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Bachelor Sean Spoilers

“Reader Emails,” Bachelor: Canada, Crazy Tweeters, & Pictures and Details from Sean’s 1-on-1 Date

So here’s today’s comic relief for you. Last night, some dolt on Twitter with the handle @PoetryBachelor tweeted out saying that my information about the breakup came from Emily’s ex “Collin,” and that I was pranked. First off, I don’t even know if Emily has an ex named Collin. Secondly, no Collin has ever emailed me any information regarding the breakup. So this person went on to say they saw the email correspondence and were gonna give it US Weekly. Sweet. Be my guest. I’d love to see those emails since they never happened to begin with, but hey, knock yourself out. Not five minutes after this exchange took place on Twitter, I get my first email ever from “Collin.” This is how the exchange went:

On Oct 11, 2012, at 10:56 PM, Colin <> wrote:
Hi Steve,

Emily and Jef did not break up. I gave your false info and it was a joke. I’m sorry you took it too far.


From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 8:59 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

Considering this is the first email you’ve ever sent me and have told me nothing, that might be the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard.

Sent from my iPhone

On Oct 11, 2012, at 11:00 PM, Colin <> wrote:
I used a different name on my other email to remain anonymous since it was a joke

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:02 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

Really? And what name was that? And why don’t you tell me everything you claim to have already told me? This should be good considering you haven’t told me anything.

Sent from my iPhone

On Oct 11, 2012, at 11:03 PM, Colin <> wrote:
You know what I told you… i told you Emily and Jef broke up

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:06 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

Dude you’ve got nothin. I got a hell of a lot more than that. Really? You think this email conversation is some sort of proof of anything? Sad sad individual.

Go jerk off somewhere else. You never told me anything and if you claim you did, you would easily just reproduce those emails and repeat to me everything you told me up to this point. But you can’t. Go away.

Sent from my iPhone

On Oct 11, 2012, at 11:06 PM, Colin <> wrote:
I deleted them all and they were on my other account

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:11 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. You’re so sad. Go away. You’ve got absolutely nothing.

I was told a hell of a lot more than “Jef and Emily broke up.” So great, you claim to have deleted all the emails. Which is complete BS, but for the time being, I’ll play along. So now just repeat to me everything you told me about the situation if you’re claiming you already did. Should be easy to just repeat it again if it already happened right?

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. This is gonna be good.

On Oct 11, 2012, at 11:13 PM, Colin <> wrote:
I told you they broke up over the weekend and that they are trying to decide when to tell the press…

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:17 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

There were PLENTY of things I was told that I didn’t put in my column. Humor me. Repeat just ONE.

You can’t. And once you can’t, I’m deleting your emails.

Sent from my iPhone

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:19 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

So what was the other email address you claim to have been emailing from that magically disappeared? Because it wouldn’t have disappeared on my end so I’d be able to go into my inbox and sent folder and pull EVERY SINGLE ONE of them up.

And if you tell me you don’t remember the email account, it’ll prove you’re just jerking around. Which you obviously are.

Sent from my iPhone

On Oct 11, 2012, at 11:21 PM, Colin <> wrote:
What was the email you got stuff from?

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:22 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info We sent about 6 or 7 back and forth.

Sent from my iPhone

From: Colin <>
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info
To: “Steve”
Date: Thursday, October 11, 2012, 11:27 PM
Dude you seriously just gave out an email??? i’m going to email that person and tell them

From: Steve
To: Colin <>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 9:29 PM
Subject: Re: Emily and Jef info

Wow. You are truly an idiot. “Love Like This” is the name of Michael Stagliano’s single. It’s not even an email account. I just made it up five seconds ago. So the fact you even bought it for one second proves you’re a fraud.

Man you’re gullible. I’m now blocking your emails. You have nothing because there is nothing. Hope you had fun tonight. My readers will enjoy this exchange we had which proves my point at how crazy Jemily fans can be to try and prove me wrong. Wow. You’ve got some serious issues.

Have a great night.

