-Jason’s turn for his inevitable break up that we as an audience are all aware of since Becca tells us in all her ITM’s she has stronger feelings for two other guys, but Jason is completely in the dark. And you know what? Even without him knowing any of what she’s saying behind his back, he basically should’ve gotten the hint the second she saw him in Chiang Mai, and she didn’t do the jump and straddle. Sure, she may have had a skirt on, but she would’ve found a way if she really wanted him. That’s our Becca. Only jump and straddle the ones you truly love. And the ones you truly really, really, really, really like a lot, they get the skirt treatment on the date so you don’t have to jump in their arms like a baby chimpanzee.
-They went shopping in the Sunday market, ate crickets, talked about their future together and Becca had to excuse herself because that’s when she realized she didn’t see any sort of future with Jason. I thought maybe it could’ve been the crickets eating away at her stomach, but no, she was being honest with herself and said, “In that moment, when I pictured the future together, I couldn’t see him in that picture.” So she goes off and talks with producers while Jason has to sit alone and contemplate if finally after six weeks, the amount of hair gel he soaks his hair in has finally run it’s course, Becca is completely turned off by it and now she knows what she has to do. I mean, don’t women like running their hands through their man’s hair? How would Becca possibly do this with Jason without having both hands covered in Vidal Sassoon and looking like the kid in middle school who used to put Elmer’s glue all over his hands? Reason enough to break up if you ask me.
-Over dinner, they talk about hometowns and Jason opens up about how much he loved her meeting his family and he was so open about how in love he is with her to them. Then he asks her, “Where’s your head at?” I’m sure her honest answer was, “Well, on Blake and Garrett” but she was kind enough to not drop that on him just yet. But, again she excused herself from the table because she was having trouble breathing. I’m not sure what Becca’s deal is, but leaving during the middle of a date twice in the same day, uhhhhhh, if Jason couldn’t see what was coming, he probably should’ve. She says in her ITM when she’s away the same thing she essentially said earlier in the episode, which was she’s falling for Jason, but she’s in love with two other men. And this is the dagger in the relationship that she needs to end now before all the product in Jason’s hair comes streaming down his face in this humidity and gets in their food.
-Becca: “For the longest time, I could see everything with you…I can’t put you through an overnight that I’m not 100% there.” Jason: “So you’re confident that you don’t see a future with us?” Becca: “I’m not.” Jason: “So you’re sayin’ there’s a chance?” Ok, he didn’t say the last part, but by golly, it sure seemed like that’s what he was after. He tried reeeeeeeal hard to get that overnight date. Like, “Yeah, yeah, that’s great and all you aren’t feeling it now. But are you sure you can’t make up your mind AFTER we spend the night. I won’t mind.” Yeah, that Jedi mind trick didn’t work on Becca no matter how hard Jason pushed for it. She’d made up her mind she wasn’t even gonna whip out the silly fantasy date card to read since Jason wasn’t gonna get any.
-From this point, we see her walk him away, cry about how she let a great guy go, then we see the clip I discuss on page 1 of her saying “I just did the same thing that Arie did to me,” even though the season preview had one word different and changed the whole story. Tons of people asked last night on Twitter what order the overnight dates were filmed in. Honestly, I don’t know. The only pics I had from Thailand were the two I posted of her with Garrett, but I don’t remember the date on them. If I had that date, I could maybe figure out when his was, but I’m not sure about the other two. It’s certainly possible Jason’s was done last, since it seems like any other time someone was let go like this in the past, they didn’t have a date afterwards where they kept their mouth shut about it. But I could easily be forgetting an instance.
