Reality Steve


The “Bachelorette” Becca – Episode 6 Recap, “He Said, She Said” Episode 1 with Ashley Spivey, & Chris Has an Apology

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-On the group date, 7 guys go to meet up with a fake Abe Lincoln and fake George Washington. In case you didn’t know, G-Dub was our first President and Good Ol’ Abe was the 16th. I’m sure Lincoln didn’t believe a word of it and probably questioned if those were even real people. I wish they would’ve shown us more of that to be honest. I wanna see Lincoln debating who former Presidents were. That’s much more interesting than watching 5 of the 7 guys stay completely out of any debate arguing, while Chris and Lincoln bitch like a couple 6th graders for what seemed like hours on end. Yes, I’m well aware that both were probably provoked by producers to talk about this during the debate, because it seemingly looked like Chris butted in JUST to make his point about Lincoln being fake. The Beccalection was a complete clusterf**k and you can thank Lincoln and Chris for continuing their pissing match in front of a 100 people.

-The governor of the Commonwealth of Virginia is there to welcome everyone to the debate, and probably immediately realized what a horrible idea this was. I mean, Colton, Wills, Garrett, Blake, and Connor basically said nothing of importance. Colton talked about a great date being with his dog and they’d get Becca’s corgi and go chill. Blake’s lessons learned so far were to be vulnerable and open blah blah blah. Zzzzzzzzzzz. Lincoln says he could totally envision a future with Becca and it never once crossed his mind to pack his bags and leave like Chris. Well you knew that would get NKOTB boy all fired up and his blood pumping. He just wants to be honest and transparent, and that’s more than he can say for some guys there. You know, like Lincoln. He’s seen the nasty side of Lincoln, he’s malicious and aggressive, and he called him a “fat f**k.” It’s on like Donkey Kong now. Well, lets just call it Donkey Kong Jr. as these two seem about as mature as the character in that video game.

-At the cocktail party, things got even worse. Lincoln got time with Becca first and admitted to her that he was scared of Chris about what he would possibly do next to him. Then said that Connor asked to move out of Chris’ room. I think. The whole thing kinda got confusing, but then again, we’re talking about Lincoln here who gets zero benefit of the doubt for anything he does. Chris interrupts Lincoln, Becca tells him what Lincoln said, and Chris flew off the handle again. What’s interesting is somehow Becca was able to remain calm and collected all while sitting across from a guy who had two giant holed in his jeans at the knee that you could’ve thrown a basketball through. I thought ripped jeans at the knee was a chick thing? Basically, I can’t take Chris seriously wearing something like that and neither should anyone else. I just hope he wasn’t wearing those when he wrote last night’s Instagram post.

-Becca is so fired up, even when her schnookie wookie dumpling head walks in the room, she asks if she can excuse herself for 5 minutes to clear her mind of all the nonsense Chris and Lincoln threw at her. So Garrett walks back into the other room with the guys and chides them for making Becca mad and ruining his time with her. You know, even though she said she’d come get him in a few minutes and she did. That’s two weeks in a row now where Becca has followed through on a promise to come get a guy after Chris was being a dumb dumb. So good on her for doing that. Once she comes back and gets Garrett, he tells her he isn’t a great speaker but reads her the closing statement he had prepared, and holy penmanship Batman, was that really Garrett’s writing that we saw on his notes he had with him? Even though it was a quick glance, I’m convinced someone else wrote those for him. That writing was waaaaaay too nice to be guys. One thing we do know now: Garrett sure has perfected the art of writing statements.

-Colton gets some alone time with Becca and comforts her to let her know although it was awkward being on the group date after he had a 1-on-1 last week, he’s cool with it and they make out, which ultimately earned him the group date rose. Here’s where I’m fairly certain production has Becca’s ear. She’s made it known since day 1 from the first impression rose to how she acted and the things she said about him that Garrett was her boo boo immediately. Yet, Garrett hasn’t gotten a group date rose through 6 episodes but Colton has gotten two. His other one came on the spa date the day he told her he hooked up with her friend. I think this is basically producers telling Becca, “Look, we know you want Garrett. And I’m sure you want to give him every rose on a group date, but that’d be waaaaaay too obvious. So give it to other people.” I mean, that’s the only explanation right? Garrett is her fiancé now yet she never gave him a group date rose for the 4 group dates he was on and Colton got two, yet he’s eliminated at #4? Goes to show group date roses aren’t all that important.

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  1. supersparklyday

    July 3, 2018 at 9:46 AM

    I think Chris’s Apology Statement was awesome. I hope he sticks to it and shows well in Paradise. Good for him, though; it shows depth.

