child, but the child already has a mother. I just wonder about the proposal that they made to him. Look, he doesn’t have good judgement, he wanted Deanna didn’t he? Sorry, but, I used to know her. BAD NEWS FOLKS. Whew! She is nothing more than a barmaid. Nice for your kid, don’t ya think? Back to the story at hand, I think they paid him with a new home and fancy car. Doubt cash came into play. Yep, he thought of his son, did not know the girls yet, planned this from the get go. Makes sense to me. 🙂

  10. Squee

    February 21, 2009 at 3:59 AM

    #1783: Gotta love a good caper. I checked all the Michael Malaneys in Grand Rapids and none of them (in my access–which are not always complete) have a daughter named Molly. But that does not mean you aren’t on to something… hmmmm.

  11. LAURA

    February 21, 2009 at 2:12 PM

    MAYBE JUST MAYBE…….CRAZY GIRL SHANNON SHOWS UP AND HOLDS THE WHOLE SET HOSTAGE ( THATS WHY ITS A CLOSED SET) I MEAN IT WOULD BE A HOSTAGE SITUATION RIGHT? DEMANDS JASON MARRY HER!!!!!!!! SHE ALSO KNOWS HIS WHOLE FAMILY TREE AND ALL OF THEIR SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBERS AND EVERYTHING ELSE ABOUT THEM….. IM JUST SAYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  12. Cali

    February 21, 2009 at 5:34 PM

    I don’t believe any of this B.S. ABC didn’t count on viewers figuring out the woman in the blue dress who gets proposed to. Once that was clearly obvious it was Melissa, ABC HAS NOT SHOWN THAT PROPOSAL SCENE AGAIN. This is unlike other season where they constantly show the proposal scene especially in the last few episodes. The way Jason looks at Melissa and shows affection to her it is, again, CLEAR, that he chose her. I think ABC is actually paying you, Steve, to stir the pot with all of this nonsense. The ‘after the final rose’ show is what it’s always been – the couple appearing together in public for the first time. The second ‘after the final rose’ show is the public getting to view footage of when Jason meets Melissa’s family. The reason it is a closed set is because there was an enormous amount of emotion when Molly wasn’t selected. When the previews show Jason crying over the glass balcony it’s because he just let Molly go. The finale will probably have Melissa come out first – get proposed to – and then he will let Molly go. Jason is a very sensitive guy. He admits that he fell in love with two woman. He knows he can’t let Molly go and then propose to Melissa. He has to propose first. The closed set is because in Bachelor history there has never been a bachelor who shows that much emotion.

    ABC manipulates everything in the way they edit. When Naomi left, they wanted viewers to THINK Jason had trouble deciding who to give the rose to: Melissa or Naomi, but if you watch Melissa walking to get the rose, you’ll see there is still ONE ROSE left on the table. Jillian got that last rose during that ceremonly, not Melissa.

    Once the viewers figured it out, ABC has probably been paying a bunch of bozos like you Steve, to spread this stupidity. You should be ashamed.

  13. Kat

    February 21, 2009 at 5:54 PM

    Hey Steve,

    Thanks for the info…I’m still reading it. Don’t usually watch the Bachelor/Bachelorette series. But I thought it might be something different.

    But alas Jason Mesnick from so far what I’m reading in true reality show tradition dumps one for another. Ouch Melissa. Personally I thought Jason should pick Jillian. But I think Jillian is way too classy, smart and decent to be with twit Jason.

    I’ve since come to discover there is nothing original or different about this particular Bachelor instalment, just because there is a single dad involved.

    You would think Jason knew how it felt to get dumped on national tv and not do it to someone else. What a knobhead he is!!!!

  14. LilCe

    February 21, 2009 at 6:25 PM

    LMAO!! I should know better than to pay any attention to these message board postings! Went to this site (listed previously)

    http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v177/joey4pacey/

    Someone is GOOD!
    Page thru the photos to about page 5 and look at the sheer wizardry of the photoshop-ed photos. This person is absolutely brilliant with manipulating digital images!!!!!!!!!!
    HaHaHa…. giggle…. whoever it is they are truly masterful!

  15. c-teezy

    February 21, 2009 at 7:29 PM

    I am devastated!!
    Melissa should be the next bachelorette!! She is so cute & sweet. Up til now, I thought that Jason was the best bachelor the show’s had, even though he’s dull & lacks personality. But Molly does too, so maybe they’ll be happy together!
    Let’s get Melissa on the Bachelorette!! So she can find a nice guy who is just as sweet & bubbly as she is!

    Thanks for info!
    ABC Bastards!!

  16. Rose

    February 21, 2009 at 11:28 PM

    Cali – ABC sure did know that views could figure things out. They didn’t NEED to show the proposal video more than once. That would be overkill. Come on…..ever hear of Tivo or DVR??? Viewers, including myself, have seen that proposal over and over and over again, pausing it, rewinding, pausing again. ABC knew exactly what they were doing. Right after it was shown, a few people even ran to youtube and posted videos saying they figured out the ending, using the proposal footage. You are extremely naive if you think that wasn’t planned. Get real. It doesn’t matter if you’re ‘buying it’ or not…..it is what it is. Steve knew it LONG ago. What do you think he is….a psychic? No….he had inside info and was good enough to share it. Deal with it.