So there you go. Hope you enjoyed that little silliness. Basically if you couldn’t read between the lines, they were trying to get me to say that the information I received came from them, which it obviously didn’t. And since they couldn’t produce any information to me over what I was told (which they would’ve been able to do if they were really the one who gave me information since there was plenty I was told that I purposely didn’t put in the column because I swore I wouldn’t), they proved how idiotic they were. Man, some people must really think I’m dumb. And some people really need to take a good hard look in the mirror and determine if time wasted on stuff like this is actually improving their lives. My guess? No. I had fun with it, because I knew where the conversation was headed and I could share it with everyone for a good laugh. You could tell they were genuinely thinking they could get me on something. Lets just say this person won’t be leading any MENSA meetings anytime soon.

What I truly don’t get about the reaction to Tuesday’s column is why are people freaking out? All I said was they broke up. I didn’t reveal any scandalous emails, photos, or tell some 4th hand story about something I heard from somebody’s brother’s 3rd cousin. I basically just gave you a spoiler. Here, Emily and Jef are broken up and expect the announcement coming. Nothing else. I’m just the messenger. Yet people sitting behind their computers have now pegged me as the anti-Christ for reporting this. See what I mean? And it’s not everyone, just the crazy, die hard Jemily fans. For people to scream at me “Leave them alone!” is just idiotic. I’m not digging into their personal lives, or running stories about polygamy like the tabloids did, or say I read Emily’s diary or something like that. I said they broke up. Get over it. Geesh. Some people in this world definitely don’t need to be reproducing. I’m scared for society when I see reactions like this over something so matter-of-fact.

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  1. Cyns

    October 15, 2012 at 2:53 PM

    I hope Jef says yes, for no other reason than to make Emily sit through 2 months of watching ‘what if’, just like wonder boy Brad did.

    Know nothing about Emily other than what she let us see, but imagine she’s high maintenance emotionally, and Jef is just laid back cool.

  2. cindy01

    October 15, 2012 at 4:51 PM

    You know…I’ve been thinking about how big a hypocrite Emily is. I have always thought it but after finding out what she did at Jef’s parents summer house I really think it now. I mean c’mon…she’s been invited to come visit their house and then she has the nerve to sext another guy while she’s there with her fiance and with her daughter there too. It’s unbelievable really…
    I imagine Jef is thinking like Brad right now and saying “I dodged a bullet”

  3. anythingwewant

    October 15, 2012 at 8:13 PM

    Although I get called out every time I post screw it here goes. Can you say Drama Queen? Courtney is less a drama queen. At least she is spunky and interesting. Did you notice poor Emily has to stay home and do her Mom Stuff, can’t travel some place fab. Bet she traveled to the mall a few times today. Jef is off in La La California. The fans are holding vigil over at Jokers. Poor people need an intervention. But yanno I don’t blame them. They are addicts, I like that they admit it. The snobbier ones are tweeting over and over trying to get a morsel. Emily actually threw some crumbs their way tonight. Cat and mouse. I think these fans crazy or not, deserve an answer, they funded 5 wells, they are true and loyal. Out of their minds but even I feel for them and Im the bitch or one of em.. Give it up. Drama Mama. Nothing good is coming out of you dragging it out DO IT! Put TV fans out of their misery and let them get back to their families. If your stringing them a long for money..well they might not like that so much. IMHO. Congratulations to Jef on his new niece Nora!

  4. FanofSteve

    October 15, 2012 at 9:59 PM

    I’ve never liked Plastic-Princess Emily from day one on Brad’s season & was even less impressed with her when she was the Bachelorette (but who can resist watching the trainwreck that is the B3 Franchise?). All I can say to Jef is congratulations for dodging the Barbie-Doll Bullet & best of luck to you in your future love life!

    @ catj, shouldbeworking & Bill the Cat. I, too, have been watching Bachelor Canada and find it (unintentionally) hilarious! The dude in the Chris Harrison role has the personality of a funeral director (and a VERY log neck!); the bachelor is cute but incredibly lacking in personality; the ‘contestants’ are either (a) whiners, (b) wallflowers, (c) bitches, or (d) flat-out psychos.

