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Dr. Reality Steve

Dr. Steve,

am emailing you because am curious what this guy is thinking , and i would love to have a guy opinion on my situation.

so both of us are 21 and in college , we have the same class , we barley talked because i sit in-front and leave right after class , though he made it clear that he liked me and he wanted to go out with me several time , and i told him several time that am not interested because i have 21 credit hours and i need to go to med school right after this and graduate early too . anyways , he promise he will text me “school related stuff”
we start texting , the guy is actually really nice and i started to like the guy.

we go on our first date , he takes me to a nice romantic picnic and he brings his cute dog too and everything was perfect but he ended the date after an hour , which made me think okay he’s not interested.
and my first dates are usually 2 to 3 hours .
same night , he text me telling me lets go to the movies for the next day.
however , he text me in the morning and wants to have coffee, we have coffee and then takes me to his place to see his cute dog .
next thing , we are making out on his bed for 45 minutes and i don’t usually make out on the second date but it just happened .

later that day , he tells me he wants to introduce me to his friends already? and lets postpone movie night , again we make out for over an hour.

am confused because , he asked to me his girlfriend already? after our second date,
we barley communicate , we make out most of the time and it makes me thinking that all he wants is sex but he knows am still a virgin and willing to keep it until i get marriage .

so what do you think of this guy and this situation , i know we’re moving so fast and i do not like it , but i just do not understand him ? why would you ask someone to be your girlfriend that quick when we barley talk ? he is just physically attracted to me right?

Anyways , sorry for the long email and i love your bloggg , i only started watching the bachelor after reading your blog.

Comment: Uhhhhhhhh…errrrrrr…ummmmmmmmm. I have no idea what to say to that.
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Dr. Reality Steve,

This is more of a friendship dilemma. (not using real names)

About a year and a half ago, my best friend of 16 years (let’s call her Ashley) was dating a douche bag. He kept telling her he didn’t want to be with her and that they should break up, but they stayed together because they had all of these things planned (a trip, a wedding, etc.). They didn’t want to cancel everything. So, they decided on a date that they would break up (when all of the plans were done) – I know, ridiculous. They went on their trip together (alone) and he paid everything. They went to the wedding as dates. Ashley stayed hopeful that he would change his mind, but the douche bag still wanted the break up, and so they broke up the day they had planned (lol). Obviously, Ashley was completely heart broken (doesn’t help that she was sleeping with him, going on “romantic trips” with him, etc), because she isn’t used to getting dumped. I had never seen Ashley this devastated, as she’s usually a very confident person but this situation got her very unstable and almost depressed.

Us girls (we’re all 22) were there for her. We went out a lot to keep her mind off of things. Because I have a boyfriend, I couldn’t spend as much time with Ashley as much as my other friend, Amanda. So, Amanda and Ashley became very close and started hanging out a lot. They changed their FB profile pictures to one of them together, would comment on each others things with little hearts and kisses, so yeah they were inseparable. Weird considering they didn’t get along very well in high school…

One night, we went out. Ashley ended up taking Amanda’s cellphone to creep through her text messages (she just does that, very curious) and came across texts between Amanda and the douche ex boyfriend. Immediately, Ashley became super pissed off at Amanda for obvious reasons. Amanda explained herself, saying that she was only texting him to make sure he wasn’t coming to the same bar as we were, and just wanted to avoid drama. We ended up leaving the bar early because Ashley was pretty pissed off, but the next day everything was fine and Amanda promised to never text the ex again.

About two months after that incident, Amanda sends me and our other good friend (Lindsey) a Facebook message saying that she had screwed up and had hung out with the ex boyfriend. She said that she had already talked to Ashley about this and that Ashley wanted her to tell us about it. At first, it only seemed like Amanda had hung out this one time with the ex, but…the truth finally came out and she SLEPT WITH HIM. To make it clear, she slept with him after the bar incident when she promised to not contact him again. Another thing to clear up, Amanda met the ex through Ashley and Amanda did not have feelings for him (she just likes sex). Turns out the only reason she told Ashley about her sleeping with him is because the ex boyfriend now had a new girlfriend and this new girlfriend found out about it and threatened to tell Ashley if Amanda didn’t fess up to it. SO, as it was already pretty lame that Amanda would tell us through Facebook, she completely took herself out of our friend circle. Said she understood that we wouldn’t want to talk to her again, deleted her Facebook and disappeared from our lives.