  17. Beth

    February 22, 2009 at 3:41 AM

    I HATE JASON NOW!! WHAT A CRUEL HUMAN BEING!!!

  18. MelissAndrea

    February 22, 2009 at 11:53 AM

    Don’t feel too sorry for Melissa… I went to high school with her and almost everything she’s said on the show is not the truth (ex. breast reduction). I can’t tell if she’s lying b/c that’s what she does, or is lying b/c that’s what makes good TV. Either way, she’s been on reality television before and she’ll be on it again – in it to win it, right?

  19. jrose

    February 22, 2009 at 1:52 PM

    First of all this may happen but Jason knowing it all along, thats complete bullshit.

  20. Lori

    February 23, 2009 at 8:36 AM

    Steve, frankly I have never understood why all the people on the message board of Bachelor slam you. I have no reason not to believe your source, the After the Rose will tell all. What we’ll probably not know for awhile is why it all came down the way it did. I don’t understand why people don’t understand contracts.

  21. Ali

    February 23, 2009 at 12:50 PM

    I just had a thought: The Bachelor ended in November, right? DeAnna and Jesse broke up in November. Is it possible that they broke up because DeAnna got back together with Jason and somehow he got engaged to her instead of Melissa or Molly?

    I hope this isn’t the case and I still hope that Melissa remains the last one standing after all the shows are over. If not and Jason does what is being speculated, then he is an *bleep* hole!

  22. cynthia Pendery

    February 23, 2009 at 2:24 PM

    I am disgusted with Jason Messnick. Not only is he ugly with little beady eyes and gargoyle ears and a tiny pointed head, but he is a kissing whore! I mean, maybe even more than kissing after having three bachelorettes overnight in three different “Fantasy Suites” on a single episode! YUCK!!!!

  23. cynthia Pendery

    February 23, 2009 at 2:27 PM

    Also, why are these girls so stupid? It isn’t he paying for all of this –it is the ABC network! Once he gets one of them to marry him do they think it’s going to be all helicopter rides, bunji jumps, and fantasy suites for the rest of their lives on his income for working for a funeral home? Give me a break and gag me! I just feel like I’m going to puke every time I look at his stupid face and his contrived and trite expressions.

  24. cynthia Pendery

    February 23, 2009 at 2:28 PM

    not to mention this creep jason has a sever hook nose that can only get worse with age. DOUBLE YUCK!!!

  25. cynthia Pendery

    February 23, 2009 at 2:29 PM

    *severe hook nose

  26. lilliefae

    February 23, 2009 at 9:57 PM

    if this is what really happens … i know for one I will never watch again … I don’t care … messing with these girls feelings is not only cruel, but competely out of character for Jason …. Seriously I doubt you could pay him to not only hurt someone, but confuse his child … I think this whole theory of yours is crap … just something to get hits on your site … and I am sure it worked … but the reality is that what is shocking is that DeAnna shows up to give Jason advice .. period … they say every show is “shocking” … that is how people watch … so are the rumors that DeAnna is dating Melissa’s brother … not to mention how about the one that Molly walks out of the rose ceremony …. they like this are rumors

  27. Michelle

    February 23, 2009 at 10:04 PM

    God, I’ve been watching this show forever.

    I’m disgusted.

    Jason? Of all “people”?

    What a cad.

    I might have to stop watching.

    Might.

  28. Anonymous

    February 23, 2009 at 10:16 PM

    In the previews for the finale (shown after the women tell all) both Melissa and Molly are wearing pinky rings! Molly’s is on her right hand and Melissa’s is on her left. In earlier clips the girl he picked has the ring on her right hand (or so it appears). Could he have picked Molly and dumped her for Melissa????

  29. SARAH

    February 23, 2009 at 11:51 PM

    At the end of the Women Tell All Chris usually asks the women who they think he will choose. Tonight Chris did not ask the women who they think Jason will choose. I think that plays into your theory. ABC knew the women would say Jason will choose Molly and not Melissa.

  30. hottie105

    February 24, 2009 at 12:29 AM

    Thanks so much for all this information. I couldn’t agree with you more!

  31. June

    February 24, 2009 at 2:19 AM

    This just confuses me so much. I dont know what to believe.

    Of course if it is true… I will be super pissed. I <3 Melissa… and Molly has always been a little snatchface.

  32. Lia

    February 24, 2009 at 2:25 AM

    Molly is dishonest but not a whore.This is 2009,I’m surprized people still hold on to double standards.Molly is immature and not suited for being a step mother of Ty.Neither is Melissa.The sad thing iis,the woman who was mature enough is Jillian,but dopey Jason didn’t understand what “best friend” means.Best friend and lover are one in the same in a sound stable marriage.It’s Jason’s loss if he went along with a game to up the ratings.Best way to have high ratings is for a network to give us an honest program.They have lost the viewers trust Don’t cage Molly into a double standard because actually it’s illogical to impose higher moral standards on a woman than a man.Jason is a fool if he hurt Melissa.Honestly he probably should have gone back to Deanna.I hope Jillian is the next Bachelorette with a good honest show and no more back stabbing.Shame on ABC!