    That said, I have to admit that I’m impressed that the women actually look like women instead of 12-yr-old pre-pubescent boys! They have flesh on their bones! They have curves! Some of them have their own breasts! None of them, as far as I can tell, have had those ultra-bright, totally fake-looking veneers applied to their teeth (but a few of them *should* have at least had some zoom-whitening done – grey teeth are not a turn-on)!
    The Canadian version follows the same production-manipulated format as the U.S. show.
    We’ve got a virgin, we’ve got a single Mom (turfed in the second broadcast); we’ve got a couple of intellectually-challenged contestants; and, so far, we’ve got TWO villains:
    (1) Gabrielle – a rather homely woman if you ask me – who is rude & cranky, has the spookiest bulging eyes I’ve ever seen, and has zero chemistry with the Bachelor [I’m convinced she’s still around only because production wants her there]; and
    (2) Whitney, who should be wearing a tiara proclaiming her Queen Bitch, but who actually does have chemistry with the bachelor (poor sod – wonder if he’ll ever catch on).
    Yup, I’m gonna keep watching, because it’s so bad that it’s good.

  5. randais

    October 16, 2012 at 6:05 AM

    Judge says, “Casting decisions are protected by the First Amendment” in response to the discrimination case brought against ABC.

  6. karynr

    October 16, 2012 at 6:43 AM

    bfw, everything I read indicates Ben was checked out of the relationship a long time ago. Supposedly, she wanted to try and make it work, and he was a total pr*** to her, so that’s why I don’t think he could care less about Courtney and Arie.

    Plus, don’t you think it’s more like Arie and Courtney put their heads together and thought of a way to grab some media interest? I think they set the whole thing up including calling the media to let them know where they were that evening. I think the whole thing was a set-up for the media, and possibly a way for Courtney to stick it to Ben.

  7. karynr

    October 16, 2012 at 6:48 AM

    What’s the deal with Barbie and 1F? I wonder why there’s been no announcement? I know I’ve said this a lot, but poor little Ricki. I sure hope that little girl has some stronger, smarter female role models in her life. All she’s going to learn from mom is shopping and how to playt men.

  8. Dianne

    October 16, 2012 at 7:53 AM

    @karynr..there won’t be an announcement until ABC decides it’s a good time to make one. They’re currently living the “drama” (ha!) of Courtney and Ben, and once that dies down, they’ll bring on the “drama” of Barbie and 1F.

  9. Sunnyside422

    October 16, 2012 at 7:55 AM

    My take on no announcement as I stated before: ABC/Fleiss don’t want the announcement to come on the heels of Benjie and Skanky’s failed-for-publicity relationship.

    All these inspirational messages tweeted by both Jef and Emily tell the story and confirmation is not necessary. They are done.

  10. brady6

    October 16, 2012 at 9:19 AM

    It also appears that Emily is no longer following Jef on twitter!… I would say the announcement is moments away!

  11. anythingwewant

    October 16, 2012 at 9:22 AM

    I have to ask? Why Jef publicly humiliated his brother?

  12. Sunnyside422

    October 16, 2012 at 9:34 AM

    Could be as simple as Mike has caused family turmoil in the past and left Jef with feelings of intense dislike for him. Also could be brother Mike is a bit jealous of his younger brother’s popularity, looks, earning potential, etc. thus Mike had to speak out on the altercation between Emily and Jef…if indeed it went down as such. We might never know as I doubt Emily will confess to her transgressions and Jef might just be glad she is in his past.

  13. Bill the Cat

    October 16, 2012 at 9:44 AM

    @ Fanofsteve & the other BC watchers – I agree about the women – a breath of fresh air & some real (non-plastic / non plastic) gals, eh? I thought it was a kick bringing preacher gal into the burlesque (out of her comfort zone here!) club to ‘perform’. Just as much of a train wreck as the US version – just some differences that make it look ‘cheaper’ than the us version – but really – when you think about it – the US ver is just as cheap – we are just used to seeing it as normal. It’s worth the hassle of finding it & downloading. (No – I’m not in Canada – I’m in Florida – state of ignorance. Actually 3 miles from the Hooters Vienna worked at! (It’s across the street from the Goat Ranch wing of Seminole Farms. No kidding!)

