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Bachelor Pad 3

The “Bachelor Pad” Recap Including the Latest on the Next Bachelor

So the voting takes place and it was a landslide. Nick and Rachel had the overwhelming majority. Needing only nine votes to win, they ended up getting 13 of the 16 votes. Only Kalon, Erica, and Dave voted for Chris and Sarah. Kalon because he’s boys with Chris, Erica because she’s best friends with Sarah, and Dave because, well, I don’t know why Dave voted for Chris. Especially after he even got to speak to him on camera and told him “It looked like you enjoyed hurting those women.” But whatever. It didn’t matter. It was a forgone conclusion the minute Nick and Rachel took Chris and Sarah to the finals who would win.

So now lets talk about Nick’s decision. First off, for those that didn’t watch the show, or for those that kinda tuned out to Nick’s speech after Rachel had chosen “SHARE,” I made sure I copied all of it. Here’s what Nick said before he revealed his decision:

“Nobody sitting up there in the cast, nobody in this audience right now, and nobody sitting at home watching right now would have put their money on me to win this. It’s crazy though to sit up here and watch the last episode, and see Jaclyn say that I don’t deserve to be here. And see Ed say that I’m just an anonymous guy in the house. It’s like, ouch, thanks Ed. I was on nobody’s radar, nobody was ever on my team. And I did this all myself. Nobody ever cared how I was going to vote. Nobody cared what my plan was. And I feel like I’m an outsider, and I got here by myself, and I did this all by myself.?Rachel never wanted to be my partner. She didn’t. As a matter of fact, she told me that she backed into this partnership. And she tried to leave on me three times. You tried to leave on me three times. And, knowing that it would screw me over. But it didn’t matter. You knew it was going to screw me over, but it didn’t matter. And I had to talk to you, and Jaclyn talked to you, and you know what you said to me? You said it was Jaclyn’s words that kept you here, not mine. I was like, really, wow? Never once did you say, ‘You know I’m gonna stick it out for your sake, Nick.’ I had to bring it up. You wanted to do it for Michael. You were on the phone with Michael. You wanted to see Michael. And you know how bad it sucks when you’re in the final competition to sing together and you tell me that ‘if Michael and I were to be in this competition together, we’d win this for sure.’ But I was your partner. You sure did, and so I decided to keep.”

Look, I’m well aware that there are people who hated what Nick did. And you’re entitled to your own opinion. I’m not going to try and convince you otherwise. All I’m going to say is please refrain from emailing me why you think he’s a jerk because it’s falling on deaf ears. I’m just going to give you my reasoning why I don’t have any problem whatsoever with what he did. Tell me exactly what in that speech that Nick gave was incorrect? Everything he said was dead on. Why did he owe Rachel anything? And amazingly enough, Kalon ended up being quite the voice of reason in this when even he said after the fact that people on stage don’t know what the definition of “deserve” is. Who’s to say Rachel deserved to win anything? Because why? For the first five episodes, she was in the power alliance with the guy who essentially was the power player in the game in Michael. So technically you could say that she rode Michael’s coattails for the first five episodes. And it’s not like Rachel killed it in challenges. She won one – the last one. I’ve stated it twice already, and I’ll state it again a third time for the record, and that’s that I think Rachel is the hottest girl they had on the show this season. But I’m able to separate her looks from what happened in the game. Just because I think she’s hot doesn’t mean I think she deserved anything. Why would she be more deserving over Nick, who she didn’t even want as her partner? Not that I didn’t feel bad for Rachel, because I did, but it’s a game show. This isn’t the “Bachelor.” This is “Bachelor Pad” where you are playing for $250k. Nick said it best on Twitter last night. Here’s what he wrote:

Nick Peterson @PeetysTraining
In regards to all of the comments from tonight: I went on Bachelor Pad 3 to play the game, not to find love or make friends. #BP3 #Winner

So he basically did what he set out to do. Obviously Rachel was more into the emotional, relationship aspect of the show. Which is fine, but, it doesn’t mean you’re going to win.