It’s now been 1.5 years since all of this happened. The thing is, I kind of want to contact Amanda. I miss her. She was the most fun of all of my friends and the one that would understand me the best. I find it unfair that I had to delete her out of my life because of something that happened between 2 other people. The thing is, Ashley HATES her and I’m afraid of losing Ashley as a friend, who’s been my best friend since preschool, if she finds out. My other friend Lindsey has also talked about reconnecting with Amanda but hasn’t done it yet. Another thing…I hardly see Ashley and Lindsey anymore. Ashley has a new boyfriend who she’s always with, and Lindsey is another story… Let’s just say Ashley and I still consider ourselves BFFs, but we’re not. We never text, never hang out just because, etc. Only times we see each other is if 1) I plan something or 2) It’s one of us’ birthday. I do have many friends outside of this girlfriend circle, but I want a close friend again.. and that was Amanda.

Should I reconnect with Amanda? Should I even trust Amanda after what she was able to do to a good friend? What if she tries to sleep with my boyfriend? If I do reconnect with her, should I tell Ashley and Lindsey?

Woah, after rereading my message, the situation sounds way more immature than I thought it would. I hate drama and was never a part of it. Only watched it happened. I definitely feel older than 22 and that’s probably why I’m dating a 25 year old.

Thank you Steve! Love the blog.

Comment: I wish you would’ve chosen different fake names than “Ashley” and “Amanda.” It got confusing. And yes, this whole thing sounds very high school-ish. Granted, you all are fresh out of college being 22 and all, but this is petty stuff really.

You want to be friends with Amanda but fear Ashley will get pissed? I guess I’d first ask why. She sounds kinda whore-y when she admittedly went after Ashley’s ex even though she knew he was off limits. I know it’s been a year and a half, but still. However, you wanting to be friends with her should be your decision, not what Ashley thinks. Especially since you said you barely see Ashley anymore cuz she’s with her boyfriend all the time. I wouldn’t say don’t be friends with Amanda again because of Ashley, but maybe it’s not a great idea to be friends with her because of how she acted. I mean, if you wanna reach out to her to see if she’s changed, and realized what a colossal f-up she was, then sure. I’d just be careful. You basically insinuated she’s kind of a slut when you said “she just likes having sex.” So it’s your call, I just would tread lightly – as Ben Flajnik would say.
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My fiancé of over a year and boyfriend in total of four years works at a gym. And long story short met a girl whom sits next to him same office. And now it’s an emotional relationship he is falling for her! His first excuses, she is poor I feel sorry for her.(bought her shoes took her to dinner regularly and his cheap ass pays for her) He is the biggest cheap person I know and he wasted his money on her! And now he says he wants both of us! What a good life he has planned out.

We live in my parents house I gave him everything and even have to beg him to pay rent!!! Well after being a dumb person I let him go but now am just falling in love even more! He deserves nothing but I want to give him the world!!

P.S. I cook deliciously clean wash his stank underwear sanitize his infected feet and even flush the poop he leaves on the toilet!!! And pay for everything!! Yup am a loser. 🙁

Comment: At least you said it, not me. Ummmm, do you really need my advice on this? Your fiancé just told you that he wants the BOTH of you? Your fiancé. The man you are supposed to marry. Ummmm, ok. If you need my advice on this, nothing I say is gonna get through to you considering you haven’t left him already.

P.S. – Thanks for the visual. Totally necessary.
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I’m a guy in my mid-30’s who has been described by many as a ‘late bloomer’. I didn’t date much in high school, college or even in my 20’s. I did date during all those times, but not much. I’m really just hitting my stride now, which I’m happy about.

I’ve also come to watching the Bachelor late. I’d seen the show here and there and was familiar with how it worked but I just started watching it regularly this past season with Sean.

