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Bachelorette Emily Spoilers

The Bachelorette Episode-by-Episode Spoilers

Episode 8: Hometowns (4 to 3)

Chris Bukowski (Chicago, Ill) (Filmed Friday, April 20th) Here’s a picture I tweeted that day as they were in front of the Wrigley Building:

Jef Holm (St. George, Utah) (Filmed Sunday, April 22nd) They had dinner at his ranch, nicknamed the “Holmstead,” in St. George, Utah. His parents were not in attendance, just married siblings. His parents are mission presidents for the Mormon Church and live in Columbia, SC.

Arie Luyendyk Jr. (Scottsdale, AZ) (Filmed Tuesday, April 24th) He took her to his cart shop, and also took her test driving his two-seater go kart.

Sean Lowe (Dallas, Tx) (Filmed on Thursday, April 26th) Not sure what they did in the daytime, but he had a family dinner that night with his niece and nephew in attendance.

Rose Ceremony Elimination: Chris Bukowski.

Which brings us to where we are now. Arie, Sean, and Jef are the final three. I have not been told with any solid confirmation how the final three plays out yet. All I know is that whoever was eliminated at the final three did not go home, since Arie, Jef, and Sean all returned home after the final rose ceremony had already been filmed. A lot of rumors/speculation/theories about what happened, who got eliminated, who Emily’s engaged to if she is at all, etc. Right now, I do not know the ending to the show. I might get it next week, I might get it in a month, I might never get it. It’s definitely be tougher to come by this season than in the past, that’s for sure.

When I know with 100% confirmation how the ending shakes out, you will know.

Update from post on 7/3: The biggest news of the week came yesterday when ABC announced the finale date has been moved, and that the After the Final Rose will now be a live one hour show after right after the finale airs. So just to clear up any confusion, the actual 2-hour finale that was taped down in Curacao will go on as planned, just on a different day. The only “live” part will be the ATFR, which will air right after it. So next week, July 9th, is the episode of the overnight dates. The following week, July 16th, is the “Men Tell All” episode (which tapes this Sunday). Sunday night, July 22nd, the 2 hour finale will air followed by a live ATFR.

Since the announcement yesterday, a lot of speculation about why the live ATFR and what does it mean? Is Emily going to make her decision live on TV? Will there be a live wedding? Is there going to be a live breakup? Are they trying to keep spoilers from getting out? Why isn’t this done more often? Do all final three guys show up so she can give them her answer? I’ll get to all that in a minute, but here’s what I can tell you. After 6 weeks of getting sent more information that you can shake a stick at, I’m finally able to tell you with 100% confidence that:

In Curacao, Emily and Jef got engaged.

Now, you’re probably gonna ask me who finished second and who finished third. I don’t have that answer for you. What I do know now is that Emily and Jef left Curacao as an engaged couple and are still engaged today. Not sure who went home after the overnights (if anyone), not sure who (if anyone) met Ricki, not sure if the final rose ceremony has one, two, or three guys proposing. I just know that Jef definitely proposed in Curacao, she accepted, and they are engaged. Yes, it took me six weeks to get it confirmed, but by golly, I’m finally glad I did. So the live finale will NOT be Emily making her final decision, or pulling a Jen Scheft and choosing no one, or saying “no” to Jef. What happened in Curacao happened. They’re engaged.

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  1. humans1uhhh1really

    May 31, 2012 at 4:56 PM

    Well, isn’t it obvious that employees from ABC are behind a majority of these comments in addition to former Bachelor contestants, who are ass-chapped because RS dogged them on their season. Seriously, NORMAL PEOPLE DON’T WASTE THEIR VALUABLE FREE TIME ON WEBSITES THAT THEY DISLIKE. With that being said, isn’t it funny how so many ‘visitors’ who are hating on RS are not only taking time to log on to his site and read his blogs, but also taking the time to create usernames and post ignorant comments. Come on ABC, give it up already! It’s crystal clear you’re jealous that one man can single-handedly spoil your bitch ass ‘Bachelor Empire’. And let’s be honest, if the population in general wasn’t full of such easily-entertained bandwagoners and lazy ass teletubbies, your show would be dead.

    That’s all.

    Now, don’t you have something better to do like clean man poison from the Bachelette house (since you know those douchenozzles are whack happy up in there having cream dreams of Emily) and LEAVE RS alone!

    Your shit is RIDIC!

  2. Mars

    June 1, 2012 at 12:25 AM

    Thanks, Steve! The Bachelor and Bachelorette season is nothing without your spoilers! I enjoy reading what you find out, and I suspect most other do too even those who b*tch and complain. Keep up the great sleuthing. 😀

  3. liz123

    June 1, 2012 at 9:22 AM

    @humans1uhhh1really (what the…??)- as God as my witness, I am not an employee of or affiliated with ABC or the Bachelor franchise in any way whatsoever. I’m just an average person. I also don’t spend time on sites that I don’t like. The one thing I do like here is the spoilers & the fun comment section so I keep coming back for those things & continuing to bitch about the things I don’t like. Is it really that hard to understand?

