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The Bachelorette 10 - Andi

Exclusive Video of Andi’s Final Two Guy Dishing on the Season

Jason Mesnick’s season was the first time I’d ever had a spoiler told to me, and that was back in 2009. Since then, every season I seem to get more and more information given to me, and my track record has proven pretty successful in covering the last 11 seasons this franchise has thrown at us. It really has been a case of the site has gotten bigger and bigger every season to the point where people randomly send me stuff every season that ends up being true. I can’t explain it, I never know where it’s coming from, I just know it’s coming. So once I get it all together, I lay it out in episode-by-episode form for you. Problem is I can never show the evidence of how, why, or where I know these things because usually it’s something that’s just told or texted to me, and could compromise a source. You just have to take my word for it, and I’m vindicated once the episode airs.

Until now…

So lets just get right to it. I’ll show you the videos, the transcription is underneath each one (the best I could), and afterwards we’ll get into what this all means. What you are about to see is video taken on last Sunday night (hence my tweet at the time) May 11th two days after the final rose ceremony took place. Nick Viall was on US Airways flight 3837 from Charlotte to Milwaukee with a scheduled departure at 7:44pm that arrived in Milwaukee at 8:46pm. Nick is talking on the phone to someone – and loud. The first video is him giving his opinion of Josh Murray, and the second video (a bit longer) is him discussing his time with Andi on the show. I’ve never had something this revealing before, and I doubt I ever will again. Enjoy…

“Yeah, like, Josh won’t say sh*t. Like, he’ll do whatever she wants. He’s not that…he didn’t open up, he just kinda…he just eats, sleeps, and sh*ts and like, has a bad temper, and…you know, and…I mean, he’s really competitive yeah…he’s super emotional, he’s really insecure, and…ummmm, and he uhhhhh….it uhhhhhh….(pause to stuff his face with Cheetos)…and ummm…forgot what I was gonna say…oh and he’s incredibly set in his ways…”

The first :20 seconds or so of this video were tough to make out due to surrounding noise but it didn’t seem like he said anything too revealing. But then it got good…

:23-34“Because I sensed it throughout the whole thing…and I kept saying to her ‘I can’t wait til we’re in the real world…can’t wait til we get to do this stuff…we just go to, like, K-Mart and just chill…and don’t even have to worry about the this other stuff, you know?'”

:36-:50“And I just kept saying it, just cuz I wanted…you know…and I said to her, I’m like ‘You don’t think I…’ and then, you know, instead of arguing with her I said, ‘You know what? I disagree.’ And I just left it at that…You know, I didn’t try to change her mind, I’m just like, ‘I disagree.'”

1:05-1:48“But she won’t…it’s ok. I mean…for someone (inaudible)…it’s actually happened once….ummmm, it was the guy with the girl. The guy changed his mind. They’re actually (inaudible) and now they’re still married. But, ummm…she’s incredibly stubborn (looks at woman to his left who thinks he’s talking to loud. Hey, talk as loud as you want Nick. This is gold!)…ummm, she’s incredibly stubborn, and if someone is passive aggressive and bottles it up, it probably…you know what I’m sayin?”

1:52“Oh, loved em.’ Love, love, loved her family. Great relationship with both her parents…”

2:06-2:40“We just…we just clicked…I mean, it was so funny because throughout the season, she had…I had her meet some of my friends (he’s talking about the hometown date of course since that’d be the only time she could meet his friends) and they asked her ‘What is it’ and she said, one of the first things she said to me, she’s like, ‘This is so easy with you…’…she’s like, ‘This is so easy with you…’ And ironically, she’s basically saying, ‘It’s too hard. I can’t do this.’ You know, which, really wasn’t……27 (he must’ve just been asked her age)…she’s basically like, ‘I’m scared sh*tless.'”

(Pause to chow down on more Cheetos)…

2:48-3:00“No, nope, ummmm, I mean, she went back to what she’s used to…I mean, I don’t know how else to…I mean again…actions speak louder than words, like, I don’t know what else to say other than, like, it seemed like she really changed her mind, like, at the last moment.”


Nice duds Nick. If it wasn’t bad enough you couldn’t wait to get home and take this girl of your dreams to K-Mart, but now you’re rockin’ the blue capri’s and a shirt with stars on it? Did you dress in the dark that morning? Holy moly. I know you were probably flying all day, leaving Dominican Republic and either straight to Charlotte (or into Miami, then Charlotte), but damn. Capri’s? Blue? A fashion maven you are not. Since this was the last leg of his flight, that’s why his handler wasn’t with him.