One thing I’ve noticed is that my own dating life spiked during the last season of the bachelor. This happened in a fairly innocent way but all of a sudden I had several women buzzing around, showing me interest at the same time. The more the show aired, the more women showed me interest.

I’m wondering if this is merely a coincidence or if this happens for a lot of people when ‘the bachelor’ airs. Is there a general upswing in people’s dating lives when the show comes on? If so, I’d speculate that it could be a not so subtle but still subconscious trigger that gets people putting more attention on that area of their lives. Kind of how every time Disney re-releases ‘101 Dalmatians’ there’s a huge upsurge in people buying Dalmatian puppies. Have you heard of any statistics that would prove or negate my theory? What have been your observations if any?

Thanks and keep up the good work!

Sincerely,

Insert funny pseudonym here

Comment: Can honestly say one of the more strange emails I’ve ever received. I have no idea if your theory holds any water, nor would it ever be possible to try and prove it. So you’re saying you think you’re starting to get more attention from women when the “Bachelor” or “Bachelorette” is airing? Maybe you’re doing something different.

And how do you know it’s just during the season? So right after the finale airs, women stop talking to you? If it continues on, then obviously it’s not just because of the show. But if this past March 11th came and went, and you haven’t had a date since then and won’t until May 27th, then I could say your theory might be accurate. However, I find that hard to believe.

Is there something in the water with these emails this week? Yikes. I know we’re in the off-season, but could these have been four of the more random emails ever?
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Hi Steve,

I love your blog – long time reader and fan! I have a quick question. I’m recently out of a four year relationship and am thinking about dating again, but I wanted to check some etiquette (dating world has changed since the last time I was available!) This past week I judged a school district wide contest and met a nice looking teacher from another school. We didn’t get a chance to talk much, but I’d like to get to know him. Would it be weird/unprofessional for me to ask him to be my Facebook friend considering I was his judge at contest? Or is that totally lame? Any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks for all that you do. You are a wonderful entertainer!

Comment: Hey look! Someone called me an entertainer. Well thank you. I try.

Do you have any other ways to get in touch with him? I mean, I guess you could start by adding him as a friend on Facebook and see where it goes from there. Or if you have his email, just send one of those. Just act normal. Best advice I can give you. Don’t try too hard and if something happens, then great. If he’s not interested, then move on.
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Hey Steve,

I could really use a guy’s perspective/advice with my current situation.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. We both just recently graduated college (I graduated in the summer, he just graduated three months ago.) When I graduated back in August I asked him if he wanted to stay together and attempt the long distance thing (I was moving back home which was about four hours from him) and he said yes. I was pretty scared about it but it actually wasn’t so bad. We saw each other once a month for probably four or five days at a time and talked everyday we were apart. We took a trip to celebrate our anniversary in December and it was great aside from New Years Eve. Unfortunately I had a little too much to drink that night and had a mini meltdown (yes, unfortunately I’m one of those girls.) He will be moving to another city around August for a job and a part of me thought I’d probably make the move with him, while the other part of me doesn’t want to leave where I am. My meltdown basically was me saying to him why were we together if the distance between us was potentially just going to become longer, and why not just break up now instead of investing even more time blah blah blah. It was stupid for me to say because I did not mean a word of it. He got pretty angry that I’d even think that and said that it was something we’d figure out when we got to that point.