  33. KJ

    February 24, 2009 at 10:25 AM

    Love people that speak truth…we get so little of that on television…even less on reality tv..in college I took a class about how just having a camera in a room changes the outcome…I think this has been proven over and over again on reality TV..

    Thank you so much for “stepping out”…you can hear the conviction and sincerity in your voice. This raises bigger issues than 3 peoples lives…manipulation in media…who would have thought? LOL

    One comment…You need a more dramatic page..more colorful…more impact…something to fit with the awesome stuff you are revealing…Keep it up…

  34. DIni

    February 24, 2009 at 12:55 PM

    Yes!! And that, folks, is entertainment!! We LOVE it!!

  35. elmodog

    February 24, 2009 at 1:22 PM

    He should have chosen Jillian. They would have made a good couple. I hope Jillian is the next Bachelorette. I knew from the beginning that something was up. Thanks for getting the inside scoop and filing us in.

  36. Karla

    February 24, 2009 at 1:51 PM

    How do we know you’re not ABC’s pawn trying to throw us off, since this season’s outcome does appear to be painfully obvious?

  37. Maria

    February 24, 2009 at 4:22 PM

    If this happens I will loose respect for Jason

  38. mushi

    February 24, 2009 at 4:38 PM

    if this is true, melissa should sue ABC. she was played, big time. she is a person, with real feelings. it’s just not right.

  39. Sarah

    February 24, 2009 at 4:42 PM

    I think Melissa had to know in advance…perhaps that is why her parents would not be on TV and be part of the big charade??

  40. Loophole

    February 24, 2009 at 7:43 PM

    Steve is giving way too much credit to ABC that they would be able to be so creative and think of something like this. I don’t believe it for a minute. I do believe that Jason changed his mind and decided he wanted to be with Molly rather than Melissa. No wonder he’s divorced. What a jerk!

  41. Sarah Jane

    February 24, 2009 at 11:21 PM

    I heard from a friend of Melissas that the reason Jason is back with Molly is because she is pregnant. Do you know anything about this?

  42. East Coast Girl

    February 25, 2009 at 12:56 AM

    If this is what ABC does to create drama, to screw a beautiful woman over like this, I will NEVER WATCH this show again! Absolutely f’n insane! I hope Jason makes the right choice!

  43. Amber

    February 25, 2009 at 1:42 AM

    Hey Steve,
    Just thought I’d tell you what I heard two days ago. My sister in law’s cousin is married to Jason’s brother Sean. A little far removed, but the cousin told my sister in law that Jason is married! I don’t know if you heard anything confirming this, but the entire family is all sure that he is married. They don’t know to who. (although they have read your blogs and believe Molly) Interesting and I thought I would pass it on.

  44. Ali

    February 25, 2009 at 9:21 AM

    While his feelings might have changed, the “reveal” should’ve been done off-air. Anything to make a buck though, I guess.

    Also, maybe the reason Jason breaks up with Melissa is because Molly is actually pregnant. Maybe he felt he needed to do the “honorable” thing and be with the mother of his child.
    Who knows? He is still a jerk.

  45. nikki

    February 25, 2009 at 5:28 PM

    come on, there is NO way that melissa is NOT in on this! they’ve just paid her to ‘accept’ the proposal, and paid her some more to get ‘dumped’ on national tv. and everyone is happy. i don’t think abc would risk really screwing over someone that bad and losing their viewers forever. she knew all along and im sure she was fine with it…end of story.

  46. Cris C

    February 25, 2009 at 10:39 PM

    How does the network get so many women to attend the “aftershow” ? Is there a financial reward or compensation ?
    I cannot imagine any other reason that someone with a shred of dignity would agree to attend the after show.

  47. Jenny

    February 26, 2009 at 12:04 PM

    If Jason was really a “great dad”, why would he allow his son to get attached to Melissa just to have him dump her and start dating Molly? Also, was the kid around when Molly would visit? What a Douche bag!

  48. sabina

    February 26, 2009 at 2:20 PM

    I really wont Mellisa to win and Molly to go home because her parents are TOO MUCH RELIGOUS……………………………………..OHHHH my GOD please he needed to go see her parents and to wear those stuped hats. I saw nice look on her sister housbend i gusse he know how they are boring and s….d…………………………..ehhhhhhhhhhhh

    good luck jason and i wish he choose mellisa for his son who is same age as my son ……………………

    thanks

  49. jasonm

    February 27, 2009 at 5:37 PM

    Hey, guys. I really appreciate you guys being so interested in the show and showing me so much support throughout this season and last, but you guys are all way off-base here. You will just have to watch on Monday to see how it all turns out.

  50. Sean

    February 27, 2009 at 10:11 PM

    Hey Jason, My wife and I watched the show and loved it.You seem like a very nice guy and very devoted to your son.We cant wait to see the finale.Good luck with whoever you pick.It would totally flip my wife out if you would respond to my blog.Once again good luck and wish you the best, Sean from Tennessee

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