As for Rachel’s argument, “You are here because of me,” I couldn’t disagree more. Actually, Nick was there because of Erica and there’s no denying that. If Erica takes Chris home on her episode instead of Michael, then Nick is forced to pair with Sarah (since the only people left were Ed & Jaclyn, Blakeley & Tony, Lindzi & Kalon, and Michael & Rachel would’ve been together still), and the next challenge they don’t win, they are gone at the next rose ceremony. Rachel is NOT the reason Nick made it to the end, Erica is. Yes, they were partners, but it was because of what Erica did, not because Rachel wanted to be his partner. For the love of God, even Chris Harrison is defending Nick’s decision:

“Bachelor Pad is a game. From the moment you arrive at Bachelor Pad the fact that you are playing for a quarter of a million dollars is always on your mind. Nobody, especially nobody in Rachel’s alliance, gave a damn about Nick. Not only did they not care about him, but they didn’t think he had a chance to make it to the finals. Nick was expendable and he was being used. Rachel, Michael, Jaclyn and Ed were only keeping Nick around until it was time to put him out of his misery and vote him off the show. As soon as he wasn’t useful anymore he was going to go…at least, that was the plan. Even while he was sitting on the stage, nobody in Rachel’s alliance felt he deserved the money or even to be up there. The only problem with that thought is whether you think somebody “deserves” it or not, he was there. I thought Kalon really put it in perspective when he told the other contestants that they didn’t really understand the true meaning of the word ‘deserve.'”

Man, when I start taking Chris Harrison’s side on things, you know something isn’t right. But I’m sorry, there isn’t a single person out there that can convince me that Nick did the wrong thing. Read what he told everyone before revealing his decision, read what Chris Harrison wrote, then tell me why you feel that Nick owed anybody anything? If he was there to win the money, and admittedly didn’t care about making friends or finding a relationship, what’s wrong with what he did? Just because it’s something you personally wouldn’t have had the balls to do, doesn’t mean he was wrong, or it was a bad decision, or he’s a terrible person. I just never thought anybody in this show’s history would ever have the stones to pull this off, but Nick did. I think Nick explained himself as well as he could because he and Rachel were never close. I never thought a couple that wasn’t close would ever reach the finals to begin with and win, and yes, I do think Nick would’ve chosen “SHARE” if he was up there with someone he cared about or that he was dating. But he wasn’t, so I’m guessing it made his decision that much easier.

I know a lot of who didn’t have a problem with his decision are still saying, “But he was acting like kind of a dick up there rubbing it in.” Fair enough, but let me ask you this: What was he supposed to say? Nothing Nick said in that moment was going to make Rachel feel any better. Sorry? You really think Rachel would’ve been like, “Oh, ok. Well now that you apologized for what you did, all is good.” Of course not. That’s why Nick basically just kept repeating the same thing over and over and shrugging his shoulders. The game was over. Nothing was gonna change at that point. He had pulled the wool over her eyes and his plan worked. What was there left for him to say that would’ve smoothed anything over? The fact that the audience cheered, and the fact that it seemed like most of the cast agreed with Nick’s decision (outside of Rachel’s friends), seemed to solidify he had nothing to apologize for. Rachel was gonna be miserable regardless. As I said when I posted the spoilers two weeks ago, it was not a good night for her. And yeah, I do feel bad for what happened, but it’s a game. I felt much worse for what happened with Michael in last season’s finale getting blindsided by seeing his ex fiancé now engaged to his biggest enemy. No, Rachel did nothing wrong, but sometimes bad things happen to good people. Rachel’s biggest mistake was letting emotions getting involved this much on a game show. Nick played the game, Rachel didn’t, she lost, and unfortunately those were the consequences she suffered. Doesn’t make Nick a bad person, and doesn’t make Rachel a bad person. But it’s obvious this game wasn’t suited for her and Nick outplayed her because he absolutely had her convinced he was gonna pick “SHARE,” when he knew all along that he wasn’t. He lied to her which is what plenty of people do in this game. Nick just did it better than anyone else and is $250k richer because of it.