After that everything was fine. He came to see me in January and we had the best weekend doing different stuff, hanging out with my family, catching up with friends, etc. In February we even took a trip and ran a half marathon together. In March we couldn’t really plan a visit because both of our schedules were pretty hectic that month for different reasons, but everything continued to be totally normal/the same. So come the beginning of this month every time I’d mention planning a visit he’d say that he didn’t know when it would be a good time for him because he’s taking two parts of the CPA exam this month. I didn’t think anything of it and figured we’d figure something out. Last night while we were talking I got a little frustrated with him because he was being so wishy washy about planning a visit, so I asked him what was going on. He said he was tired and that we would talk about it tomorrow. So today he texted me as usual, “Hey babe what’s up?” After a little small talk I said I wanted to finish our conversation from the night before. He called me almost immediately after sending that message. I answered and he said, “Yeah I don’t really see this going any further.” At first I thought he was joking but he assured me he was totally serious. He basically said that the distance was super hard and that he didn’t see me moving with him. This really threw me off guard because he has never said anything about distance being an issue. I asked him why he thought that and he said he couldn’t really explain it. Then he went on to say he just really didn’t feel the same. I couldn’t believe I was getting dumped from a three year relationship over the phone a week before my birthday. The whole thing was super strange. He was so cold about the whole thing, it was almost like he was just ripping off a band aid. I kept asking him what happened, and he insisted that nothing really happened he just realized earlier this week he felt this way. Obviously I’m pretty devastated, but I am also super confused. This was totally out of the blue, and the way he did it was just not the person I know. The first thing that came to my mind when I got off the phone was, “Well that was mean.” I mean he acted like everything was totally normal up until he called me basically saying he didn’t have feelings for me anymore and breaking up was the right thing to do. Oh, and the fact he dumped me over the phone a week before my birthday! Gotta love that.

My friends and family think he’s having some type of quarter life crisis for various reasons. He just graduated from college, he’s been stressing about the CPA exam, he’ll be moving to a big city in the fall, two of our good friends just got engaged, and one of his good friends passed away in a car accident a week ago. Basically they think he’s just freaking out about all of this and acting out. They say he’ll probably realize in time that he screwed up. Personally I think he just wants to be single to do whatever he wants. When he said he really didn’t see me moving with him I translated that as I don’t want you coming with me. I think I’m more angry at this point because he wouldn’t offer me an explanation, and the way he went about the whole thing is really out of character for him. I know it’ll probably be hard to offer some insight because this is pretty bizarre but what is your take on this?

Thanks Steve!

Comment: Guys do weird things at times. To end a three year relationship over the phone the way he did was shi**y. No denying that. But maybe the distance is a big deal to him and that really was his reason. It’s possible. You’d think he would’ve mentioned that earlier at some point instead of springing it on you like that, but he didn’t. I guess my question to you would be, does he have communication issues in your relationship? If he was a guy that was always closed off and never talked about feelings or stuff like that, then yeah, I could see a guy like that dumping someone over the phone after 3 years. However, if this was totally uncharacteristic for him, then I’d say unfortunately, he has someone else lined up and didn’t tell you. You’ve spent an awful lot of time away from each other, so you can’t say it wouldn’t have been easy for him to meet/talk to someone without you knowing.

Maybe you’ll get your answer someday, maybe not. If he ever comes asking for you back, I wouldn’t jump right into it if I were you. To throw away three years just like that without much of an explanation, something’s up. I’m not sure what exactly, but I wouldn’t be ecstatic to jump back into anything with him if I were you.
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Hi Steve.

I recently got into a new relationship with the best friend of my ex’s brother that I am still close with.

My ex still hasn’t moved on for me and even confessed to still having feelings for me when he bumped into me at my job. When I professed to moving on, he seemed disheartened.

My problem is that I got invited to the wedding of my ex’s sister and already rsvp’d with my bf to attend the ceremony but knowing my ex will be there, would it still be a good idea to go considering his brother is the one that invited me?

Thanks!

Comment: This got a tad confusing, but I think I get it. You have a new boyfriend, you rsvp’d to your ex’s sister’s wedding, and you want to bring your new bf, even though your ex will be there, right? I mean, the decision is yours if you want to go. Yes, it’ll be a little awkward, but that’s because your ex isn’t over you. If you think by the time the wedding rolls around he can man up and be an adult about it, then go. But ask the sister if she thinks it’s a good idea to go with your new bf without her brother pouting like a baby. See what she says then make your decision from there.
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  1. randais

    May 8, 2013 at 4:35 PM

    I’ve been busting butt to get caught up on everything and here I go….
    **The Following**
    Parker’s dead :(, boo. I always want the good guys to win.
    **TAR**
    The boys won! Good for them.
    **REVENGE**
    This is getting a bit vague, I think. I still love this show but I would love a bit more clarity.
    **APPRENTICE**
    Marylou Henner went home.
    **DWTS**
    cc – I agree, his time was up and he was NO dancer.
    **THE VOICE**
    Talent overload! I really enjoy this show.
    **SMASH**
    I don’t think anyone here is still watching this but what a sad episode this week :(. On the up side, I totally LOVED this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3hF79fdQuo&feature=youtu.be

    Survivor tonight and last but certainly NOT least, SYTYCD premiere’s next week!

