You know, if you missed the live stream, you know, I told you about the Jen spoilers, but I think one of the entertaining parts of the live stream last night was I went back to 2015 and I retold a story that nobody knew about.
I’d hinted at it in the last couple of weeks and I, you know, short, Brief mentions about it. But since last week’s live stream, I actually went back into my texts and found the texts that my ex sent me on May 23rd, 2015. I show those in the live stream. You will be entertained by that story. I’m sure because as I found the texts during the week, I noticed how similar they were to some of the key words and phrases that Laura Owens used.
In her emails to Clayton. Like I remember during that time, how insane it was and getting the things that I was getting from my ex. But when I actually went back and read the text, I’m like, oh my gosh, there’s like five key words and phrases that my ex used in 2015 that literally Laura Owens used last year in emails to Clayton, basically to keep them around.
And that’s what my ex did. She basically faked a pregnancy to keep me around and just. And her, you know, like Laura Owens was like, Hey, here’s my neurologist report. And here’s a sonogram I stole off YouTube. My ex just sent me a screenshot of the period app in her phone and said, here’s when we were intimate.
She called them intimacy days. Here’s when, here’s when I last ended my period, here’s when we were intimate, here’s when my next period was supposed to start, and here we are on May 23rd and I’m 18 days late. That was her way of telling me I’m pregnant. Obviously, I never believed it. You see my responses in it.
I showed the, showed the text messages. This was from nine years ago. You don’t know who she is. I’m not going to reveal who she is. She’s nobody that anybody would know outside of people that are close to me. Just retelling that story and rereading those text messages. Honestly, it’s funny. And the reason that I feel like could do that it’s because one, I didn’t reveal who she was.
And number two,
I have since made up with her. Like I got all the answers that I needed about a year and a half later, after all that, and her and I are friends to this day. So, while it was a crazy time and it was a time in my life where I was just not having the ability to trust anybody after what she was doing, I mean, I only went over a little bit of it last night, stuff that I could show the stuff that was happening in person.
I could share some of the lies, but I don’t want to get too much into it. I just go to the live stream last night starts around the 18 minute mark. I might even, I might even put it in a short today on YouTube. So you can check that out, but just crazy reliving it. But I feel I can talk about it and almost giggle about it because her and I have since gotten to a better place and we’re friends and I can still text her to this day and texted her over the weekend.
So we’re, we’re cool. It just took a while to get to that point. I didn’t think in 2015 when she was sending those and threatening craziness with me and saying, Oh, I thought you should know I’m pregnant. And I’m like, by who? Cause I know it wouldn’t me, even though, yes, even though I know we had hooked up, I, I knew that she was making it up.
I just, because of the way she was in the compulsive lying, I knew it wasn’t and especially when. She tells me and her proof was screenshots of her period app in her phone. And, you know, I could download a period app in my phone and be like, okay, this is when I last started my period. This is when it ended.
This is when I had sex. And here we are 60 days later and I haven’t had my next period. My period app is going to tell me, Hey, Steve, you are X amount of days late, you know? So yeah. So she was never, and you know, she admitted to it a year and a half later. I mean, I, It’s like, I didn’t know, but I knew.
And we had a really good conversation about a year and a half later, December, Christmas time around 2016, where I just kind of went down the laundry list of things that happened in our relationship that I bit my tongue on a lot. And then I just said, Hey, did this happen? Now I made that up. Did this happen?
No, I made that up. Did it. And I, every single lie that I thought she was telling me, she admitted to. And the reason in the moment I didn’t question her on it because they were all lies that made her a victim. So if I immediately question it, I become the asshole boyfriend. And I just, it was very, very manipulative.
Kind of like what Clayton dealt with, with Laura, where you got somebody telling you all these things and they’re, they’re really good with their words and they’re putting all the blame on you and you may, it makes you question your own sanity. So yeah, I get it. I get it. Clayton. There’s really no way to segue into this so I’m just gonna do it.
I’m sure a lot of you and if you didn’t Maybe you should have. It’s being covered by a few of the entertainment outlets tonight. Yesterday, if you Google Katie Thurston she went on her Instagram story this weekend and basically said the San Diego police department failed her after she reported a rape.
She’s been waiting seven months. For an answer and I guess they, you know, she didn’t go into detail about the night in question exactly what happened. I think she probably will at some point based on what she had written because she even said, so basically she, she posted a photo of the guy, didn’t say his name and essentially said the San Diego police department failed me.