So what do these videos show us?

-Nick Viall on a plane back to his hometown 2 days after the final rose ceremony took place.
-Nick admitting he met Andi’s parents, which means he was in the final 2 since only the final two guys meet the parents.
-Nick having very strong opinions about Josh, “He won’t say sh*t,” “He’ll do whatever she wants,” “He didn’t open up…he has a bad temper…he’s super emotional, he’s really insecure…he’s incredibly set in his ways…”
-Nick recalling a conversation with Andi saying he didn’t try to change her mind and saying “I disagree.” Also recalls a former season (Jason’s), where the guy chooses the girl in the end but changes his mind saying, “But she won’t…it’s ok.” Obviously the person on the other end asked him something to the effect of “Do you think she’ll change her mind?”
-Sums up his time with Andi with, “Basically she’s saying, ‘It’s too hard. I can’t do this.’
-Then for good measure, ends his call with, “I don’t know what else to say…other than it seemed like she really changed her mind at the last moment.”

So at the very minimum, here’s your proof that Andi didn’t pick Nick (and lets be thankful she didn’t because, c’mon, K-MART? Really? That’s where you couldn’t wait to take her?). It’s clear as day. And Nick spends an awful lot of time either referencing Josh directly, or that Andi “went back to what she’s used to.” Do you really think Nick is spending time talking about Josh if he finished 3rd or 4th? Please. Marcus went home after the hometown dates. Hell, I knew that two days after I had taken those pictures of his hometown date at Highland Park Village. So if you want to spend the next two months thinking that maybe, hopefully, somehow, some way there’s a chance that Andi actually picked CHRIS over Nick, and that Josh was the one that came in third, well, what an utter waste of time. Like I said, the spoilers I gave you up to the final four on May 8th were right, and the spoilers of the final four breakdown I gave you on May 13th were right. Andi is engaged to Josh. This is just some extra proof for you in case you weren’t convinced.

But hey, lets say you’re STILL not convinced for God knows what reason. The best part about this is at the very least, when the overnight dates episode airs on July 14th (unless they switch it with the “Men Tell All” like they did for Des’ season), and you see Chris get sent home at the end of that episode, then they can’t really hide the fact that Nick and Josh are your final two, can they? So even if you’re trying to find a way where she picked Chris over Nick and Josh finished 3rd, on July 14th (two weeks before the finale) you’ll know who Andi chose since at that point Nick and Josh will be her final two, and you now have video of Nick saying everything he did on the plane flight home after filming ended which solidifies she certainly didn’t pick him.

Man, it’s obvious by these videos that Nick just doesn’t get it. I don’t think he’s too familiar with the show. He’s acting like he’s the first person ever to get dumped at the end and was made to believe he was gonna be picked. Nick, it’s called acting. Same song and dance every year. The final two person is blindsided and never saw it coming even though they were told things that made them believe they were gonna be picked. Nick, EVERY lead has to tell you things you want to hear and make you think you’re the one for them. What’d you expect? For Andi to have her arms folded on every date with you and talking about Josh the whole time? There’d be no show to air if the lead only acted like they liked one person because we’d all see it. Sorry you didn’t comprehend that, but you’re now only the 28th person who got taken to the end only to get dumped. She told you she liked you, she told you it was easy with you, she told you all the things you want to hear because she has a show to put on. I’m not saying she never liked you, but to act so surprised that she chose someone else, well, I guess Nick is a bit of a virgin when it comes to this show.

This season I’ve gotten quite a few more exclusives than in season’s past, like pictures from three of the four hometown dates, but I never would’ve expected this in a million years, and I doubt I’ll get anything like this in the future either. Totally random. Pure luck. But hey, I’ll take it. There’s been quite a few things over the years I could’ve backed up with proof, but it might’ve put my sources in a compromising position. If I had proof of say, Craig going home in episode 2, would I share that? No, because frankly no one would care. Since this one was about the ending of the season, and the video evidence couldn’t be any more clear, I figured I’d share it. All the other endings to seasons I’ve gotten right, I’ve always had strong evidence to back it up, but nothing I felt comfortable sharing publicly, so I just give you the spoiler and was content with letting the episode air to be vindicated. I could’ve done the same this season, however, these videos were too good not to post. I knew Andi had chosen Josh about 4 hours before I got this information. This just was just the icing on the cake. I think people realize that any information they give me is safe because I’ve never revealed my sources and never will. So because of instances like this, going forward every season until this show goes off the air, I will continue to spoil it and as you can see, there’s really not a whole hell of a lot they can do about it.


