Reality Steve

Bachelor in Paradise 7 Spoilers

The “Bachelorette” Katie – Ep 1 Thoughts, Chris Harrison Out as Host, BIP Cast Rumors & Notes, and Info on the 2021 Reality Steve Fan Appreciation Party

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And we’re baaaaaaaaaaaack! Three months off the grid for the most part, but here we go again. Assuming the “Bachelor” gets picked up for 2022 and airs in it’s normal spot (first Monday in January 2022) you realize we have 9 straight months of Bachelor Nation programming, don’t you? Katie’s season started last night. We already know that BIP premieres on Aug. 16th, which means if it sticks to its 6 week airing schedule that it has for their first 6 seasons, it’ll finish right around Sept. 20th. Last year, Clare’s season started airing first or second week of October, which is when I expect Michelle’s season to start airing. That’ll take us to the second to last week of December, then right into “Bachelor” season, which runs til mid March. So yep, while there may not have been much activity on this site since Matt’s finale (like there hasn’t been for the last 3 years in the offseason), you are now basically looking at 9 straight months of stuff to cover. Recaps on Tuesdays, “Reader Emails” on Wednesdays, and podcasts on Thursdays. We have a lot to go over on these first couple pages before getting to last night’s recap, so bear with me. Announcements to make, spoilers to go over, and just general talk about this show.

Get your “Reader Emails” in today to have them for tomorrow’s column. Obviously I haven’t had many emails sent in the last few months, and most wouldn’t be relevant to what’s happening now. I know some may have questions regarding everything that happened a couple months ago, but I feel I addressed that in my column and podcast back on 4/29 and in the column and podcast on 5/27. I’ve said what I’ve said on the matter, I’m going to be better moving forward, so continuously talking about it makes it seem like I’m going backwards. Everything’s been addressed and I feel like I’ve done some things and will continue to do some things differently moving forward. I’ve learned from what happened, I’ve reached out to those who I affected, and I believe I’ve made the changes necessary to better. That’s all I can do. I hope you understand.

Since COVID wiped it out last year and we had a waiting list to attend, I’ve decided that we are bringing the Reality Steve Fan Appreciation Party back later this summer. It’s going to take place Friday, Aug. 27th at the Rio All-Suite Hotel & Casino in Las Vegas. If you were set to come last year, unfortunately, there is no guarantee this year. I have to open it up to everyone again since it’s impossible to know if the ones confirmed for the party in June of 2020 that got canceled because of COVID can all make it this year. It’s first come first serve starting today. HOWEVER, there will be one major change to being able to attend this year. You will need to show proof of vaccination to me via email. I understand this may upset some of you, but, I don’t know what else to tell you. I’m sure there are vaccinated people that want to attend that may still not be comfortable being around unvaccinated people. That’s who this is for. Personally for me, I’m fine either way. But if I’m going to hold a party like this, I want everyone in attendance to know that everyone else there is vaccinated. It’s my party and this is how I’m choosing to do it this year. Please don’t email me with your displeasure, or saying it’s not fair, or send me some links to anything. For me, this is the safest way to hold the party this year. 1) There will be another party next year where I highly doubt I’ll ask for vaccination proof. 2) It’s just a party. This isn’t a huge deal if you can’t make it bc you’re not vaccinated. It’s ok. Just please let me choose to handle my party as I choose for this one year.

So first come, first serve. There is no cost to attend my party. However this year I’d like just a little help if you’d be so kind. All I’m asking is any donation you can make to the Reality Steve Fan Appreciation Party where, as you’ll see, all donations will go towards the Genesis Women’s Shelter and Support in Dallas. This is not to cover any costs of the party. It would mean a lot if any of you attending, or even ones that can’t attend, would donate something to help those women in need here locally. I’ve never asked for money to attend my party, but this year I wanted to reach out and help an organization in conjunction with my party, so this is how I chose to do it. You don’t have to donate anything if you don’t want. And not donating will not prevent attendance into the party. It’s just something I want to add to the party this year and in the years going forward. I appreciate any donations any of you may make. Thanks.

So, your confirmation into the party is (if you’re flying in), a flight itinerary and a screenshot of your vaccination card. You maybe black out any info you don’t want me to see on the vaccination card. People who are locals or are close enough to drive to Vegas and aren’t flying in, I’ve set aside x amount of spots for you, but you have to let me know ASAP if you’re interested, as there’s no guarantee I’ll be able to get you on the list. Out of towners who are flying in get first priority since they’re spending money on a ticket. If they’re willing to do that, they get entrance into the party. However, there is a limited number of spaces, so depending on how many people respond, we’ll see how quickly it fills up. Last year, it was filled up within 2 weeks and there was a waiting list of people who weren’t quick enough to email me. I can only take a certain amount, so like I said, it’s first come first serve, especially to those flying in. Unfortunately, I’m telling you right now not everyone that responds I’ll have room for. I’m sorry, but I only have a certain amount of people I can allow. So email me at to let me know if you’re interested, if you’re flying in, your flight confirmation, and your proof of vaccination. Thanks and look forward to hearing from you.