Already I’ve gotten a few emails along the lines of, “Do you think Rachel will be the Bachelorette now that everyone feels bad for her?” My answer: Rachel is in pretty much the same exact boat as Michael was after last season’s “Bachelor Pad.” Granted, she didn’t have her ex fiancé propose to her rival on national tv, but I’m talking the same boat as a lot of people want to see her find love now. To answer the question though, no, Rachel is not going to be the next “Bachelorette” just like Michael was never going to be the “Bachelor” just because of what happened to him on “Bachelor Pad.” The “Bachelorette” doesn’t start filming for another six months. I’m sorry, but fans are so fickle, they won’t care about Rachel the minute the next “Bachelor” starts filming in two weeks. So I certainly don’t think they’ll care about her in six months. Not to mention, I don’t think Rachel will have a hard time at all finding a guy after this. She doesn’t need this show anymore. It’s already given her enough grief as it is. Why torture yourself?

And for the record, should be embarrassed by their coverage of the finale last night. Really? Nick Peters? It’s not like they called him that once. They called him “Peters” FOUR TIMES in the article, and called him “Peter” once.

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  1. lcs85

    September 12, 2012 at 3:39 PM

    @aogden Ever since Steve has been talking about Kalon “dating” other woman, I always kind of felt like it was probably Kalon hanging out with friends that were girls. Just the way Steve phrased it made it seem as if Kalon wasn’t allowed to have female friends now that he is dating Lindzi.

  2. debb0

    September 12, 2012 at 6:57 PM

    Steve confirmed on twitter that Bach producers are filming at Sean’s house. Boo hoo

  3. debb0

    September 12, 2012 at 6:58 PM

    Ooopps, Sean’s parent’s house!

  4. Kaleb

    September 12, 2012 at 9:10 PM

    I just don’t understand what’s the point of having spoilers if they’re wrong. Wasn’t Steve so sure it was going to be Roberto? Seems like he lost his sources and he’s grasping at straws here.

  5. roma123

    September 12, 2012 at 10:12 PM

    Nick’s a prick; not because he chose “keep”, but because of his smugness.
    His “speech” showed how insecure he is.

  6. strick432

    September 12, 2012 at 10:22 PM

    Just watched the finale. I knew what happened but here are my thoughts. What in holy hell was Jamie wearing? OMG – the first thing I thought of was “Genie in a Bottle”. I try not to judge people but that was horrific. And wasn’t it obvious to anybody that didn’t kno the ending that Nick won the money after kept showing the same clip over and over of Rachel demanding to talk to somebody and calling that person an ass? And finally, Nick played a great game. He won fair and square – he didn’t owe anybody anything. If this was “Survivor” noboby would be bitchn’. Just sayin….

  7. karynr

    September 13, 2012 at 5:28 AM

    I think the person who said Nick has a lack of confidence is way off. The people who have a lack of confidence are the ones who put him down to build themselves up…Jaclyn, Rachel, etc.

    c103..RS has always had a jealousy problem with quite a few male cast members over the years. It’s not just Arie.

  8. happy5

    September 13, 2012 at 7:23 AM

    Well I can pretty much predict the new “Bachlelor” will not be Sean. My little Cajun beauty was flown to LA for the final interviews as she made the final 50 cut. Unfortunately, she was not chosen and was told it was due to the fact she was not compatible with the future “Bachelor”. She would be a perfect choice for Sean all around and had personally picked him on his season. Their Catholic views are spot on as a couple. Anxious to see and if it is him, we will be disappointed and will also have concerns as to what the cast and show are really looking for in a true match. If it is not Sean, the show may make more sense to us. It has been a long and worthwhile process. Proud of my southern bell making it as far as she did. She is a very special young lady.

