Reality Steve


Where is the Love?

Jason Loves RealitySteve!!!!!!!!

Sorry it took me a couple days to post this. Here is a 2 minute clip from the interview Jason Mesnick did Friday morning on a Seattle radio station where he has Reality Steve on the mind:

Jason Calls Out Reality Steve

Let’s dissect some of the things that Jason says here, since the guy is contradicting himself all over the place.

“That guy heard a rumor…that I ended things with Melissa and started up with Molly.” Uhhhh, last time I checked pal, that wasn’t a rumor, it was fact. And I never reported it as “Hey, speculation is”, or, “Hey, maybe this happens”. From day one, I told everyone this isn’t what I thought happens, it’s what I know happens. So, it wasn’t a rumor, nor did I ever report it as one.

“I don’t even wanna mention his name, he’s got this reality website. I don’t even think anyone should ever even talk about this guy.” Sooooooo then why are you talking about me still three months after the fact when I basically had forgotten about you and Molly since about a week after the season ended? March 9th was really the last mention I made to your name in my column, yet here you were on June 19th bringing me up in a radio station interview promoting a Fathers Day event. I’m glad you have me on the brain. Is this a man crush?

“But, he made up the whole story in between, so everything he says is a flat out lie. He had the bookend right, but made up the whole story in between.” Well, apparently not since the main story I reported last season before anyone else, that you dumped Melissa at a taped ATFR show and asked Molly back, was true. So yet again, another inaccurate statement. Not everything I say is a flat out lie. In fact, most of it is true. And this season, when I told people last week that Ed does come back on the show, that’ll turn out to be true as well. As for making up the stuff in between, that will always be up for debate. I know I didn’t. You think I did. Then again, you’re under contract and not allowed to talk about certain things, so it’ll take a hell of a lot convincing on your part to turn the people who believed what I said.

“So I will tell anybody out there if they know who this guy is, he’s a bunch of BS. And I can promise that everything he says on his website is all his own stories. He’s a storyteller.” Wait, I’M a bunch of BS, or what I write is a bunch of BS? Please be more clear. And EVERYTHING that I say on my website is my own stories? Except for the little minor detail of finding out about the secret ATFR show you taped six weeks prior to the finale airing. And lets not forget, posting what happened at the ATFR 2 taping about one hour after it ended. Talk all you want about not liking some of the things I write, trust me I get that all the time, but don’t say I was factually inaccurate and a “storyteller”. Not true.

“And Melissa, who lives in the same city as this guy, started believing him.” Oooooohhhhhh, ok. So now I was the one who turned Melissa against you? Even though I’ve never spoken to her in my life, never met her, and have sent her one email that she really never responded to? Yet without having ever spoken to me or had any running email conversation, I somehow was able to convince her of everything that really went on? Damn. I must be a REALLY good writer. Better than I thought. So not only are you a huge fan, but apparently Melissa is too, AND, she listens to everything I say. Outstanding.

“And I talked to her after that…well, I haven’t talked to her since this whole thing went down. She was OK, up until that point, but she started believing what this guy was saying.” So which is it? Either you talked to her after she apparently believed everything I wrote which you say was me telling story, or you didn’t? My guess? You didn’t. This guy is flip flopping like a politician.

“He’s the one specifically that started stirring stuff up. He’s a just a miserable guy. He’s just trying to get famous.” Actually, you stirred it all up when you agreed to dump Melissa during a closed set taping and ask for Molly back. All I did was report it. Miserable? I wouldn’t say that. Jaded, skeptical, and weary about anything that actually happens on this show? You bet. And saying I’m trying to get famous is ludicrous. I’ve been part of the media for a while. I’ve covered plenty of athletes and interacted with famous people on numerous occasions. I don’t want that life. Now THOSE are your miserable people. And extremely insecure. And completely crazy. So no thanks, but I’ll pass.

I think I’ve said enough. Lets put it to bed. Jason showed some true colors in this interview, and just hearing the venom in his voice towards me was rather surprising. He’s obviously still bothered by the fact that people still hate him for what he did, so he figures why not take it out on me? I find it funny. I’m just not gonna resort to name calling and blaming others for what I did. I’ve said my peace. Hope you had a wonderful Fathers Day and you and Molly live happily ever after. I won’t hold my breath.