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  1. bigfatwoman

    May 19, 2014 at 8:39 AM

    KABOOM is right Steve…..kudos to the person who filmed this and passed it on.

    I don’t mind Nick’s outfit and I don’t mind what he had to say. It sounds like he genuinely had feelings for Andi and he didn’t disparage her in any way.

    Now I can watch him over the season and see if his personality backs up his words and if Josh is really the detached person that Nick perceives.

    If Nick is naive about the show and feeling mystified by Andi’s change of heart — then bravo to him. That is endearing.

  2. angelfish

    May 19, 2014 at 9:13 AM

    That was AWESOME! Ok, maybe not for Nick, but absolutely cool to watch & hear straight from one of the lovetestants.

    Pretty classy to not trash anybody involved, despite the final result. He definitely seems like a nice guy, so I hope he eventually finds a nice girl that won’t find it difficult.

    It’s understandable that she would have felt that while being with him part was easy, the letting him go part was hard. That’s how it should be.

  3. jacquibk

    May 19, 2014 at 9:16 AM

    Well, he did trash josh a little, but I chalk it up to sour grapes. I am happy that this is all it was! Good work, Steve!!!

  4. sizzlin857

    May 19, 2014 at 9:25 AM

    WOW! What a solidifying proof! Thanks for sharing! Hopefully Nick will find a nice girl, he sounds deserving!

  5. marybods

    May 19, 2014 at 10:29 AM

    Kaboom is right.
    I believe k-mart is where nick bought his outfit.

  6. paisley17

    May 19, 2014 at 12:08 PM

    so does this guy have a shot at being the next bachelor? or will it only be either marcus or chris?

  7. karynr

    May 19, 2014 at 12:09 PM

    Thanks RS! That is some good stuff! Nick seems like a pretty nice person and definitely has some class. Even the harshest things he said about Josh weren’t bad at all. It’ll be interesting to watch both of them this season.

    It sounds like Nick really liked Andi’s family. I am really looking forward to seeing more Hy this season!

    If I had to sit on a plane for hours I’d want to be dressed just like Nick. Comfort is the name of the game on a long flight!

  8. harley05

    May 19, 2014 at 12:15 PM

    This is GREAT! While he seems a bit on the jibberish side, I bet he is more “real world/real life” than this Josh is – who is obviously living off of his brother’s fame. From what we know of Andi and everything that’s been leaked about her past dating profile, she appears to be a gold digger and a wannabe socialite. She couldn’t achieve those goals with a guy like Nick from the Midwest.
    I personally think Nick is better off!! And I agree with most of the above comments that if he had never really watched the show in the past, then his raw emotion or conversation in these videos just shows how real he is and that he was falling for her – hook, line and sinker. He deserves better. While his outfit is loud, I do not agree with RS’s tactics with ripping Nick apart… He lives in Chicago which is a melting pot of all kinds of fashion statements. Not to mention his line about K-Mart is obviously a metaphor for just living in the real world… From everything we know about him it’s highly unlikely he actually “hangs out at” the big K. Way to be all Judgy Steve

  9. fieldofdreamz

    May 19, 2014 at 1:02 PM

    Is it just me or did it seem like he knew he was being filmed? He appeared to turn back a few times to make sure he was being filmed.

  10. c104

    May 19, 2014 at 1:29 PM

    ^^ Yep. Everything about it looks like a set up. Even the capris.

  11. angelfish

    May 19, 2014 at 1:53 PM

    So upon closer inspection of the last few photos, it looks like his pants are a nylon, athletic-type, pull on pant, with the legs rolled up. They look about 2 sizes too small. I was kinda wondering where men could even buy capri pants. Besides “Forever 21”, of course. *LOL*

    I don’t know if he was looking to his left because he knew he ws being filmed, or just seeing if he was talking too loud and disturbing someone. Though I couldn’t tell if somebody was sitting on his left.

  12. amyirenie

    May 19, 2014 at 2:16 PM


  13. tuttle

    May 19, 2014 at 2:17 PM

    It validates your prediction but as you said more icing then bomb because you already knew who won before you got this info.