  2. realitynyc12

    July 3, 2018 at 11:19 AM

    I think any deeply f-ed up person who posts death threats to someone because they didn’t like how they conducted themselves on a reality TV show, needs to be held accountable and have their Instagram accounts suspended systematically, enough of this insanity. Who the f do these ppl think they are to harass these people and write vile things about their mothers, etc. Disgusting. I feel bad for Chris and others having had to deal with that, can’t be easy.
    Its high time Instagram and other social media platforms develop a feature where death threats and similar language gets recognized and accounts from which it came get shut down (and owners IP addresses recorded so they can’t create new ones) Reporting these people isn’t enough, maybe if there are repercussions- these psychos will start to think twice before posting whatever comes to their disturbing empty heads without consequence.

    Great apology by Chris, I think he’ll do fine on paradise. and to be objective, his behavior, while not his finest moments, wasn’t even nearly as bad as some of the other dudes like Jean Blanc, Jordan and “Smooth Criminal Lincoln”, who blatantly lied to make Chris look way worse than he did) So I honestly don’t even think he owes people as deep of an apology for that as he gave but good for him nonetheless, shows a lot of maturity.

  3. corn29

    July 3, 2018 at 11:25 AM

    Becca’s shtick is getting old. How many times does she whine about letting other people dictate her moods?!

    Are there no safe spaces on the Bachelorette get away to? Poor snowflake.

    On three occasions now she’s brought a sour puss face to dates because of things other guys has said or done. I just don’t get why she gives away that kind of power to let other people to affect her moods in such a dramatic manner!

    We get it. It’s a bad date. It’s a bad guy. It happens to thousands of people every day in the dating world.
    You’re not special in that regard. Just move on Becca!

  4. rob22

    July 3, 2018 at 12:53 PM

    A pet peeve of mine is public apologies. All they are good for is gauging how aware the person is that they need to fall on the sword and not make excuses. Sure, the average bozo, especially from a show like this…. but hardly limited to reality TV… tries to somewhat justify their actions, make excuses, or worse, do the “sorry if I offended anyone” thing. So, those people get what they get, because they overtly reveal that they’re not really sorry through their non-apologies. It’s amazing how many people can’t admit they’re wrong and can’t even pretend that they do.

    Chris is in the other category. His apology did take responsibility, and didn’t deflect blame or make excuses. So, I’m not saying that’s bad, but all it means is that somebody grabbed him by the ears and told him what he needed to do if he didn’t want to extend the cycle of hate he’s now experiencing (which is another issue altogether). It doesn’t mean he’s “really sorry”. It doesn’t mean he will actually change something. The whole apology is fairly meaningless. It’s meaningless because, #1, it’s a reality show, he broke no laws, he hurt nobody, and 3 days from now nobody will ever remember who Chris is, much less his apology. But #2, it doesn’t mean that Chris is really sorry and will or even wants to make any changes in his life. Odds are, this is who Chris is and will continue to be. But again, see #1. Nobody will care after the holiday, though they’ll be briefly reminded during MTA. Public apologies are just really dumb. Always.

  5. adelina

    July 3, 2018 at 1:15 PM

    I thought that Chris’ “apology” post was lame given that he posted over and over again what he thought he SHOULD say and then accompanies said apology with a pensive posed picture against a wall. Gimme a break!! Overkill. Dude needs to say something as simple as “sorry I came off as such an a## on the show. Moving on…”

    I’m going to doubt that he received many death threats. Dude just doesn’t have a real strong sense of self – it’s as simple as that.

  6. jlal

    July 3, 2018 at 3:28 PM

    Call me crazy but Wills reminds me of the blond chick that had the real affected voice last season. She tried to say she had a sore throat or some such crap and everyone hated her. His half mast eyelids, voice, and manner remind me of her. Also noticed when Chris was making his last ditch effort he said “…you should feel..”, and “You can feel that way”, good of him to give Becca instructions on how she should and can feel. He also said me and I too many times to count. What a egotistical ahole.

  7. jlal

    July 3, 2018 at 3:29 PM

    One question, what is a DM?

  8. Caroll

    July 3, 2018 at 3:56 PM

    DM is direct message on Twitter. Private message.
    Google it.

  9. jlal

    July 3, 2018 at 4:32 PM

    Thanks Caroll. I’m a Google freak, but had just read it in RS’s recap and just wondered.

  10. elizabeth82

    July 4, 2018 at 9:52 AM

    “Becca is so fired up, even when her schnookie wookie dumpling head walks in the room, she asks if she can excuse herself for 5 minutes to clear her mind of all the nonsense Chris and Lincoln threw at her.” HA!

  11. bearsiren

    July 9, 2018 at 10:54 PM

    Reality Steve needs to stop being such a bitch.

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