  1. bbs165

    June 23, 2009 at 10:53 AM

    I don’t understand the @ Sparkly insists on putting before our name when she’s making noise and flapping her gums…by the way I’m crying on the inside!….Onward, I think Jason should go away from the public eye permanently, though I don’t believe it’s possible. He and his 2nd choice are too fame hungry to go away, thus the need to still do radio interviews. If he actually thinks the radio station wanted to interview him because he happens to be a dad putting on a carnival and not because he’s infamous as the most hated bachelor, well I don’t know what to say to that. On the bachelorette front, I CAN’T believe she kept Jason number 2, Wes! What a let down..


    June 23, 2009 at 10:59 AM

    Getting popcorn now…



    June 23, 2009 at 11:02 AM

    Hey Jason…once a LIAR, always a LIAR. Let’s hope your son doesn’t turn out to be a lying wind bag like his dad. YOU ARE AN EMBARASSMENT. I hope Molly’s not a nice person, if she is, she does NOT deserve YOU. You “worthless-lying-will-you-accept-this-rose” wuss!

  4. Flash

    June 23, 2009 at 11:24 AM

    Isn’t it time to move on with the whole Jason thing? Yes, Steve for the 1,000,000th time we know you were right, (actually whoever told you was right you just posted the insider info) I give you props for that but do you have to continue to pat yourself on the back about it? Who gives a crap what Jason said on a local radio station? Does it really matter? It’s just kind of odd that you continue to bring up what Chris says and now Jason when it’s pretty obvious that they can’t come out and say exactly what’s on their mind because of their contracts. I enjoy your site a lot but it seems like a little over kill to keep bringing up this old topic over and over again other then to make sure that somebody didn’t miss the fact that you were the one that posted the big shocker from last season.

    Time to move on.

  5. Carrie

    June 23, 2009 at 11:32 AM

    bbs165 – the @ makes it more of an “attack.” Like, “I’m going to throw these words at you specifically.” 🙂 I agree with you about Wes, but for entertainment purposes it will be much more fun to watch him squirm next week and hopefully go down in a fantastic explosion of flames. For someone wanting to get into country music, I don’t see how playing the jerk on a show will get you anywhere. I have a feeling I won’t be seeing him at any award shows.

    What I find interesting is that if you are going after a girl that you think could be your wife some day (since that is the premise of the show), how could Jillian trust any guy who knew about Wes and said nothing? Only going by footage shown, it appears the only two that might not be aware of Wes and his motives are Reid (because he was on the train instead of the group date) and Ed (who was back in Chicago). In the real world that would definitely cause some trust issues.

  6. Mindreader

    June 23, 2009 at 12:38 PM

    Just a quick observation: Sparkly is too well-spoken to be Jason/Molly.

    Steve: don’t let Jason get under your skin. Most people are tired of his stuttering ramblings and don’t take him seriously anymore.

  7. bbs165

    June 23, 2009 at 1:34 PM

    Ah, I see..thanks!! I guess people who verbally attack strangers based on opinions expressed in a comment board need to reach huh? Sad! I was torn last night too, I hated that Wes got a rose, but it will be good when he finally gets caught and called out on his lies! I highly doubt Wes said all of those things in the context shown, but regardless of where and when, those words obviously came out of his mouth. I am with you, I don’t know many country fans that are going to embrace someone so creepy and mean.

    I can’t wait for Ed to come back, regardless of how it happens I was so sad when he left. I completely agree Carrie, that is bound to cause some trust issues. You can be the strongest person in the world but I know if I saw that I’d certainly be doubting what else was kept from me all that time. Every time I watch I wonder why nobody bothers to fill her in.

  8. yer wan

    June 24, 2009 at 11:38 PM

    Why does this guy want to prolong 15 mins of fame that depicted him as a fickle, inconsiderate ass who seemed to get off on humiliating women. Afterall, this is the same guy who sent the (current!!) love of his life packing with her tail between her legs on national TV, when he chose Melissa for the final rose. He should just go away now and stop constantly reminding us of what a silly excuse for a man he is and how daft we all are to even watch crappy alledged “reality shows” like the bachelor/ette. BTW, almost wet myself laughing when he said in the interview that RS shouldn`t be talked about, is a storyteller and is just trying to get famous,eh, you`ve just described yourself there Jason lovey! I think this guy worked in accounts/finance before he became famous (in the broadest sense of the word)….imagine this guy looking after your money! Love your blog Steve. Slan x

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