    Did I miss anything?

  2. kasey31

    May 8, 2013 at 5:12 PM

    Elizabeth, that’s my theory, too.. she’s the last one to be with him, and there is no way he could have been anymore vulnerable than in a shower, after being intimate with someone, and she knew that was her time to strike.. but to answer your question (sorry I thought your question was different), no it will not impact the penalty phase. there is no division between felony murder and pre meditated murder, the punishments are one and the same.. and if anything, the penalty should now be harsher bc what the jurors are basically saying is not only do we believe she pre meditated the killing, but we also believe the killing was a precursor to the felony.. therefore, making it more heinous..

    she has 3 options now: life without parole, life with parole, and the death penalty..

    tomorrow is part 2 (the aggravation phase), and the prosecutor must prove that Jodi’s murder was cruel and heinous in nature and that she knew what she was doing would cause the victim to suffer.. if the jury finds her guilty of that, it immediately moves into the penalty phase, and it’s the defense’s opportunity to plead for Jodi’s life (she has no criminal background, etc), have Jodi make a statement on why she should not receive the dp, and have her family make statements, as well.. then the jury deliberates again and decides whether or not to give her the dp or life without parole, and the decision must be unanimous.. if the jury is deadlocked, a new jury will decide that part of the trial only… if they agree on the dp, she immediately is sent to death row..

    if the jury finds it was not cruel or heinous, the judge will sentence her to either life with the possibility of parole after 25yrs, or life without parole, after hearing victim impact statements.. but that probably wouldn’t be for like a month or so…

    I have a feeling the jury will come back guilty on the aggravated circumstances tomorrow, though..

  3. kasey31

    May 8, 2013 at 5:15 PM

    as for the dp? I believe that is in God’s hands.. whatever the jury decides, I will accept.. I am just so thankful they reached a verdict that was fair and just.. like I said before, no one wins in this case, really.

  4. kasey31

    May 8, 2013 at 5:19 PM

    ^^obviously I meant the felony was a precursor to the killing.

  5. elizabeth82

    May 8, 2013 at 5:40 PM

    Thanks, kasey31. I’m seeing now part of an interview Jodi Arias did right after the verdict . . . She says she wants the DP because she thinks she’d live a long time and “death is the ultimate freedom.” Not if you kill someone it isn’t! She would have to face consequences in the afterlife for her heinous crime, IMO.

    I too think that the jury will find this a heinous, aggravated murder. How could they not now that they’ve decided she premeditated it? Her act of murder included overkill, she wanted him to suffer, and it was merciless.

  6. kasey31

    May 8, 2013 at 9:24 PM

    100% agree, Elizabeth.. you know, the tough part for me is whether or not to believe ANYTHING that comes out of her mouth now, u know? how coincidental that she happens to say that right before the aggravated phase.. I almost think that she is saying that thinking the jury will sentence her to lwop bc she is claiming to want the opposite.. did travis have a choice in whether or not he wanted to live? no, he certainly didn’t.. it’s all about her, and this interview goes to prove that.. again, she speaks of no one but herself until point-blank asked about it.. still, no apologies.. what she did was absolutely heinous, merciless, and cruel.. the horror he must have experienced is unthinkable.. the jury will probably take about 10mins deciding that part.. I think the dp and lwop is what they may not agree on..

  7. Sunnyside422

    May 9, 2013 at 6:50 AM

    I have not been following the trial…just everyone’s comments on it. All I can say is WOW…that woman is wacko!! And hopefully she will never see the light of day.