Let me see if I actually have a screenshot of it and I can read you exactly what she said. No, it looks like I deleted it, but actually. It’s right here. Hang on. She said it took seven months for the San Diego justice to let me down as a victim of rape. And underneath that, and this was on her Instagram.
So underneath that was a picture of a guy. He’s not a bachelor nation guy. We don’t know who he is. I don’t know who he is. I don’t know his name. I don’t want to know his name. And then the next day, You can, I believe, see on her Instagram stories, probably saved to her highlights, maybe they’ve gone away, but she released a 10 photo slide of the process she went through to report this.
It’s actually on her Instagram feed, so all you gotta do is read it. It’s everything she went through and, cause you might be like, well maybe she didn’t report it right away. Maybe, no, she did everything she needed to do. As a victim as a survivor, excuse me, of sexual assault. And it’s all on there. So I would say go read that.
And, you know, obviously it’s just a horrible story all around. We hate to hear about it. It now makes sense going back to love F boy Island season three, because she was promoting it every week. And then basically for the month of November, we talked about it at the time on the daily roundup. We said, Katie has basically gone silent on social media and said, she’s going to be gone for a while.
We didn’t know at the time what it was, but this is obviously what was it because she was promoting F boy Island three every week. And then as the season was winding down, you never heard a word from her. And obviously she was going through this rough time. So obviously condolences out to Katie having to deal with something like this.
And, you know, it’s, it’s awful because there are a lot of women in the same position that she is in and are failed by the justice system. So, go on her Instagram feed. If you want to see her 10 photo slide of everything that she did that. really actually is a, a positive, I guess, endorsement of rain because she said they were the greatest help they could have been to her.
So that’s what you need in, in that moment, but just, just an awful thing to hear about. And finally, did you see what Newsweek wrote about Taylor Swift? I, this is the headline of the story is Taylor Swift is not a good role model. Okay. You know, it’s like a, clearly you just want people to click on that and be like, why isn’t Taylor Swift a good role model?
Well, this man, this author, John McGillian
decided to say that Taylor is not a good role model because she quote. hasn’t yet fulfilled her evolutionary responsibilities of procreation and is unmarried. Therefore, she’s not someone who young women aspire to be. You’ve got to be kidding me. Here’s just something that he wrote. At 34, Swift remains unmarried and childless, a fact that some might argue is irrelevant to her status as a role model, but, I suggest, it’s crucial to consider what kind of example this sets for young girls.
A role model, by definition, is someone worthy of imitation. While Swift’s musical talent and business acumen are certainly admirable, even laudable, we must ask if her personal life choices are ones we want our sisters and daughters to emulate. This might sound like pearl clutching preaching, but it’s a concern rooted in sound reasoning.
No it’s not. It’s a misogynistic hot take that you did to get clicks. What a jerk off. Look, it has nothing to do with me being a huge Taylor Swift fan. He said this about anybody in that same situation. Just because she’s 34 and childless, that means she can’t be looked upon as a role model to anybody?
Holy shit. You
He went on to say Swift’s highly publicized romantic life has been a source for prime tabloid Potter fodder for years. She has dated numerous high profile men Including singers Harry Styles Joe Jonas Jake Gyllenhaal more recently Travis Kelsey This revolving door of relationships may reflect the normal dating experiences of many young women in today’s world But it also raises questions about stability commitment and even love itself Should we encourage young girls to see the Swift standard as the norm or something to aspire to?
You Or should we be promoting something a little more, shall we say, wholesome? Would any loving parent reading this want their daughters to date 12 different men in a span of a few years? This is not an attack on Swift. It’s a valid question worth asking. Translation, I just slut shamed Taylor Swift for dating a bunch of different men.
And literally had the balls to say, this is not an attack on Swift. Really? Then what is it? That was an absolute attack on her and a slut shame.
What an embarrassment. So I would go find this guy. It’s John McGillian, M a C G H L I O N N. I probably pronouncing that wrong. I know everybody has to comment about Taylor and Travis because anytime there’s a story about Taylor and Travis, it draws traffic. I get it, but Newsweek publishing this absolute bash fest on Taylor because she’s 34 and childless and not married and never married just reeks of misogyny and just reeks of somebody who wants to basically go against the grain, which is everybody in the world loves Taylor and Travis and he’s like, Hmm, how can I do something different?
Oh, I know. I’ll write a column that’s completely opposite of that. And get people to really think about why she should be a role model. Shut the fuck up. What an ass clown. So stupid. God, I hate clickbait stories. Anyway. Thank you all for listening. I really appreciate it. Follow me on Apple podcasts. Also rate and review.
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