    I’m not sure what you think Nick is supposed to get? The guy got 2nd place, who’s he supposed to be happy for? I find it a lot easier to believe that Andi chickened out and went with a safe pick rather then her being some great actress and fooling all these guys.

  14. rob22

    May 19, 2014 at 6:02 PM

    Better double check your source RS. You don’t want to get MF’d again.

  15. penguinfan01

    May 19, 2014 at 6:18 PM

    I’m curious about something, isn’t he supposed to be confidential. I mean didn’t he sign a non disclosure document and there he is blabbing away to someone. Will he get in a jam for this? Or is it possible that this is all a set up like someone said? I guess we will have to wait and see. I kind of figured Andi would pick Josh though, he seems like a down to earth, fun loving guy that she would like. Don’t the others always trash the winner every season, nothing new there. Anyhow, good luck to all of them. Nice work Steve no matter how you get your information, I’m glad we get to benefit from it. Keep up the good work.

  16. angelsbbfan

    May 19, 2014 at 7:02 PM

    THAT is amazing. I love knowing what’s going to happen before the show starts. It will be fun to watch how she acts with Josh throughout the season.
    Thanks for the info Steve.

  17. flightgirl

    May 19, 2014 at 7:43 PM

    Great video. Hah. Just looked up the final four. Chris is gorgeous. She made the right choice for herself though. Andi and Josh seem like a good match.

  18. flightgirl

    May 19, 2014 at 7:46 PM

    Maybe Nick had to borrow clothes from his handler.

  19. kasey31

    May 20, 2014 at 1:33 AM

    Wow. Nice work, Steve, thanks for sharing this with us. How in the world you get this stuff we’ll never know, but that’s why you do what you do so well, and I’m just glad you shared it bc this was really cool to watch.

    I totally agree with most of you who perceive Nick to be a nice guy who genuinely cares for Andi based on this video, but I’m sure he’ll have no problems meeting women after this. If this is how he is when cameras aren’t around (or are and he doesn’t realize they are haha), I can’t imagine a total change of character on the show. I almost wouldn’t believe it bc he still seems so nice, even at his lowest point in the process of the whole thing.
    I don’t blame him for calling and wanting to vent about what happened, this was probably his first opportunity to talk to someone. And I’m impressed that throughout the convetsation, he didn’t curse once.
    But I do wonder how ABC will react to this video? Will Nick get in trouble? Steve usually says the runner-up rarely is chosen as the lead, but if he was well liked, I wonder if this could effect his chances of becoming the next Bachelor?

    And no, he doesn’t seem like he thinks or has any clue he’s being filmed. You can hear in his voice the typical fluctuation you’d expect to hear when he’s reflecting on his experiences with her, good and bad, and how he’s talking about how he feels. The genuine nature of what he’s saying and how he’s saying it does not sound contrived at all- Even the normal breaks and pauses one takes from being interrupted with questions by the person on the other end, or just being distracted is too real to fake here. The sound and audio would be much clearer too.

    Anyway, what a piece of gold for Steve and props to whoever thought to record it. It just shows most people don’t read spoilers or others would have done the same thing, which is probably why he felt safe. I wouldn’t think anyone would know who I was either if the show hadn’t began airing, and if I wasn’t familiar with the show and the spoilers.
    Regardless of all that, so glad it was shared! Thanks, Steve!

  20. jacey

    May 20, 2014 at 4:25 AM

    Caught the rose ceremony. That is one odd looking group of men. And some of them, including the lawyer — what was his name? Rudy — and the guy she gave the 1st impression rose to are just plain creepy. Haven’t skipped an entire season since Emily’s, but I think I might have to sit this one out. Andi deserved a better.

  21. susan820

    May 20, 2014 at 6:32 AM

    Maybe Nick is wearing Andi’s capris.

  22. texas

    May 20, 2014 at 7:32 AM

    I just want to know how whoever took the video held their phone/camera so still. It’s perfectly still and level the whole time. My videos always come out shakey. Even if my phone was propped up on my knee or on a bag on my lap, there’s no way I could hold it that still, especially if I was trying to not be obviously filming someone.