    IDOL
    I will be so sad if Kree goes. Am so involved this year…never missed a show…and from the original audition, have been a Kree fan! Candice is an awesome singer and probably will win. Angie is all about postering for the camera and the audience and she seems to be screeching and screaming a lot more. But I will say all 3 are very special in their own way. If anyone wants to see and listen to their performance songs, they are all up on Youtube. Since I really like Kree, I have been listening to her version of Stormy Weather, Crying and Have You Ever Been In Love. I just think she is very genuine. Loved when the violin player fist bumped her after her song…first time any of the musicians acknowledged any of the singers.

    Oh, Harry Connick Jr. was on Ellen yesterday and was asked if he wanted to be a judge on Idol. He said he had not been contacted by the show contrary to internet comments and he was not sure how good a judge he would be. I’d really enjoy him as a judge and please eliminate Nicki!

  8. iheartvino

    May 9, 2013 at 12:57 PM

    Regarding who Des picks, I’m still hoping that it’s Brooks, because I would like to see either Chris or Drew as next Bachelor. Purely based on their photos, of course. (nope that doesn’t make me shallow, not at all! haha)

    *Idol*
    I haven’t been watching much this season at all, but I did catch about 15 min of last night’s episode, including the quick recaps at the end and from what I saw, Candice and Angie did better than Kree. Does anyone else think that Kree looks a lot like Shenae (sp?) Grimes, or Annie on 90210? All three seem to have amazing voices though. I usually end up watching the finale every year, even if I haven’t seen much of the season.

  9. ccrider

    May 9, 2013 at 1:32 PM

    iheart…..do you watch 90210?

  10. randais

    May 9, 2013 at 1:57 PM

    Sunny – I was a complete Kree fan originally but the tables have turned. Candice has surpassed her and at this point, I can’t see Kree winning 🙁 but I think they are all exceptional and Candice is a remarkable talent.

  11. iheartvino

    May 9, 2013 at 2:40 PM

    ccrider- yep, sadly I do!! I don’t know why I still watch it, as bad as it’s been the past two seasons. I guess I’m just curious to see how it all ends, since the series finale is coming up soon. I need to catch up though- I think I’m two episodes behind.

  12. karynr

    May 10, 2013 at 5:01 AM

    *Arias*
    kasey..thanks for the youtube video. She is one manipulative sicko. She is determined to manipulate her way through this horror show. And I can’t believe the embarassment of a sheriff in AZ., Joe Arpaio, isn’t jumping on the media bandwagon. That’s so unlike him!

    *Idol*
    I cried my way through two nights of Idol this week. I never knew Cree’s history and really respect the fact that they didn’t dramatize it all season. I really like Angie, but hope she learned a lot the past few months. She has everything it takes and just needs to lose herself in the music more, and not play to the cameras as much. The Pink song she sang the other night won’t stop running through my mind. It’s really good. I’m of the generation where classic rock (Eagles, Billy Joel, Janis Joplin, etc.) are more my thing, but that is a great song!

    *The Voice*
    I just started watching this last season and it’s really grown on me! I like Shakira and Usher a lot more than Christina and Celo. They seem a little more down-to-earth.

  13. ccrider

    May 10, 2013 at 5:57 AM

    iheart…..I was a big BH 90210 fan back in the day so when the new 90210 started then it was just natural for me to watch it also. I agree though….it’s gone a little downhill recently but, like you, I have to see it through to the end. I’m all caught up on it so I won’t say anything more. 🙂

    Happy Friday everyone!!

  14. Sunnyside422

    May 10, 2013 at 6:38 AM

    Have to admit I was doing a happy dance at the IDOL finals! Way to go Kree. Both Candice and Kree seem so genuine and sweet so either one winning will be fine with me (tho I hope it is Kree).

    Angie was all about herself (I felt). Just too interested in the camera, batting those huge eyes. Never connected with her at all, but I am sure she will be commercial for someone.

    Both Candice and Kree have amazing back stories and being humble is not a bad thing!

