Reality Steve

Ben’s Girls


16. Lindsey Cox: 27, Clovis, Ca, the girl circled in the group picture from Puerto Rico, graduated Fresno St. University majoring in public relations, worked at Savvy Salon in Clovis, CA, and is the girl that rides in on the horse on the first night.

Nicki Sterling: 26, North Richland Hills, Tx, dental hygienist, graduated Texas A&M in 2007, divorced within the last year (maiden name Nicki Felix).

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  1. Dawn

    September 21, 2011 at 9:12 AM

    Thanks for the info Steve. I am so excited to see the rest of the girls… and to start reading all your spoilers.

    I just checked out Elyse’s twitter and it is now shut down. Erica’s probably won’t be shut down since it is the misschicago twitter and not her own personal one.
    Okay, I am now trying to submit comment and a screen pops up and tells me I am trying to post comments to quickly and to slow down. WTH?

  2. jlamich

    September 22, 2011 at 11:37 AM

    All brunettes so far…(if Ben prefers them over blondes, would they take his preferences under consideration in the casting process?)

  3. mandisu

    September 23, 2011 at 4:20 PM

    Why did the comment about the ‘blonde, girl to watch’ get deleted?

  4. GracieGray

    September 24, 2011 at 5:58 PM

    Is it just me or does Elyse look just like a brunette Ali?

  5. cangel44

    September 25, 2011 at 10:28 AM

    something tells me that it is a “conflict of interest” for Miss Chicago to be on this show, especially if she makes it to the end to the fantasy suite dates…I would imagine she would not want to be portrayed in a way that someone with that title should not be…I am just saying. =)

  6. locondcoco

    September 26, 2011 at 1:18 PM

    GracieGray- definitely not just you. i thought the exact same when i saw the photo.

  7. realitystevefan

    September 26, 2011 at 8:10 PM

    i totally do not agree with cange144’s and locondcoco’s comments about Miss Chicago being on the show. not understanding what grounds would make it a conflict….just sayin….i am a former beauty queen myself and i feel exactally the opposite. i think it is awesome that a beauty queen is on the show…i can’t wait to watch. beauty queens especially the ones that come through the Miss America Organization are poised, elegant, sophisticated, and brilliant young ladies. My vote is for Miss Chicago all the way and wow isn’t she beautiful!!!!

  8. locondcoco

    September 27, 2011 at 1:12 PM

    @realitystevefan- i was responding to GracieGray’s comment, not cangel44’s.

  9. realitystevefan

    September 27, 2011 at 7:46 PM

    @locondcoco, sorry about that!

  10. cnj123

    September 29, 2011 at 7:02 AM

    Reality Steve,
    hey! I love your blog and have followed for years! The shows would not be the same without you 🙂 I have a question…How sure are you on the actual contestants? What are they allowed to tell friends and family concerning them going on the show? I know you have answered this before but I couldn’t find it in reader emails. Thanks!

  11. sophienettejc

    October 3, 2011 at 4:40 AM

    Check out better angle of Jaclyn on my site 🙂 Just searchh for JACLYN SWARTZ on

  12. AlliCat

    October 13, 2011 at 6:05 AM

    It seems like this season there’s a lot more pageant girl/model-types… Usually there’s all the “nannies” and “entrepreneurs” (and other various code words for “unemployed” or “waitress/bartender”)… Guess they’re just cutting to the chase this time.

  13. jpray

    November 29, 2011 at 9:00 AM

    I like Heather, she just looks so sweet. Maybe a little shy but i like her

  14. curiousblnd

    November 29, 2011 at 12:08 PM

    jpray- As sweet as a 12 yr old. Please.

    RealitySteve or anyone else who knows – Why do these girls do the show? From what I read on the application to be on the show and the contract – abc makes all and any money to be made from the couples tv appearances etc. So they just get the “exposure” is that it ? Thank you in advance – curiousblnd

  15. bunchofhosers

    December 19, 2011 at 11:57 AM

    wow! No shortage of silicone in this group!! All fun and games until someone puts out an eye! What a lame season this will be…thank goodness for RS’s commentary- otherwise wouldn’t even be worth the time to make fun of this joke of a show.

  16. bunchofhosers

    December 19, 2011 at 11:58 AM

    and if Rachel is 27, she’s had a rough paper route! I’m guessing 30s

  17. ceedee

    January 10, 2012 at 1:02 AM

    I am so distracted with Ben’s new “fiancee”. I swear she looks like Russell Brand in drag! ( Maybe this is why Russell Brand and Katy Perry broke up?) Steve, pull up and image of both of them. It just weirds me out to see Ben with Russell.

  18. pinkhalo4

    August 25, 2015 at 1:09 PM

    @cangel I was thinking the same thing about miss Chicago and miss palisades. I’m sure they can be on the show. It I hope that they don’t ruin their reputation on tv. Especially with the heavy editing this show does.
    I don’t like to make judgment calls on them based on the pictures. I wait till the show airs and even then I know the editing is not always favorable. I had never watched an entire season of the bachelor until Chris’ season.only because I get bored of all the crying. But I’m excited to see Ben’s season. I hope the girls aren’t too catty. And I hope he gets a group of great girls. Chris got a good group of girls in his season and Kaitlin got a good group too……. Not all of the guys and girls are great but a good group in the bunch in always a good show. Best of luck to Ben

  19. pinkhalo4

    August 25, 2015 at 1:13 PM

    By the way, do you know when they will start filming?

  20. vessel

    December 23, 2015 at 11:46 AM

    @pinkhalo4 You are on the wrong Ben’s page! These girls were Ben Flajnik’s girls back when he was the Bachelor in 2012! What you want is “Ben H” who is the current Bachelor!

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