    Two more quick points: (1) you say “that’s all” but you keep on typing. Makes no sense. (2) You have a nasty mind. (douchenozzles, cream dreams, & whack happy, OH MY)

    That’s all.

  4. CaliGirl

    June 1, 2012 at 9:32 AM

    Hi, humans1uhhh1really- which of the people on here do you think works for ABC? I’m curious. I agree with Liz- I can promise you I don’t work for ABC (or any other company at all affiliated with The Bachelor/ette). I do like this site and the comments section is usually pretty funny and entertaining, especially when sometimes the blog is not. (no offense, Steve)

  5. JovisMom

    June 1, 2012 at 10:34 AM

    I agree w\ Liz and CaliGirl. I don’t think anyone posting on this comment section is employed by ABC (or any other company at all affiliated with The Bachelor/ette). I think they have better things to do with their time. They are suing Steve, that’s enought to “get to him”. What would be the point to post comments about him on a blog.
    @ humans1uhhh1really – You really need to get a grip.

  6. emily823

    June 1, 2012 at 2:19 PM

    Just to inform everyone, Emily’s house in NC is now on the market for sale, & I’m still in love with Arie.

  7. emily823

    June 2, 2012 at 9:14 AM

    Team Arie!!!

  8. maxi

    June 2, 2012 at 9:44 AM

    Well, these spoilers have been on the Bach forum since April 25… Steve added nothing I couldn’t find there. Hmmm…

    @emily823, here did you see her house is for sale?

  9. maxi

    June 2, 2012 at 9:45 AM

    *where* not *here*.

  10. monasez

    June 2, 2012 at 7:25 PM

    Wow….that was a long read. But I’m happy to see the spoilers finally posted. Thanks Steve. Going way back
    @Canadagirl ~ I too would like to know Steve’s prediction for the F1 (before his sources tell him). But maybe people would pounce on him if he was wrong – idk.

    @BadSeed ~ Emily is easily distracted by flash and that’s what made her want to keep Kalon….but after his “let me talk” comment she was ready to open a trap door and let him “drop out” of the running (did you see the daggers coming out of her eyes and the pursing lips…she was ready to blow a head gasket ;). I think the producers wanted him around hoping for ratings drama.

    @Justa ~ too funny “what me worry?”. He does have that deer in the headlights face, but I think he’s sincere, very wholesome and therefore a little unpolished. He doesn’t look 27 or act 27.

    @Jovis ~ out of the numerous comments I agree and think along the same lines as you do. But I can’t see Emily pulling a Womack. She knows how it came back to bite him and she got first hand information. I also think Emily is too high and mighty to copy anyone else.

    I totally agree that Emily will not budge from the south-eastern US (among other things). And I think that’s enough reason not to choose Jef….you can’t move a spring water bottling company from the source.

    I really like Sean and can definitely see him as the next bachelor. Emily probably wants to choose him, but he doesn’t have near the income to keep her in the lifestyle she wants.

    Sadly, it boils down to Arie, who is indeed a DB! But it’s a game for him and he came prepared to play and win. Shame on him. He is dangling all the right carrots in front of Emily, which may not be nice, but her husband criterion is overtly tangible. Shame on her.

    And to ABC who permits these DB’s to repeatedly get on the show, stay on the show and hurt people—shame on you.

  11. karynr

    June 4, 2012 at 7:49 AM

    No $$$ from this reader either. While I occasionally enjoy the spoilers, which used to be so much better, I don’t give money to underserving people and causes.
    Does anyone know where there money really went? Has anyone asked to see any kind of accounting? This guy sure mentions Vegas a lot. Maybe I’m an untrusting cynic, but to donate so naively……

  12. karynr

    June 4, 2012 at 7:52 AM

    Meant their, not there.

  13. thegivingsteve

    June 4, 2012 at 8:02 AM

    If the douche that is KALON interests you, click below:

  14. debb0

    June 4, 2012 at 2:44 PM

    Agree with tnoft. Chris Harrison is in love with Emily, you can tell by the way he looks at her & acts around her & now he’s split up with his wife of 18 years, hmmmm.

  15. santacruzsteph

    June 4, 2012 at 10:47 PM

    I just have to say. I read your spoilers and I still love watching it all play out on the show.

    Win win. Right? I can’t imagine most people do not feel the same. If they read your site and all the spoilers, which they clearly know they will be reading spoilers, they must want to know. I imagine most people enjoy knowing and watching with that knowledge.

  16. plh06410

    June 5, 2012 at 6:58 AM

    I don’t think anyone even at this early stage can deny the chemistry with Arie and Emily…they are in love and she is going thru the motions to finish the show. I won’t need you to tell me that, altho it is interesting reading and seeing it play out on some of the details. I often wonder if the show actually wants to feed you info because it boots interest in the show and is beneficial to you too since you earn a living from all this chatter. Admit it or not Mike F just might want to keep you around….