  15. jazzmine

    May 10, 2013 at 9:17 AM

    Harry Connick, Jr?! Mmmmmm….. yummy.
    Someone mentioned Marilu Henner? She must be trying a comeback phase, in that I’m pretty sure she was on 2 1/2 Men last night.

  16. iheartvino

    May 10, 2013 at 11:01 AM

    *Bev Hills 90210*
    ccrider, I was the same! I’ll admit that I had the Bev Hills 90210 posters that I tore out from YM and Teen magazines in junior high hanging on my bedroom wall. Kelly and Dylan were my favorite characters and I couldn’t stand Donna or Andrea. Watched it all the way through every season and remember watching the finale with some girlfriends my senior yr of college. good times.

    *The Voice*
    Karyn, I like The Voice so much better than Idol. I love the concept of the singers having a coach and seeing them all the way through. I find myself caring a lot more about what happens on the Voice than on Idol. The Voice just seems much more personal to me. Having Adam and Blake on there to look at regularly is a plus too! 🙂

    *Revenge*
    Everyone ready for the finale? I’m going to have to remember to not look at any social media on Sun. night because the majority of my friends live in TX and I know they’re going to be posting about who dies and I don’t want to know ahead of time. I’m really starting to think it might be Jack or Nolan. I hope it’s neither one!!

  17. kasey31

    May 10, 2013 at 10:59 PM

    sunny, whacko is right!

    karynr, you’re welcome! thought that video was a light-hearted comic relief to a very tragic situation.. and you’re so right about everything u said.. i don’t think i’ve seen anyone more manipulative in my life.. dare i say, even more so than casey anthony?

    iheart, im ready.. i think?! i’m hoping it’s not jack or nolan either, but i have a terrible feeling that it might be one of them.. one of the original cast members? hopefully it’s ashley- no offense, ash! lol… and the voice, seriously LOVE this show.. love adam, blake, and i really like the addition of shakira and usher, too..

    randais, what did u think of the season finale of the following??

    **random**
    are anyone else’s comments being auto-corrected on this site? i don’t like it! haha.. i have red lines all over this comment..

  18. karynr

    May 12, 2013 at 5:54 AM

    Happy Mothere’s Day!!!!

  19. Sunnyside422

    May 12, 2013 at 10:52 AM

    And back at cha Karynr and every other mother on this board! Mother is the best title ever.

    So anxious for Revenge to air tonight.

  20. Sunnyside422

    May 13, 2013 at 8:00 AM

    So it was Declan…my guess. Stands to reason. He wasn’t shown often enough to make any impact.

    Surprised about Takata (sp) though. Somehow I don’t think we have seen the last of Aiden.

  21. allybow

    May 13, 2013 at 8:12 AM

    Wow! Revenge did not disappoint! I am looking forward to next season!!

  22. iheartvino

    May 13, 2013 at 5:06 PM

    *Revenge* (Spoilers if you haven’t watched yet..)

    I have mixed feelings about last night’s finale. If you compare it to 99% of the other shows out there, then yeah, the finale was great and didn’t disappoint. But if you compare it to season one’s finale, it fell WAY short. To be fair, I wasn’t expecting it to be as good as the season one finale- I mean how could that be topped? But, still, I definitely think it was overhyped and like usual they saved the majority of the important stuff for the final 10-15 min.

    I think the finale was MUCH better than the rest of the season though, and I’ll definitely be watching in the fall to see what happens next. I really hope they pay a tribute to Declan’s death and pick up right where it left off. I felt a little cheated that we didn’t at least get to see Charlotte’s reaction. I also hope Daniel didn’t kill Aiden, although if he did, that would definitely make Emily want to have even more revenge against the Graysons. What did everyone else thing?

    *24!!!!!*
    I’m sooooo happy that 24 is coming back next year. I’m a little nervous about the new format and wonder if it will be as good now that it won’t be in its original format of one 24 hr period = one season, but I’ll definitely watch anyway.

  23. iheartvino

    May 13, 2013 at 5:07 PM

    Ugh *think, not thing.