  9. DawsMA

    September 13, 2012 at 7:35 AM

    Happy5, sorry to tell you but RS confirmed the new Bachelor IS indeed Sean. Keep in mind the producers cast for entertainment, not compatibility. Your friend or whoever she is to you was probably not entertaining enough in their eyes.

  10. happy5

    September 13, 2012 at 8:35 AM

    Well said and I totally get that even though they used the word compatibity. I will say my daughter would have brought some entertainment to the show as she is very engaging but definately no drama. I am happy for Sean and wish him well even though he will be missing a great opportunity to meet my very special daughter. The show must go on and I am an avid fan. Felt good to comment on the process. Thanks for your input. I truly believe the outcome was not in our hands and worked out for the best.

  11. txgirl

    September 13, 2012 at 8:39 AM

    FYI, Sean is not Catholic.

  12. Sunnyside422

    September 13, 2012 at 9:33 AM

    Wonder if RS will give us insight as to why Roberto was passed over. Was he asking too much moola? Could be Sean settled for a lot less and thus chosen. Or maybe Roberto decided he didn’t want to subject himself to the whole mess again. Bet Ali is relieved cause him rehashing their relationship would not reflect favorably on her and her desire to be a “star”.

    Sorry but Sean will bore me. Never thought he was attractive at all. And we can get to watch his right eye only squint again. Strange.

  13. DawsMA

    September 13, 2012 at 10:24 AM

    Sorry happy5, I didn’t mean to sound negative saying she wouldn’t be entertaining. If anything it’s probably a testament to her character that she may not have been what they were looking for. She may have dodged a bullet not being casted! I hope you both enjoy the season.

  14. happy5

    September 13, 2012 at 10:36 AM

    Laughing at myself for even commenting. I’m recently retired with extra time on my hands. Just still in shock that my little girl from a very small town in Louisiana made it as far as she did. So close we thought she was actually cast. Have to say she took the news very well since she is such a happy go lucky kind of girl. But family and friends not so much. We wanted this so much for her. Just hope I can get over the rejection and somehow enjoy the show even though she wasn’t cast. Hahaha

  15. happy5

    September 13, 2012 at 10:47 AM

    What a sweet thing to say and you are exactly right! You just helped me feel better about their decision! And not feel so silly about commenting!! Thank you!!

  16. colonlc10

    September 13, 2012 at 10:54 AM

    Really Jamie what was that on your head? It looked like a bedazzled jock strap on her head! She was way too serious acting with Chris and it was just plain silly. Let it go already!

  17. colonlc10

    September 13, 2012 at 11:04 AM

    I did feel bad for Rachel but I think Nick did the right thing. I didn’t really like the gloating and if I had won, I still wouldn’t have gloated but I can also understand where he was coming fromt. They all were pretty nasty to him. The only ending I see for next time is both contestants choos KEEP and then the whole “pad” gets the money except the 2 contestants or at least I think that is how it goes. Other than that, I don’t see any other good endings. It won’t be the same here on out that is for sure!!!!!!!

  18. rc83

    September 16, 2012 at 3:55 AM

    Nick was brilliant and I didn’t even feel sorry for Rachel. I didn’t like her on the Bachelor and I didn’t like her on Bachelor Pad. If she honestly thought she could come as close as she did to forcing Nick out of the competition after MIchael left and he wouldn’t remember that, she’s incredibly stupid.

  19. kendra7107

    September 18, 2012 at 3:42 PM

    I have to admit that I would have kept the money too. It’s a game and all is fair…Rachel did nothing but moan and whine after Michael left and Ed and Jac thought they would win it all. He made a lot of points when explaining why he kept it for himself. She went on and on asking “Why” and he told her. I actually hate the way they make the show a “couples” theme. I remember in season one three or four girls were booted out just because they didn’t have partners yet the show was “represented” as a game show for a single winner.

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