  14. maxi

    October 16, 2012 at 9:50 AM

    The Arie/Courtney thing is two attention whores extending their 15 minutes. I think it was shitty of them to date so early/publicly though… Ben was out with this guy not long ago and bragging him up to be the next bachelor, so yeah, kinda dirty, IMO.

  15. JovisMom

    October 16, 2012 at 9:51 AM

    @ Sunnyside422 – I just read your comment about possibly ABC going after Jef to be the next Bach….OMG I hope he says no as well only b/c I can not stand that guy!! He is unattractive and not very interesting. I will absolutely not watch if that happens!! YUCK!

  16. aebell

    October 16, 2012 at 9:58 AM

    While I’m not surprised that Steve was right about Jef/Emily, I have to admit that I’m disappointed. I’m not one of the crazed Jemily fans, but I liked the vibe they had together – (ok, mainly I liked his quirkiness). I was also surprised by how much I enjoyed her season. She ended up having more personality than I expected. Bottom line – I was rooting for them, even when the texting issue came to light. I was more disappointed to hear about Jef’s thing with Kaylee. I was hoping he’d be the good guy!

    I watched the show occasionally in the early days (I quite liked Andrew Firestone’s season then stopped watching for a while). I started watching more regularly when Jillian was on the Bachelor, b/c I worked with someone who was a friend of hers. And now I’m hooked. I love the drama – all of those bachelors and bachelorettes behaving badly. And I find all of the cliches, etc hilarious. Seriously – since when do you find so many reasonably attractive 20-somethings who have given up on love? Afraid to let down their guard? Give me a break. But as the show progresses, I find myself getting drawn into the various relationships that form and the ‘characters’ you get to know.

  17. shouldbeworking

    October 16, 2012 at 10:46 AM

    Is anyone watching Revenge? I was distracted for a minute on Sunday night. Who was the woman that left the voice message on the cell phone that belonged to the white haired guy? Was she the same woman at the Pine Crest hotel that called the police to verify the fake cop? Sorry… I’m not so good at remembering names!!

  18. randais

    October 17, 2012 at 7:52 AM

    @should, that was my take; the woman at the hotel. Clearly they have a connection, and the plot thickens!

    ANNNNND it’s official, Kathie Lee and Hoda announced this am they are officially broken up……Jemily, that is. We were all just waiting for that confirmation weren’t we “eye roll”. Can we now move on?

  19. colonlc10

    October 17, 2012 at 9:38 AM

    @Randais and shouldbeworking………….I saw in the credits that Jennifer Jason Leigh is on Revenge so I’m thinking the woman at the hotel was her (although she had glasses on I think if I remember correctly) or that she is going to end up being Emily’s real mom since I don’t think she is dead………………..what do you think about that? And I love me some Nolan…….they need to stop beating up my Noaln. He cracks me up………..always has a sarcastic something to say! :O)

  20. randais

    October 17, 2012 at 1:15 PM

    Yes, Nolan is one of my favs too. His character is sarcastic, witty and hilarious. How about his new “assistant” (is that her title?)?….She seems like she will fall into the same humorous category, at least based on her character, so far.

    So someone, clarify for me, we saw the flashback of Vicky getting on the plane and getting a warning to get off…did I miss what happened after that?

  21. colonlc10

    October 17, 2012 at 2:13 PM

    Yeah I’m confused about that too………I guess she got the warning and then got off but I’m not sure how it all went down. I’m annoyed with Ashley and I want her to go away. What a scumbag good ol’ dad is too! And I knew Emily had a thing with (crap I gorgot his name) the guy that was training with her in I think Japan. I want to know about that part. Each week this show keeps me on the edge of my seat wanting more. I don’t care for faux amanda! Yeah Nolan’s new “assistant” the CFO actually seems like she can give it and take it so I’m hoping she has some good parts coming up with Nolan. I love that guy, crazy freak that he is!!!!

  22. colonlc10

    October 17, 2012 at 2:14 PM

    UGH, FORGOT not gorgot………………LOL!

  23. randais

    October 17, 2012 at 5:43 PM

    Oh yeah, Emily’s new “hero”…cute too. Looking forward to seeing where they take him. It’s a great show, head and shoulders above the sorry excuse for the show commonly know as the “Bachelor/ette”… I actually look forward to watching Revenge :D.

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