  24. allybow

    May 13, 2013 at 6:48 PM

    I like Revenge so much because it set up strong story lines for each character. I feel like season 3 will be so interesting because each of the characters story linea can stand on its own. It was left open for lots of drama

  25. rob22

    May 14, 2013 at 11:07 AM

    Two weeks and The Bachelorette is on. Is RS going to have his spoilers up by then? Tick-Toc

  26. rollingeyes

    May 14, 2013 at 1:15 PM

    I’m seeing on other sites that Brooks Forester is Des’ Final One. Where I’m not seeing it is on Reality Steve’s site. I’m not seeing ANYTHING new on Reality Steve’s site. RS can’t say he spoiled it first.

  27. kasey31

    May 14, 2013 at 7:45 PM

    rollingeyes, same here..ive heard from a lot of different places that brooks is the f1? still am not confident until i hear from steve, but still.. i guess if it were to continue for a few more seasons, then it might be safe to assume that others are getting spoilers, too.. other sites also had the f4 before rs posted them, as well.. but i still have faith in steve.. hopefully he posts something soon..

    **revenge**
    iheart, ok.. everyone is going to start thinking we are the same person.. there has to be something we disagree on here soon! i was very disappointed with the season finale of revenge, as well : ( i think the problem is that season 1 was so amazing, in its simplicity, that the creator, writers, etc, tried too hard to add depth to a storyline that didn’t need the extra fluff.. it actually caused more confusion than anything else.. season 2 had so many loose ends that were never tied up, and i had hoped that in the season finale, we would have clarity to a lot of the chaos that came out of the second season.. killing off declan seemed a bit desperate to me, to be honest.. like u said, no tribute to such an important character throughout this show? even amanda’s death was more emotional than that.. not sure what to make of the show right now or the direction it’s headed down..

    i miss the formula that worked so well in season 1.. it was epic.. intelligent, suspenseful, but it maintained simplicity that was so powerful and riveting without having an overly complicated storyline. like u said, compared to other shows, it was good. but something was lacking in season 2, and idk what it was.. i only know that it really left me disappointed bc i truly LOVED this show initially.

  28. kasey31

    May 14, 2013 at 8:04 PM

    iheart, we can totally pretend to disagree about something.. lets get into a fake fight ; )

  29. iheartvino

    May 14, 2013 at 9:36 PM

    Kasey, you know what they say– great minds!! 🙂 we do seem to share a lot of the same views on shows but I think we had different predictions on who Des picked- you said Chris (I think?) and I said Brooks. So there’s something!!

  30. kasey31

    May 14, 2013 at 9:54 PM

    is anyone else getting the “well this is embarrassing.. we can’t seem to find what you’re looking for” page when they try to log in? what a weird statement for a site error.. i kind of want to comment back to it, “no, steve, what’s embarrassing is that u haven’t had any spoilers for us in like 2 weeks” haha

    jk, steve! ; ) i’m sure they’re coming soon!

  31. kasey31

    May 14, 2013 at 9:57 PM

    iheart, true!! can we fake fight about it? btw, that smiley face scares me.. please don’t do that again.. haha.. <3

  32. iheartvino

    May 14, 2013 at 10:03 PM

    Kasey That sounds like something I’d say. (Big surprise there lol) too funny. And I’m not sure what’s creepier, the wink or the smiley face.

    But in all seriousness, I have faith that Steve will come through with the other spoilers soon. I’m still counting on Brooks as F1, but only bc I find Chris and Drew more attractive and would rather see one of them as the next Bachelor!

  33. karynr

    May 15, 2013 at 5:40 AM

    *DWTS/SYTYCD/The Voice*
    Last night was so much fun……DWTS, SYTYCD and The Voice….I’m on talent overload! I usually tape one or more, so I’m not locked into watching immediately, but thoroughly enjoyed soaking in all that big talent!

  34. rob22

    May 15, 2013 at 7:38 AM

    Last article was up 4/24. Three weeks! Last time RS said we should get on the Twitter feed to get more real time updates. Well, I did that. Not much there other than musings about the bios and questionaires on the ABC site…. oh, and a comment about the fact that “24” is coming back. RS is really behind the eight ball. It just might be time to come back from vacation.

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