  17. zerort

    June 5, 2012 at 10:11 AM

    Couple of things:
    Her house is not for sale. She doesn’t even own that house. The Hendrick organization does.

    She wouldn’t move anyway as none of these guys could support her lifestyle much less provide for her and her daughter.

  18. missannmcd

    June 5, 2012 at 8:09 PM

    Great job Steve. Thanks so much 🙂

  19. arielover26

    June 6, 2012 at 7:29 AM

    I’m confused…so next episode in London she only eliminates 2 guys? I thought it was 3 again. Someone explain!

  20. pepp805

    June 6, 2012 at 5:58 PM

    i dont need spoiler steve! i know the end result.she ends up with chris harrison.

  21. pizzaboy88

    June 10, 2012 at 12:13 AM

    At some point in the process they eliminate the roses on the 1-on-1 dates. So in Croatia they could have dropped the roses and were just eliminated. But if the tweets correct then someone gets a rose taken away.

  22. raye

    June 10, 2012 at 11:21 AM

    As for the 8 to 6, Travis and Ryan. I think only 1 of them gets the rose, (Ryan, my thoughts) and it is taken back. I’m thinking Travis does not, thus the preview we saw of Emily walking away from a building with a rose in her hand.
    I wanted to make 2 other comments as well. Emily seems to be doing just fine on her own, so the fact that Sean may not be wealthy won’t matter, she still has whatever means she has been living off of to continue to survive. And I wanted to laugh with whoever it was that said Kalon pings their Gaydar. Funny, funny comment.
    Laughed till I cried.
    I think she ends up with Jef. She has been into him since the beginning. I never really cared for Arie and Sean is nice enough, but it was Emily’s friends that liked him; Emily had not really noticed him until they said how nice he was and how much they liked him.
    I enjoy the spoilers, but there is a bit of an edge to not knowing. Of course, the frustration level of losing who you want to be chosen, comes with that territory. Let us know what you find out RS. I will be checking.

  23. hookdonbach

    June 12, 2012 at 1:16 AM

    i think in Episode 6: Croatia (8 to 6), emily takes ryan’s rose back at the cocktail hour before eliminations because she finds out he’s not really there for her and the guys just told her a bunch of crap he’s been saying. i think the preview that we see of her holding a rose looking like red ridinghood and running all fairytail like is after she learns the info about ryan and she’s on her way to yell at chris harrison to tell her who else thinks this is a game and isnt really here for her.

    my faves are jef, arie and sean. so, i would be happy with any of them for her. however, if i had to guess, i think she picks sean. i think sean is a perfect mix of what she’s looking for. i think with arie, they have the chemistry and romance – seems to be a really good kisser. i think with jef, he’s very real, truthful, polite and she is comfortable with him. but, he seems more like a buddie and not enough chemistry. But, sean is a lil’ bit of both arie and jef along with charming, trustworthy and good morals and family. of course, he’s also tall, attractive and has a nice bod which i think that’s what she prefers on the outside too. seans the whole package, inside and out. done. 🙂

  24. loulou

    June 12, 2012 at 8:49 AM

    Okay so I know this is really out there………….but I think she ends up with Chris Harris the host.

  25. loulou

    June 12, 2012 at 12:25 PM

    Yikes I meant Chris Harrison …….. oops

  26. kelseycoo

    June 15, 2012 at 9:45 AM

    ****SPOILER ALERT *****
    My husband had dinner with someone who lends money to ABC, and he told my husband the winner is Jef. Very surprised, I’m sure it won’t last. He looks like a hobbit or the geeky guy from Breakfast Club IMO Nice guy, but too geeky for Emily.

  27. milzies

    June 18, 2012 at 9:13 PM

    THANK YOU luscinia! Very frusterating reading untrue statements regarding mormons and remarrying.Thanks for clearing it up 🙂

  28. plh06410

    June 23, 2012 at 5:19 PM

    The lady was married to a NASCAR driver, do you think she’d pick a guy who showed up on a SKATEBOARD to make a first impression???………Jef, with one F – no way………

  29. Darlene

    June 24, 2012 at 2:44 PM

    Well Steve, we’ve had a ood long run with the spoilers but I keep checking in with you for who Emily picked and there is nothing. You were the only one who was accurate and quick with the spoilers. I really want to know who she picked, I hope its Arie but I guess we will all know when the show ends.

  30. shari253

    July 1, 2012 at 9:42 AM

    Watching the Bitchelorette, my guilty pleasure.

  31. hahahaha

    July 15, 2012 at 3:45 PM

    Jef??? Really??? YUCK!!!! Poor Mickey Rooney… he was born in the wrong decade! If only he was born decades later, he could have had chance with Emily, too!!! And… I must say…. Emily’s forehead fascinates me!!! I just find myself staring at it the entire show! It just doesn’t move! Looks like a giant M&M!!!! : D !

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