Breaking news just this morning as, according to reports, Chris Harrison is leaving the Bachelor franchise for good. I guess we can expect a formal announcement later today, and maybe we’ll get a statement from him at some point. I guess I’m a little surprised since I assumed he would be back for the next “Bachelor” season around January of 2022. But I guess that’s not happening. So yeah, I’m surprised. I knew he wouldn’t be on Katie’s season or BIP, that was too early to be brought back. Then I didn’t think he’d be on Michelle’s season either. “Bachelor” made the most sense. And the last we heard from Chris, he was on GMA saying he wanted to be back and expected to be back. So this was clearly not his decision and he was forced out. Did I think at the time he should’ve been held accountable? Absolutely. I also thought he’d eventually get brought back. Maybe there’s more to the story here than we know right now, but it’s definitely a little surprising he’s never coming back. I’ll live, and I think the franchise will live as well. While he was the face of it, he didn’t have a major on air role ever. This franchise can succeed without him. However, they still need to make changes with how this show is cast and produced for it to continue to thrive. Chris wasn’t/isn’t their biggest issue. If Chris came back, I would’ve been fine with it. Now that he’s not, I’m still fine with it. He just wasn’t that big of deal to me either way. My job is to cover and spoil the show as long as it’s on air, regardless of who’s hosting it.

There are spoilers to get to on Page 2 regarding Katie’s season, and all the early intel I have on “Bachelor in Paradise.”

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  1. wisewords

    June 8, 2021 at 10:14 AM

    I did not care for the double host combo at all. That was just a bad idea. They should have had one or the other.

  2. dbla31

    June 8, 2021 at 10:56 AM

    I really liked the Kaitlyn and Tayshia combo. It allows not only for them to interact with Katie, but for them to comment on the goings on in a way that couldn’t happen with just one host. It’s like a fun girl group. And since they are both engaged there is no actual competition from them for the guys. I did think Katie worrying about having to “handle this on her own” and having K&T surprise her was ridiculous. No way could she have possibly thought ABC was sending her out there without a “chaperone.” And I’m sure they all met plenty of times beforehand to cement their friendship and help with chemistry. Overall not a bad first night.

  3. shelly7878

    June 8, 2021 at 12:46 PM

    I had no reaction to the double hostess. But it was an ok first night. Some of the scenes were amusing. Kimmel was so funny with the OMG. And yeah glad you are having your party – can’t go but glad we are normal enough to have it.
    I really tried to find the jerk that said that horrible thing to Ashley but as you said taken down. I was going to give her a piece of my mind. I was appalled just blown away at how mean it was. Not that it would do any good – people are not nice these days.
    Just an observation – I don’t think you should shy away from what you report. So many of the Bachelor world has reached out to you to help when false information is published etc….so all of this is nonsense and foolishness. Can we just go back to spoilers and fun stuff and stop with all the toxic. Sheez

  4. kayakguy

    June 8, 2021 at 1:31 PM

    Rather than watching the same, boring, rehashed storylines this season, after watching every episode of all prior 42 seasons, I’m binge watching Bachelor Canada and Married at First Sight instead this summer. Still may tune in for BIP though…

  5. adelina

    June 8, 2021 at 2:49 PM

    I didn’t mind the two hosts last night and really don’t care that Harrison is no longer taking part.

    I am disappointed to have to see Nick “slushy voice thirst trap try hard” Viall on BIP. He is insufferable.

  6. snyjes

    June 9, 2021 at 8:07 AM

    Nick “slushy voice thirst trap try hard” Viall. LOL

  7. tigen14

    June 14, 2021 at 7:49 PM


  8. tigen14

    June 14, 2021 at 7:57 PM

    Nick Viall has to one of the smarmiest, oiliest bohunks ever. I quite literally cringe whenever that leering smile crosses the screen. Isn’t his 15 minutes up yet? Who is he blackmailing to keep getting more on-air time? I’m truly trying to curb my instincts here and not unleash a litany of abusive slurs on the cur so I’m signing off. I try to contain myself but I usually escape! ?

  9. idontcare

    June 17, 2021 at 12:17 PM

    What is with the paranoia of people who are vaccinated worried to be around people who are not vaccinated? What is the point of being vaccinated if you are still afraid of those who aren’t? It just doesn’t make any sense. Shaking my head.

  10. idontcare

    June 17, 2021 at 12:20 PM

    And if the people who are paranoid or worried about someone spreading the virus that is easily squashed by asking for a current Covid test to attend the party, easy Peasy.

  11. idontcare

    June 17, 2021 at 12:27 PM

    It was not at all surprising to me that Chris Harrison was leaving the franchise. Once someone gets a bit of a spanking and time off they start hearing all of the he said she said stuff that has been going on behind their back‘s and they realize that there are other opportunities I had for them so it usually does end and they’re not returning to their job. I expected this from the moment Chris announced time off. I knew it would be permanent, it just makes sense.

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