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Podcast #206 – Interview with Yosef Aborady’s Ex, Carly Hammond

Needless to say, one of the major talking points coming out of this past Tuesday’s episode was Yosef Aborady’s explosive exit from the show. A week ago, a girl on TikTok used four 1 minute videos to call out Yosef for his f**k boy behavior with her. Those videos were posted the day of Clare’s premiere on Oct. 13th, but it took a week for them to explode on TikTok as last week it started making the rounds everywhere. I had a bunch of people send them to me, I immediately contacted Carly to see its legitimacy, it was confirmed, and I decided to have her on today to tell the full story. Below I’ve provided the TikToks she posted last week along with text messages she shared with me which show some of the receipts from their relationship. The whole thing is sickening and doesn’t look great for Yosef at all. No one is claiming this is some love story gone wrong. We can all see it for what it is. The thing is so many women have come forward to me since March, and now have come forward to Carly since this took off, to share their Yosef stories as well. However, none of them want to have their name out there and be associated with him. But they wanted to show support to Carly, we’ve both seen texts from others proving the legitimacy of their encounters with him. Because the TikTok videos were only 4 minutes total, I wanted to get the full story behind everything and I thank Carly for being the only one to publicly come forward and out Yosef while attaching her name to it and providing receipts.

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(SPOILERS) I begin by discussing last night’s IG live with Ashley Spivey that for whatever reason did not save to my IGTV. Then Carly joins me (6:15) to go over her whirlwind “romance” with “Bachelorette” contestant Yosef Aborady that started last month and abruptly ended after a weekend together Oct. 9th-11th in Florida. We talk about how it started, what they talked about, the weekend in Florida, the racy video he sent her that clearly wasn’t meant for her, and what’s happened since.

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Here are the texts from Yosef. You can see them in the TikTok videos, but just so you don’t have to stop and pause and try and read around her face that might be covering them, here are the relevant ones she posted.

The incriminating texts of what she said to him after she’d received a video on SnapChat of him jerking off that clearly wasn’t meant for her. He claims SnapChat immediately signed him out then unfriended her. Because of course he did. Then he played dumb pretending he didn’t know what he just sent her:

Here he is “apologizing” after the fact, but not for the lewd video he sent that was clearly sent for another girl.  He still has yet to fess up for that.  He’s apologizing for falling asleep in a chair during a weekend where he went to see her:

Yosef admitting that his drinking was too much the weekend he went and saw her:

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  1. keddo

    October 30, 2020 at 9:39 AM

    Carly’s look reminds me of the actor Vanessa Ray, who plays Eddie on Blue Bloods.

  2. vessel

    October 30, 2020 at 10:20 AM

    I think by far the biggest issue with these people is utter stupidity. I have never seen a collection of text messages where nearly every word is misspelled and/or a typo. Did this girl ever spend a day of her life in school? It’s atrocious.

  3. crushonspivey

    October 30, 2020 at 10:25 AM

    The Victim Game is strong with this one. Seems to be the main currency on social media these days, and it is so tiresome. Yeah Yosef was a clown here, but own your part Carly. You were just a spurned Bach Nation groupie, now wanting your 15 seconds. You pursued that dude. Why?

    So sick of victimhood being celebrated when much of it is self-inflicted.

  4. manders16

    October 30, 2020 at 12:11 PM


    Translation: if you’re a woman who returns interest in a man, you must share the moral accountability if he subsequently treats you poorly. Your assumption that attention was this woman’s primary motivation for posting what happened to her is speculative, and sounds to me like a misogynistic distortion regarding women and social media.

  5. rob22

    October 31, 2020 at 1:24 PM

    This is on Yosef. And, that said, I don’t understand why Carly went back for a second date after the way the first one went. Your first date, you’ll see them on their best behavior. That, in fact, was Yosef’s best behavior. I get that there’s a tendency, especially with a guy that traveled to see you, to try again. But again, the day time portion of the second date didn’t go well, and she still drove back in the evening. It’s quite fitting that he didn’t even hang out for her.

  6. shenanigans

    November 1, 2020 at 6:00 PM

    Wow, the internet is a tough place. So many people are ready to blame women for everything that men do wrong. Damn….

  7. jenscho

    November 2, 2020 at 5:27 PM

    This podcast length would have been cut in half is she didn’t say the word “like” so much!

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