  23. angelfish

    May 20, 2014 at 7:42 AM

    Maybe the stealth filmer had her tray table up and in a locked postition, to rest her camera on. Assuming it was a woman. Maybe it was a guy who just wanted to know where he got those pants. *LOL*

  24. deperlee

    May 20, 2014 at 9:01 AM

    …yea I’m on team suspicious on this one. Seems like too much of an easy thing. I wouldn’t have known who this guy was even if I was reading the spoilers so I wouldn’t have known to pay attention to his conversation. After all, this was filmed even before the premiere of the show. Granted a super fan might already have the faces of the guys memorized but doesn’t this guy look a bit different then his press photo?

    More importantly, does anyone think Josh Murray looks like a young (and tall) Mark Cuban?

  25. thedoctor

    May 20, 2014 at 9:39 AM

    What a snooze-fest last night. Granted I ff’ed about 90% of the show, but as soon as I got a bit bored ff.

    The whole Chris B episode was so fake it was pathetic. He camped out for 7 days since he did not know when filming would start? He just needed to read Reality Steve.

  26. paisley17

    May 20, 2014 at 10:09 AM

    standard first episode. it was OK. i read one recap that called josh “crazy eyes” and that made me laugh.

  27. cablonde888

    May 20, 2014 at 3:24 PM

    Hi Reality Steve. This is my first time posting. I want to let you know I am a huge fan of you and your site. I have been visiting your site for quite some time now, and I finally decided to give you some love. I am a person who loves spoilers more than most people, I also enjoy a good blog. I enjoy and relate to your sarcastic personality. I really think in real life you and I would be friends because most of the time you write what I think while watching the show and how ridiculous most of it is. I laugh out loud, literally, (not just LOL) at your posts. You are totally hilarious. I also want to know when you’re going to fill us in on the juicy details from Courtney’s books?! I hope you get a chance to read this comment RS! Anyway, keep up the good work, I look forward to reading your posts every week. Thanks!

  28. flightgirl

    May 21, 2014 at 3:07 AM

    I don’t think it was that the person who recorded this recognized Nick, but after hearing him loudly talk about his experience put two and two together and knew he was part of the show! Such as “The hometown date was fun, my family loved her” or “We went to Brazil, China and Spain (Or wherever)” or “I ditched my handler and finally got into some comfy clothes”

  29. dumber4it

    May 21, 2014 at 9:39 AM

    You know – I really think “Reality Steve” serves a bigger purpose. Let’s all just cut to the chase – What dude/dudette is main person (bachelor/bachelorette) going to end up picking? If any… And what person are they going to dump shortly after season ends? So happy for the ones who do break the mold, actually GET married, procreate, live seemingly happy lives together. We don’t sit glued to T.V. every week to see the shenanigans but it’s an escape of sorts for us normal people. On this Andi gal; I was so very!!! happy when she put the tool Waun P. in his place. (YOU GO GIRL!!). I was baffled by how long it took her…. Seriously, if it takes a Reality Show to find YOU love then perhaps one needs to reflect on yourself as a person? Fame is not what is cracked up to be. 🙂 Andi seems like such a smart “catch” with a good foundation of moral thought. Her life as a Prosecutor could not be easy to leave nor continue in a serious fashion? Thanks Real Steve for breaking it down. 🙂

  30. dumber4it

    May 21, 2014 at 9:43 AM

    Sorry – One more suggestion to Real Steve. Perhaps your site could add a “like” button? Perhaps you may garner more traffic your way. Again, I do like that you are able to break it down, cut to the chase, for fo

  31. dumber4it

    May 21, 2014 at 9:45 AM

    Sorry again – Site had a hick-up. “..cut to the chase, for us.”

  32. umanyways

    May 27, 2014 at 6:31 AM

    It’s amazing how naive tools these dudes are every season. Better than bachelor seasons because the female contestants have watched the show. These guys are not fans of the show or even Andi they just like TNA, beer & sports.

  33. umanyways

    May 27, 2014 at 6:35 AM

    Josh M his face is so intense. It’s like American Dad on steroids. He always looks like he’s gonna shoot you.

  34. umanyways

    May 27, 2014 at 6:41 AM

    Marcus is totally gonna be the next bachelor. Imagine how insanely attractive would bachelor pad seasons would be with all these gym rats all in there? And the chaos!! More drunk Craig!

  35. ssherlowsky

    July 1, 2014 at 2:32 PM

    lol I live in milwaukee theres like 2 kmarts left so id guess he would have to take her to walmart!

  36. elanarab

    July 6, 2014 at 8:15 PM

    It’s just a little unbelievable that someone recognized him even before the show first aired. That’s amazing.

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